Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Search Results: ask out
Is this security guy flirting with me or just being friendly at work?
So I like this guy and he works in the same facility I do but he’s more police/security and every time I go through the gate I have to show my ID if he’s there hell always give me a wink and a smile. I don't know if this...
MaeMay
Xper 1 Age: 41 
Anonymous
(36-45) What is a powerful lesson God has taught you through a dream?
One for me was that I went on two separate fishing trips: On the first trip I was expecting to love my time there, on the second trip I was expecting to be bored and unhappy, and then the trip I thought I would not like...
Is my boyfriend’s follow–unfollow behavior on Instagram a red flag?
I noticed that my boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram. So I asked one girl to send him a follow request, and he accepted it and followed her back. He didn't send any text to her, though. What bothers me is that he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Was I actually in danger with this older limo driver or just paranoid?
Was in my early 20’s working at my dad’s spot & learned who the regulars were over time. One was this Italian limo driver, always known him by his first name, always tries his luck with me, but I always declined....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do people stay in situationships instead of defining the relationship?
I don’t mean to sound condescending, but I don’t understand how people get into these types of relationships for several months or even years. Why don’t people ask what their other person’s intentions are upfront and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my quiet coworker actually into me or just being friendly?
So I’ve been working at my job for a few weeks now, and there’s this guy I work with who’s really attractive. He mostly keeps to himself I never really see him talking to anyone but he’s spoken to me a few times. The...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my 54M coworker actually asking me (32F) out on a date?
Did my 54M coworker ask me (32F) out? He also hid his date from me. What is this? He has always been flirty with me for more than a year, sometimes made worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me but he has never made...
useful_mind
Xper 1 Age: 31 Why does everyone seem more attractive in this new country than me?
A single guy in a new country, I noticed everything one I see over here is much more attractive then my own country's Especially girls. It's difficult to actually approach someone who is hell of more attractive and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever countered an "act of service" with an "act of disservice" to camouflage your feelings for a person?
Perhaps it's just something that happens in city environments, but I've found that bc I do a lot of community service I don't pick up on a guy doing an act of service for me... My mind glosses right over them, I think, bc...
Why do girls act interested then suddenly date someone else instead of me?
Hello i am 20 years old and i never had a girlfriend!!! I don't easily fall for someone and i could probably count girls i really liked on finger The problem is that i follow same exact patern and it happened 3 times in...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why do coworkers suddenly avoid me and go quiet when I’m around?
I’m autistic and I work in an autism school. I’ve been working there since October of last year and I am isolated. At first people were nice and enjoyed talking to me but after a while they have changed. They look at me...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I turn down a coworker’s crush politely without hurting my job prospects?
I am a student on work placement, well into adulthood. I’ve noticed that one of the male trainers there around my age seems to have a big crush on me. I’ll be working on a task for my tafe assignment and I’ll see him...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would a woman chase me to talk but avoid exchanging numbers?
So basically I was at a campfire with my church group that some guy was hosting and when I had to leave, the girl that had to move her car behind me literally ran over to me as I was getting in my vehicle and said she was...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 He hasn’t opened my message in a day—does that mean he’s not interested?
It is someone from here, we have been talking for a while. We connected a lot. He asked to move to social media. We added each other. It is the first time we are able to see each other's pics and all. I messaged him on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend posts us but won’t add me on Facebook—what’s going on?
He post my pictures and us together, but he doesn't want to add me on Facebook. Im confused. I asked him and he doesn't say much. Why doesn't he want to add me?
Anonymous
(30-35) My fiancé posts our photos but won’t add me on Facebook—why?
He post all my pictures and pictures of us together, but he doesn't want me on his friends list or one of his friends. Im confused. I asked him and he doesn't say much. Am I overreacting? Why doesn't he want to add me?
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Girls, is being 180 cm tall a requirement for you to date a guy?
I met my ex while we were sitting across from each other. She said that I was actually pretty handsome, but that my height was too short. I’m 174 cm and she was 160 cm. When I asked what she had expected, she said she...
Anonymous
(18-24) 