Search Results: is he really just busy

matched with someone on 2 other OLD apps before we matched again on this one. The 1st time, maybe 2-3 msgs were exchanged before I deleted the app. 2nd time, we move to IG & he initiates wanting to meet up but I was put off by the fact that he never looks at my stories/reacts to posts but wants to meet in person. I just feel like you should show some kind of interest in my personal life if you’re quick to meet in person. This time around, he asks how I’m doing and actually talks about something interesting, which is what makes me reconsider. For about 2 wks to this past weekend, we’d message maybe 1-2x a day on the OLD app but it was 24 hrs before he replied again to me. He asked the last weekend if I’d be interested in doing some kind of activity with him. Tbh, I was busy last weekend & he said next (this) week might be better b/c he’s also busy but the fact reply time isn’t the 2x daily anymore (he still replies within the 24 hrs so far & I can take a bit longer), I just feel that along with the lack of engagement on social media implies I should just stop it in it’s tracks.

So I met this guy, went out on a date and we hung out multiple times, and I really enjoyed spending time with him.. My family came to visit me for a week so I didn't get to see him other than once since I was spending time with family.. His communication started changing.. He'd leave me on read or take hours to reply.. so I ended up texting him what's in the texts.. and his response. We haven't spoken sense. I haven't really reached out because if he is busy and being honest I don't wanna bother him. But we've also only known each other a few weeks. I'm not sure if I was overthinking or if he really just isn't interested and for some reason lied in his response. Either way.. I don't know. Should I reach out to him to see how he is doing? Or just let it be? I just don't wanna be texting him and him not actually wanting to hear from me..