Guys, soo, about lady treatment... How do ladies want to be treated?

[AssholeNumberOne]

It varies from lady to lady. The only way to get a really raw answer is to ask her straight out,if you have the balls.

But,the extremes of lady treatment are full on gentleman, or no different from the boys. There are in betweens, too.

But me? I honestly hate getting any special treatment because of my genitals. I didn't earn this. I didn't ASK for it. I hate it because it makes me feel weaker and needing special treatment to survive. Like, hello? I'm not gonna die if the men get served first at a potluck!

(And yet that's what the people at my church stubbornly refuse to do for the sexist reasons that women are like delicate vases that have to be protected and men are heaps of steel who are worthless compared to women. It's not just the potluck misandry, they're always saying who "should" be the leader in a marriage, and it's not women. So yeah, plenty of sexism to go around for everyone there. Anyway)

On the titanic for instance, the whole women-and-children first, hate it. Do women deserve to live more than men? No. And that's what they're saying if they say that.

So yeah, I'd prefer if a guy treats me EXACTLY like he would another guy. 😁👌 Being himself. No special treatment whatsoever. Cuz I believe, that special treatment for one gender but not the other, is no "gender equality." #genderequality #genderequalityforall

Feel free to ask any questions about how I'd like to be treated in a certain situation. I'm all ears

[MrOracle]

You may really, truly want equality, but most women do not. Most women today want the advantages of equality AND the advantages of gender norms, but with none of the responsibilities of either. They want to be Modern Women (strong, independent, "I don't need no man!") and yet feel entitled to a strong, successful alpha male, who makes more than she does and pays for everything and upgrades her lifestyle, but he needs to see her as an equal. Talk about contradictions!

The truth is that men and women ARE different, and it's not bad or wrong for there to be different expectations and responsibilities for each of us. It's also OK if you want to be equals and you find a man who agrees.

What you can't do is have it both ways, because men have learned, the hard way, that it's better to walk away and be alone. And men are much better equipped to be alone than women are, especially over the age of 35.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Heyy, it's Mr Oracle

[Nik1hil]

Too much truth in 1 opinion

[ChiTown33]

Spot on as always Mr. Oracle.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Down with toxic feminity!

[AssholeNumberOne]

-Femininity. Feminism. Down with toxic feminism!

[MrOracle]

Femininity is good. Feminism is bad, and is literally the opposite of femininity. Feminism teaches women to become men.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Umm I don't believe in gender roles, don't agree. 🙂

[AssholeNumberOne]

I'm just against women acting like men owe them anything because of their gender. 🙂

[GreatBigCircles]

I think the one thing I really envy about how woman are treated compared to men is the presumption of threat. And I’m not saying there isn’t a valid reason for individuals to act that way, but it’s an emotional drain having to navigate that initial fear every time I greet a customer at work or even just strike up a conversation at the store. 99% of the time it’s just a small hesitation to be fair, but when your entire life is filled with that glimpse of being judged as “predator-or-not”… It kinda takes away from some of the sparkle of life yea?

[AssholeNumberOne]

Yeah

[AssholeNumberOne]

I don't judge men for their gender.

[JamesDiaz11]

One sure way to find out how NOT to treat a woman is to ask a woman.

They don't know what they want, and it's all filtered through how they want to be perceived. They want to be perceived as proper girls; so, they won't tell you they want to be mistreated a bit, by a guy with bad-boy edge. They want to be perceived as good girls; so, they won't tell you they want a guy to use them like a cheap whore in the bedroom. They want to be perceived as independent; so, they'll talk up their job/ education, knowing full well they'll jump their ass in the kitchen if a rich/ dominant guy comes along.

Women enjoy special treatment, but they'll bs you and say they want to be treated just like another guy... Listen, lady, you have absolutely no clue how men are treated. You have no idea what constant rejection, competition, and nobody giving af about your feelings/ sufferings/ misfortune feels like. A guy could be dying on the side of the road and nobody would care. Don't ask for something that you can't even possibly comprehend.

[AssholeNumberOne]

sorry you have to go through that, bro. Anything I can do to help?

[JamesDiaz11]

No, I'm a guy- we've grown to depend on ourselves.

[soulOnDisplay]

@AssholeNumberOne Help? How are are you possibly going to help? This is the internet lol.

[artgorgeous]

There will never be a gender equality, period. For the obvious reason - our bodies are physically different. Men have more strength (in general. i am not comparing a thin schoolboy with a female pro powerlifter), women have more empathy, men are taller, women are having finer motor skills (doing precise things with their hands). Women almost never work at physically demanding labour jobs. Have you ever seen women brick layers or loaders? About the titanic. Imagine yourself being a single mother with two kids, and everyone is treated equally. And there is no man helping you and your kids, you are on your own from now on. What are the chances you survive? Or you think other women will help you? Good luck with that, because first, they will try helping themselves, because they will be competing with stronger men who will be saving themselves first. Another case, why then elderly people also should be treated differently?

[TheThingALing]

Women who are respectable want to be treated as such and should be given this treatment when earned.

Women who know they don't deserve the princess treatment hate when a guy treats her like she an angel because she knows who and what kind of woman she is. She will treat a guy who does this like shit. They like, whether they realize it or not, to be treated bad and they treat these guys better

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it really depends. But I start loosing interest in a woman who says stuff like "if you had the balls" many times women who say this stuff are cowards themselves... Just saying.

It just depends the same with men. People don't understand that everyone is not the same in what they want

[TroyDT]

Reasonable ones: with respect, compassion, and affection.

Unreasonable ones: As though they are queens and their excrement has the fragrance of a field of fresh flowers.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Haha true. Bad toxic femininity

[BJP21]

This solely depends on your cultural and religious background. Many religious texts dictate a woman must be submissive.

I encountered this at my former Girlfriends house, it was a hispanic family, I was brought up to clean up after myself, and wash my dish, in her family it was the opposite, the female roll was to serve the men. Needless to say it took some getting used to.

[nomandik]

So as a 15-year-old girl you go to church and everybody treats you differently and you wish you were a man is what I'm getting

[AssholeNumberOne]

Nah. I just wish my parents would stop making me go there. They're pretty toxic. But, what can I do.

[nomandik]

Run away

[WheelerOfSeeds1]

They want to be seen, as people. They want to be loved, cherished, remembered, and listened too. They want to be safe in the arms of an attractive man that loves them. They want to see the world they have in their head.

[Hypermotard1916]

gender equality is a myth. The reason why you get special treatment is because of your womb. You cannot change fate, deal with it...

[Jenny-Marie]

A decent girl likes to be treated with respect and a decent man likes to treat her with respect.

[AssholeNumberOne]

And a decent man likes to be treated with respect and a decent woman likes to treat him with respect. Cool