Beauty Starts from the Inside

[KhaysunDei]

I find it amusing how Western culture is so obsessed with physical beauty. It's a huge reason why Americans have 40-50% divorce rate; it's why a number of kids are so stuck up, disrespectful to teachers, and obsessed with losing their virginity to repeat the same cycle. So let me ask you something, you people who think you're hot and get all the guys/girls, what will you be like in 50 years? How long are you going to remain young? "Well I don't care cause I'm still young and I can do whatever I want" - sure you can kiddo, it's your life. There's always the choice to pervert and twist your purity and love for a cheap adventure in materialism and temporal pleasures.

I used this example in another myTake, and I will use it again: if you throw all of your weight and energy behind one punch, you WILL miss (taekwondo red belt here) and a smarter opponent will easily counter you (he's called Life by the way). He will beat you bloody until your skin tears off to reveal what's really underneath.

This thing inside of you is your True Self, the True Self that was with you from the moment you were born to the moment you will die. And the good news? You can make it into whatever you want and put off the consequences for YEARS. You can indulge in sex, in drugs, in alcohol, and NO ONE, not even you, will know how your Truth Self is evolving.

So what is this True Self? It is the Self that loves, that wants to help people, that desires appreciation, that desires to always move forward unto a better tomorrow. That is your True Self. So what happens when you abuse this True Self through lust and indulgment? It becomes the Self that hates, that wants to put people down, that desires attention, that desires to always consume more and more with each passing day. And the worst thing? You don't even know you're killing yourself until half of your life slipped by.

So what do I want you get to get from this? Well here it is: this is your life and you live it however way you please. But tell me, what kind of adventure do you want? An adventure of courage, love, and endless discovery? Or an orgy of animalistic desires, cheap substitutes, and ultimate despair? Well, as usual, it's up to you.

[DarkHumorRUs]

What does this have to do with beauty being on the inside? This just seems like another word vomit MyTake.

A relationship is better off if the people are physically attracted to each other.

[KhaysunDei]

I'm not eve gonna argue with your stupidity

[DarkHumorRUs]

Sounds like something an idiot would say. Sorry bro, you can't be helped.

[KhaysunDei]

Sounds like something an idiot would say. Sorry bro, you can't be helped.

[DarkHumorRUs]

You're one dense motherfucker.

[KhaysunDei]

You're one dense motherfucker.

[Eternallylucky]

They are all looking for love from somewhere but validating their own (attention and) love for self first.

[Eternallylucky]

*but not validating

[LittleSally]

True, but no one will bother to get to know it unless it can be seen outside as well...
Unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

You have no idea what you're talking about. You're just regurgitating societal indoctrination, demonizing Human nature without properly understanding it.

[Not_Helping]

I strongly disagree!

[KhaysunDei]

I would actually care if you bothered to explain

[KhaysunDei]

But what's the use of arguing with a man obsessed with plastic over glass?

[KhaysunDei]

No value and I would only get stupider if I sunk to your level, bye

[Not_Helping]

Rough...

"It's a huge reason why Americans have 40-50% divorce rate; it's why a number of kids are so stuck up, disrespectful to teachers, and obsessed with losing their virginity to repeat the same cycle."

( www.businessinsider.com/map-divorce-rates-around-the-world-2014-5 )

First, the divorce rate is high around the world and consistently at about 30% in Eastern countries so the notion that there is this sense of differential focus is probably false. That makes your premise garbage.

"So what is this True Self? It is the Self that loves, that wants to help people, that desires appreciation, that desires to always move forward unto a better tomorrow. That is your True Self."

You just made this up. If only everyone where rainbows and unicorns under that "shell" that you insist exists.

"So what happens when you abuse this True Self through lust and indulgment?"

You mean by not doing what you think should be done? Ironically this is posted on a website that eats time like it's infinite. Bad way to go. You should quit. Dedicate your life to...

[Not_Helping]

meaningful projects. Actually do something instead of typing what other people should do; it's one thing to hold an opinion but it's another to live by it and thus far all I see is a man, young at that, who thinks he knows what to do but A) doesn't explain the path (so what good is the warning?) and B) doesn't know the path (so what good is the instruction?) telling others to be wary of eroding their internal states.

"So what do I want you get to get from this? Well here it is: this is your life and you live it however way you please. But tell me, what kind of adventure do you want? An adventure of courage, love, and endless discovery?"

The thing is this; what one defines as such is pointless; it may not match what you think is courageous, what you think is loving, and what you find to be discovery. You may say at a man's path it is disgusting and without merit because it involves things you disapprove of but many men who lived in "depravity" furthered human life and science.

[Not_Helping]

Not that I know why you wanted an explanation. It isn't as though you're capable of defending yourself. You're just a kid.

[KhaysunDei]

eh, thanks anyways. At least you were polite about THIS one... and whatever, you have a lot to learn though.

[KhaysunDei]

Maybe one day you'll realize what I said when you're 90 years old with grandchildren.

[Not_Helping]

You talk big for a 19 year old but all 19 year old kids talk big. I'd be more worried about living a life filled with the lessons I preach rather than being concerned for the others whom I show no signs of compassion. You're snide, but that doesn't bode well for someone whose "True Self" is loving, does it?

Such is youth.

[Not_Helping]

Allow me to share some insight on "Wisdom" with you. I reply to everything in three words, not a word more, most of the time. There is a reason. There are two actually.

The first is because all conversations are really held in only a few words; I gave you an explanation of almost 2,000 characters and what did you do? You still said "I'm right!". You replied in three words. You still think you're correct, of course, and I knew you would, so I strongly disagreed.

The second is because fighting is silly. You are simply not worth it; you're 19 and think you're hot stuff filled to the brim with insight, join the club, and as you get older you'll realize how tacky and stupid you sounded.

[KhaysunDei]

Nah, you're just an old fart who doesn't understand anything.

[Not_Helping]

I wonder if you'd say that all your elders. Haha!

[KhaysunDei]

Actually, I said to my mother and grandmother and they don't talk back :D

[Not_Helping]

That's not something to necessarily be proud of... I'd keep that to myself if I were you.

[KhaysunDei]

Actually, I told it to my parent's friends and their family and embarrassed my grandmother in front of them too

[Not_Helping]

About that True Self thing...

[KhaysunDei]

Penis Penis

[Not_Helping]

You are what you are. No wonder it is what you do not what you say that defines you. I cannot play with you any longer. Goodbye. Good luck.

[KhaysunDei]

ya man, have a good day!