Search Results: how to change his mind

My boyfriend of 3 years won’t propose. Is it possible that he doesn't love me?

I've been dating my boyfriend for three and a half years, and I've always been clear about wanting to get married. He keeps pushing the timeline back, and every time I bring it up, he seems to agree just to end the...

tarra

Xper 5 Age: 40

My boyfriend says I stress him out and that's why he doesn't like to spend time with me. What should I say to this?

So I barely talk to my boyfriend anymore and when i talked to him about spending more time together and talking more, he told me i add more stress to his already stressed life, mind you i give him space, i barley talk to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did he say we're not together after 4 months?

What does it mean if a guy says I'm not his girlfriend & we're not officially together yet after texting, calling, regularly dating, introducing me to his friends, buying me stuff & having sex for 4 months? We're 20. In...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I accidently friend zoned a very good friend and now he says he made a mistake. What do I do?

I recently became friends with this guy and our friendship has been great. Our friendship is exactly the kind I've been looking for. When we first met I was taking a break from relationships and he knew that. Fortunately...

Anonymous

(18-24)

AITA for wanting to cut off a guy who only talks about sex?

This guy and I matched on Hinge, both saying we are looking for something serious/intentional dating. He told me that he wants a relationship but is into cuckold stuff also. I told him that I like his energy/personality...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Entertainment & Arts

What’s your favorite Tame Impala song?

I love his music so much 😭😭😭 My favorite Tame Impala songs: Expectation, List of people (to try and forget about), Borderline, One More Hour, Lost in Yesterday, Love/Paranoia, The Boat I Row, Mind Mischief, The Moment,...

JustinTheGreat

Influencer Age: 28

If a man already knows I'm not in love with him, then no one is using each other right?

I've been in contact with my friend (27 M) from my early college years since Sept of last year. He recently offered me to take me to Canada. He has both the US and Canada passports. He was born in New Jersey but his...

Daydreaming98

Xper 3 Age: 28

If a local girl/guy (stranger) asked you out on a date, how soon (days wise) would you feel comfortable going out with them?

PLEASE READ!!! So initially he said “just let me know when because I get it, you barely know me” (mf ion know you at all). Then it changed to “Lets go tomorrow” as if i’d know him so much more well by then. Well I got to...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

M/25 broke up w me f/24 after five years of dating due to long distance but is now talking to a girl he met on the internet. how do I win him back?

my boyfriend recently just broke up with me. i started a new job that requires me to travel about a year ago. i get to come home for 3-7 days and then leave for a week or two. he encouraged me to take this job and pursue...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Invited crush over but he said yes and then cancelled? why?

I invited my crush to watch a show with me on Friday and he said he’s down and sounded enthusiastic about it. However on Saturday midday he messaged saying he’s not feeling well and wants to stay in. He doesn’t make any...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I deal with the feeling that I ruined my chances to potentially be with a great guy?

I say potentially because I'm only 80% sure he liked me but the signs were there. I've started falling for my coworker after we had some great conversations and I realized he's basically male version of me but when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to actually know if someone is using you?

We will have our internship soon. Initially, he was planning to go back to his country and do it there. Out of nowhere, he ask me where i would do my internship and he would like to follow. To my surprise i ask him, why...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy friend you’ve known for a while says would you and him ever go on a date, he asks jokingly?

Guy friend randomly asks me if I would go on a date with him. For context, my girl best friend is his roommate has a crush on him and was hoping that moving in with him would seal the deal for her. I don’t think it’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

What do you feel about leftists who claims to be for equality, but fail to trash talk Democrats with the same vigor they trash on Republicans?

For example all the leftists who claims to be for equality, heaped negativity on Trump about the border wall, but so far have failed to share direct their negativity to Biden after he changed his mind regarding the wall

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy ogles other girls but sneaks glances at me?

There is a guy who I never really considered dating but I have changed my mind. I noticed he ogles other girls but will only sneak glances at me out of the side of his eye. He seemed really embarassed when he saw me after...

Radiate143

Xper 6 Age: 26

Why is he being like this with me?

We’ve been talking for a while and been on a couple of dates. Well he asked to stay the night with me one night since he works 7 days a week he barley has any free time and if it’s okay to do so. And of course I said yes....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this a red flag that my boyfriend is changing in a negative way?

My boyfriend and I have been together just a year now and he’s very genuine to me, funny, caring, loyal and clingy. However, lately he’s been acting more outgoing, not to females but wanting to do more things than before...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever forgiven someone who severely hurt you? Why/Why not/how did you forgive them?

For me, forgiveness is a journey, and in the end, it improved who I am as a person and made my future relationships better. I was in an abusive relationship that consisted of mental and physical abuse, manipulation and...

Anonymous

(36-45)