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Why would he do this to me?
I really need opinions/support about this. So I went on a hinge date last week and it ended up being the best date of my entire life. Before the date, he was really intense over text saying: "you're probably the one" & "I...
izzie_morris
Xper 6 Age: 23 Guys, Why didn't he acknowledge me (just would like some outside perspective on the situation)?
For background: A few months ago, I developed feelings for a coworker. He gave me mixed signals that led me to believe he was somewhat interested in me too, and he could tell I liked him. Before I left the job, I gave him...
Annoyingly_ShyGirl
Xper 4 Age: 25 Confused about what this guy really wants his behavior is inconsistent?
I met a guy in 2020 when I hired him to do a service for me. About two years later, he reached out and asked for my number. At first I thought he was interested in getting to know me, but once we started texting, he was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did I jump the gun in ending things with him?
Him: What have your past situations/relationships taught you to make things better for your “swolemate”? Me: 😂 “Swolemate” is actually hilarious, I respect it. As for what I’ve learned — I’ve learned the...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to differentiate between a genuine guy and a guy who is just a player?
While I am going to stick by myself for now, military guy messaged me and said he's looking for a wife but at the same time is looking for someone to sleep with. I'm not falling for that again especially after what...
I'm confused, am I doing anything wrong?
Hello! So, I'd like to ask: Why are men not interested in me? I'm 19 (F), still in highschool and I'm graduating this year. I have around 2 girl friends, but I wouldn't say we're close. They open up to me a lot, but I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are some guys just completely oblivious to what they want from a woman?
I find that some guys really turn on the charm and get a girl all caught up... only to seem surprised at the girl's reaction. Sometimes I feel like it HAS to be gaslighting, but other times I wonder... is the guy just...
GUYS HELP WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?
just to retell, me and my crush were talking about random stuff, we both ran outta things to say so we just stared at eachother and I cannot keep eye contact to save my life 😭 I started to look away at the ground but...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Are women attracted to rarity?
There is this guy on insta who is popular 6’6, muscly and handsome and you look at the comments and it’s flooding with women just in heaven. Like this 😍😍😍 No other guy can do that. Like if you’re a normal guy or under...
Anonymous
(25-29) How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?
I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Unbalance in how much time you spend together?
I have had a few serious relationships in the past, unfortunately one on them got mental, the other developed an addiction after something devestating happened in his life to help get him through. Both these guys came...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 How do you deal with toxic people?
I like to bait them into thinking they're setting me up so I get all the benefit but then make sure their reversal plan backfires. But I'll do it in a way that makes me look blissfully unaware of what I'm doing. It's the...
Do you think we value things because they are scarce and not necessarily because we value them for their own traits?
Like I was thinking today, if I could have any good looking guy I wanted, I would no longer care how good looking guys were, and would go entirely by personality and intelligence when choosing somebody to date. When I was...
Guys, Do you find Victoria Secret models way too skinny/underweight?
I personally find them underweight because I understand models are pressured to look that way. From their diets to their vigorous exercise routines… I’m not sure if my body size at a healthy weight will attract any man,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you marry a girl that isn’t a v*rgin?
For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me. Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why can't they understand the reason I prefer bad girls?
Hey, good girls! Yes, I am talking to quiet girls and trad conservative girls! Yeah, you! Guess what? You are boring. As a good decent wholesome MASCULINE male, I prefer bad girls because they are confident, tough, and...
Vividga6
Xper 1 Age: 29 Precisely what are these guys fishing for? (When does a guy give up?)?
A former friend (M55) was at a bar, fishing for a gal 1/2 his age: Bc he TRULY BELIEVES he's "all that and a bag of chips" he approaches her. She asks "Where are you from? Really? OMG! SOO random! Me too... But that's a...
Why everytime we see in public there’s tension?
Today I saw a guy that used to talk to in 2022. We went to one date. Things didn’t go well and we stopped talking. It ended in bad terms. He was the one who cut things off Today I saw him in public after 6 months. I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can people be like this?
Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...
Alxve
Xper 4 Age: 19 Ever instantly hated a teacher on the very first day?
So for me this was kind of an odd situation. It was back in 6th grade of middle school. It was my history class. The "real" teacher for the class only came in for literally the FIRST TWO days of the whole school year...
EzraIsShy76028
Xper 7 Age: 24 