Search Results: first thing to notice

Guys, is it possible this guy had feelings at all?

So the situation is a bit of a complicated one, but I’ll make it short. It didn’t have to be complicated, but I definitely made it complicated I’ll be honest about that. met a guy that I really hit it off with, the vibes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the likelihood of a woman changing her mind if she says that she just wants to be friends with benefits?

I’ve been friends with benefits with this girl for almost eight months now. She had just gotten out of a (sexually frustrating) relationship with a man and said that she just wanted to blow off some steam. Also, she says...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How important are men's shoes for women?

I used to be the guy that had like 3 pairs of shoes: one worn-out pair for everyday use, boots when the weather demanded it and some fancy, highly uncomfortable shoes for a special event. Glad to say I've come a long way...

Tarifa

Yoda Age: 45

Does my coworker like me or not?

Please help me to decypher whether he likes me or not. Things he does that makes me think he's interested: very good eye contact, his face lights up when we lock eyes, greets me very cheerfully compared to others tries to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Have you noticed what a really REALLY bad job Pres. Trump is doing at that "HitlerMisogynist" thing? Does anyone here actually that BS from Democrats?

President Trump is doing a really REALLY bad job at that Hitler/Misogynist thing. He has already filled some of his most important Cabinet positions with women and Jews. ========================================= Kristi...

RingOfFire

Guru Age: 71

Is this aspect of our relationship toxic?

To preface, we’ve known each other for a year (we went on dates, it was a situationship, he wasn’t ready for me to be his girlfriend due to him wanting to advance in life first, he was doing the boyfriend duties and we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy I started dating purposefully doesn’t want to sleep with me right away. Is this a good thing? Is he not attracted to me?

I met this guy online and we’ve been talking a month every day all day. We really clicked and developed feelings within this time. We shared pics, phone calls. We sexted some. We both don’t do this often. It was genuine...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you ever listen to your unsuccessful friends advice?

I've noticed a lot of female friends of mine seem to always take advice from women who are single with children, extremely undesirable in multiple ways, and spend most of their time trying to highly negative things or...

Malbonaviro

Xper 1 Age: 36

What should I do?

I have liked a guy for around 9 months and I can’t move on and he’s not doing anything. When he first saw me he was extremely attracted to my looks he couldn’t take his eyes off me, we had a few interactions as he works...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend is really anal about small details that dont matter. What should I do?

My boyfriend gets really particular about how I should do things. For example, he asked me to cook a certain dish that be likes. His first comments were that I used more onions than necessary, then he comes back and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I confess to my boy best friend (again) or just silently give up?

Hi everyone! So we met back in college and it’s been about 10 years. I had a crush when we first met and I confessed after a year ish of knowing each other, but he said that he wanted to keep our friendship the same and...

itsmemarissa

Xper 1 Age: 31

Does she like me or not , should I find another person?

The girl and i are friend in past,. we are coworker and a moment we became close when we sharing same games and she tell me she is single not directly Yeah things gone right 3 month, like hangout together in group and...

Vinsfell

Xper 2 Age: 27

Final conclusion on 3 years of online dating, for men over 40, what to look for and expect.

First, I really want to say that there are some really good people to be found on line. There's no doubt about that fact. In saying that, you really have to temper your expectations, and be practical and realistic about...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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I distanced myself from my boyfriend after seeing him cry for the first time. Any advice?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and everything was going well until almost a month ago when he cried for the first time. His mom was suddenly hospitalized (she’s fine now), and seeing him break down really...

fairytale

Xper 5 Age: 32

Entertainment & Arts

Is it possible for observation skills to improve as the years go and what could have caused it?

This week, I was watching a YouTube video I watched around 13 years ago and I was far more sensitive and observant of details now than I was the first time I watched it. I noticed so many things I did not notice the first...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Society & Politics

Everything can be bought. Even justice.

An expensive lawyer will buy you a winning case in court. Raising lots of funds for advertising will buy you more votes. Lobbying will buy you the laws, and the legislators. Those laws will buy you more rights to use your...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

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What is the first thing you notice about a girl?

QueenTaly

Xper 6 Age: 19

Girl's Behavior

What's the first thing you notice when she's in the mood but trying to play it cool 🍆👀?

Okay, fellas, real talk, when you're just chillin' with your girl, and she starts doing those little flirty things, acting all innocent, do you catch on right away? 😏 Like, she’s over there playing with her hair, giving...

Elaris

Xper 1 Age: 28