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A few weeks ago, a young woman here asked how to forgive and pray for the guy who raped her. Though there weren't a ton of answers, everyone on that thread except me either told her not to or questioned her as to why she should or would.

I've been pondering this a lot since. Should people forgive serious offenses against them? Why or why not?

Do you think most people's romantic "love" to each other is based on superficial conditional things first (height, money, good looks in men, or hot body in women)?

Or is it that most people who end up in long term relationships are "truly meant for each other" and would've found each other, regardless of looks, height, social status, age, etc?

Notice I said MOST (60 to 90% of people), not all. Obviously, my answer is no. I'm physically unattractive and have literally nothing going for me in looks/physical, so I can confirm that "personality alone" isn't enough to make "love happen."

But that's just what I think. What do you think?

Inspired by this question here.