Often men will hit the gym, style their hair, or get penis enlargements as a means to woo girls, but rarely do men consider dressing up their attitudes. The fact is, it's the time you spend vertical with a woman that will determine if you will be spending time horizontally with her later on.
The following are attitudes that have worked for me to go from a guy very beaten down by women to someone content and happy, being laid being a by product of that. These worked for ME, so nothing is written in stone here, all I ask is for you to put these attitudes on like a new suite and see the results. The difference between attitudes and clothes is that attitudes can become a part of you like a superpower that can repel negativity and draw women closer to you, so here we go...
1. Attitude number one is my favorite. It's one that will keep you sane as you being to meet more and more women, a prospect that may seem far away for some of you at the moment but none the less an important attitude to hold. And that is that YOU NEVER KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH A WOMAN UNTIL YOU MAKE THAT FIRST PHYSICAL MOVE AND SLEEP WITH HER. How many times have you gone out with a woman, maybe even held her hand and made out with her only to find that the next day she is ignoring your calls of being aloof. Now, sometimes the woman will have a genuine reason to ignore your calls, but honestly, it doesn't take much observation of women to realize that they ARE A MASS OF CONFLICTING IMPULSES and DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. Women playing hot and cold can drive men up a wall, get too emotional and end up for sure driving the woman away. If you keep the attitude of not knowing where you stand with a woman and act calmly you will at least give yourself a 50% chance of ending up with her. The reason why women are attracted to men is because we CAN be calm in the storm and avoid getting dragged away by their emotions, which goes right into attitude number 2.
2. NEVER TAKE A WOMAN'S FIRST RESPONSE AS FACT. When a woman has a response to you that is unfavorable, you need to understand that her response is often based on what she is thinking and feeling at the time. Being pissed off at you may just be because she got fired from her job or it could be something as silly as her losing her shoes. Women are emotional creatures and a lot of guys fall into the trap of feeling sorry for themselves after being rejected by a woman, but the reality is that until a woman spends a decent amount of time getting to KNOW YOU the only reason for her to act mad at you has everything to do with what SHE is going through and nothing to do with you.
3. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT PHYSICAL TRAITS ATTRACT A WOMAN, IF ANY AT ALL, SO YOU ALWAYS GO FOR IT TO FIND OUT. I might post a picture up of me and a beautiful girl I dated several years ago. Not only was I overweight, but my face was riddled with acne! I have hit the gym since but a result of it is that I wear sweat pants everywhere so while my looks increased my style decreased... but guess what, I still get laid left right and center. WHY? Because society will have you believe that the only way to get girls is to have a nice car or good clothes. How many guy do I know that have incredible style or a nice car but are either alone or in a relationship where the girl denies them sex while she is off having sex with someone else. Now, I strongly believe that everyone needs be be improving themselves (looks, style, finances) but just know that any of those things on their own are not the be all and end all and should not stop you from going for what you want, because you NEVER know what is attractive to a girl.
4. THE MORE A WOMAN HAS TO WORK TO GET ME, THE MORE SHE WILL WANT. You have probably heard women say this to pick up men, it's called playing hard to get, but guess what, for what limited success women have with this techniques, it works 10 times more on women than it does on us. Women just cant resist those expensive pair of shoes in the window that's just out of their reach. Just remember to not set you price TOO high or women will be content in just looking at you. You need to be a challenge but not un-gettable or completely unavailable. You do this by putting your friends, family and you own enjoyment first before a woman and especially before you sleep with her, remember attitude 1..
5. WOMEN ARE SEXUAL CREATURES, THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX, AND THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. You will be surprised if you ever look into a mind of a woman, never assume that a woman is not as sexual as men, just pick up the highest sold genre of books (romance novels) and see that kind of filthy stuff they put. A woman holding a romance novel, is a man holing a playboy. The reason being is while men are visual creatures and want what is real, women can paint those pictures so vividly in their mind that it becomes real for them, as real as anything. It why sane professional women believe chris angel is real... Just remember to avoid being labeled as a horn dog by women, and if you ever catch them calling you a creep for checking them out or for looking at porn just bring up romance novels and see how quickly they shut their hole.
6. I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN. Stop making excuses for yourself! Don't make excuses for wanting to look at a beautiful girl, or to fuck her. Admit to yourself when you want to fuck the living shit out of a girl. Having this attitude is an incredible turn on for women and once you hold it, it will make any lame approach, any lame question (as in where do you live, or where do you work) turn into a sexually powered monster. It's all about the intent you put behind your words, when you are not true to what you want girls will pick up on it. I'm by no means telling you to come up to a woman and tell her "lets go fuck" although if you do this enough times it will actually work... But simply holding this attitude will let you act in a way that is much different to what your probably used to doing. Most guys will wait way too long to show their intentions for a girl and end up in the friends zone, then wonder why they got there. Remember you can be warm and friendly and at the same time be direct and powerful.
7. I NEVER GET REJECTED, I LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES AND FIND OUT IF A WOMAN HAS GOOD TASTES. Hahaha, that's right, you never get rejected FROM NOW ON. We all make mistakes in dating and its important to not take ourselves too seriously. I know first hand how much emotion is attached to being accepted or rejected by a girl but just imagine your friends sitting around the table patting you on the back as you come back after approaching a girl. Remember that women get approached A LOT so they have much more experience than we do, especially guys that are just taking their training wheels off, and they never really know you as a person, some people spend years together and still don't know. The only way to learn from your interactions with women is to look at them in a light hearted way. Too often guys will "give up" on women after a harsh rejection but it's in those moments that you need to get back up and go again.
Anyway, those are the main attitudes I can think off right now and If they helped you or if you have something too add please let me know. I am by no means a Don Juan but I do get laid quite a lot by women I desire and want and I have a lot of fun doing it because of the attitudes I hold. I believe that there are enough things to fuck with your mind in the world and that women should not be one more, that they should be a pleasant addition to your life rather than a chore...
The following are attitudes that have worked for me to go from a guy very beaten down by women to someone content and happy, being laid being a by product of that. These worked for ME, so nothing is written in stone here, all I ask is for you to put these attitudes on like a new suite and see the results. The difference between attitudes and clothes is that attitudes can become a part of you like a superpower that can repel negativity and draw women closer to you, so here we go...
1. Attitude number one is my favorite. It's one that will keep you sane as you being to meet more and more women, a prospect that may seem far away for some of you at the moment but none the less an important attitude to hold. And that is that YOU NEVER KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH A WOMAN UNTIL YOU MAKE THAT FIRST PHYSICAL MOVE AND SLEEP WITH HER. How many times have you gone out with a woman, maybe even held her hand and made out with her only to find that the next day she is ignoring your calls of being aloof. Now, sometimes the woman will have a genuine reason to ignore your calls, but honestly, it doesn't take much observation of women to realize that they ARE A MASS OF CONFLICTING IMPULSES and DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. Women playing hot and cold can drive men up a wall, get too emotional and end up for sure driving the woman away. If you keep the attitude of not knowing where you stand with a woman and act calmly you will at least give yourself a 50% chance of ending up with her. The reason why women are attracted to men is because we CAN be calm in the storm and avoid getting dragged away by their emotions, which goes right into attitude number 2.
2. NEVER TAKE A WOMAN'S FIRST RESPONSE AS FACT. When a woman has a response to you that is unfavorable, you need to understand that her response is often based on what she is thinking and feeling at the time. Being pissed off at you may just be because she got fired from her job or it could be something as silly as her losing her shoes. Women are emotional creatures and a lot of guys fall into the trap of feeling sorry for themselves after being rejected by a woman, but the reality is that until a woman spends a decent amount of time getting to KNOW YOU the only reason for her to act mad at you has everything to do with what SHE is going through and nothing to do with you.
3. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT PHYSICAL TRAITS ATTRACT A WOMAN, IF ANY AT ALL, SO YOU ALWAYS GO FOR IT TO FIND OUT. I might post a picture up of me and a beautiful girl I dated several years ago. Not only was I overweight, but my face was riddled with acne! I have hit the gym since but a result of it is that I wear sweat pants everywhere so while my looks increased my style decreased... but guess what, I still get laid left right and center. WHY? Because society will have you believe that the only way to get girls is to have a nice car or good clothes. How many guy do I know that have incredible style or a nice car but are either alone or in a relationship where the girl denies them sex while she is off having sex with someone else. Now, I strongly believe that everyone needs be be improving themselves (looks, style, finances) but just know that any of those things on their own are not the be all and end all and should not stop you from going for what you want, because you NEVER know what is attractive to a girl.
4. THE MORE A WOMAN HAS TO WORK TO GET ME, THE MORE SHE WILL WANT. You have probably heard women say this to pick up men, it's called playing hard to get, but guess what, for what limited success women have with this techniques, it works 10 times more on women than it does on us. Women just cant resist those expensive pair of shoes in the window that's just out of their reach. Just remember to not set you price TOO high or women will be content in just looking at you. You need to be a challenge but not un-gettable or completely unavailable. You do this by putting your friends, family and you own enjoyment first before a woman and especially before you sleep with her, remember attitude 1..
5. WOMEN ARE SEXUAL CREATURES, THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX, AND THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. You will be surprised if you ever look into a mind of a woman, never assume that a woman is not as sexual as men, just pick up the highest sold genre of books (romance novels) and see that kind of filthy stuff they put. A woman holding a romance novel, is a man holing a playboy. The reason being is while men are visual creatures and want what is real, women can paint those pictures so vividly in their mind that it becomes real for them, as real as anything. It why sane professional women believe chris angel is real... Just remember to avoid being labeled as a horn dog by women, and if you ever catch them calling you a creep for checking them out or for looking at porn just bring up romance novels and see how quickly they shut their hole.
6. I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN. Stop making excuses for yourself! Don't make excuses for wanting to look at a beautiful girl, or to fuck her. Admit to yourself when you want to fuck the living shit out of a girl. Having this attitude is an incredible turn on for women and once you hold it, it will make any lame approach, any lame question (as in where do you live, or where do you work) turn into a sexually powered monster. It's all about the intent you put behind your words, when you are not true to what you want girls will pick up on it. I'm by no means telling you to come up to a woman and tell her "lets go fuck" although if you do this enough times it will actually work... But simply holding this attitude will let you act in a way that is much different to what your probably used to doing. Most guys will wait way too long to show their intentions for a girl and end up in the friends zone, then wonder why they got there. Remember you can be warm and friendly and at the same time be direct and powerful.
7. I NEVER GET REJECTED, I LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES AND FIND OUT IF A WOMAN HAS GOOD TASTES. Hahaha, that's right, you never get rejected FROM NOW ON. We all make mistakes in dating and its important to not take ourselves too seriously. I know first hand how much emotion is attached to being accepted or rejected by a girl but just imagine your friends sitting around the table patting you on the back as you come back after approaching a girl. Remember that women get approached A LOT so they have much more experience than we do, especially guys that are just taking their training wheels off, and they never really know you as a person, some people spend years together and still don't know. The only way to learn from your interactions with women is to look at them in a light hearted way. Too often guys will "give up" on women after a harsh rejection but it's in those moments that you need to get back up and go again.
Anyway, those are the main attitudes I can think off right now and If they helped you or if you have something too add please let me know. I am by no means a Don Juan but I do get laid quite a lot by women I desire and want and I have a lot of fun doing it because of the attitudes I hold. I believe that there are enough things to fuck with your mind in the world and that women should not be one more, that they should be a pleasant addition to your life rather than a chore...
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