The concept and relations to anything MGTOWish (Men Going Their Own Way) seems to become more and more inaccurate and slides away from it's roots and meaning. I feel the need to remind what MGTOW is truly up to and to show, how it does not intent to harm anybody.
First thing first: Any guy, who just said is a MGTOW is considered to be hostile against any female and participates in discrimination against females - And so a grudge is being hold against that guy. Any female, who has met some of the MGTOW guys only to reveal, that they are jerks tend to generalize them - You met one of them, you met all of them!
I tell you: Both are wrong!
This is called extremism. The extremism of MGTOW equals to feminism extremism (known as feminazis). Literally. There is no difference in both movements but only in the gender.
MGTOW is called men going their own way as in choosing their own destiny and not the way the society expects and tries to command on them to go. It is a choice made by men and there's nothing wrong with that. Commonly the MGTOW community consists of divorced men, who got broken from their past experiences of treachery (They got screwed over!). Some of the MGTOW haven't been married yet but they - so to say - took the red pill. That means to be aware and awake in order to avoid such... misfortunes. For my example I witnessed my parents as an example of what to expect from getting married... and I didn't like it. Who does not witness it's own parents after marriage? There are also stories about marriages and divorces, which can be found mostly on the MGTOW website. Fugly dark stories they are.
What MGTOW is up to:
- Refraining from marrying and reproducing
- Attempt to live the "safe" way of not falling in love with a female to risk future heartaches (may not apply to everyone)
- Prioritize self preservation over almost everything else (mostly relationship-related things)
- Deny social norms and do private business in it's own way
- Boycotting marriage and reproduction
See? Not much in the MGTOW concept but yet it's a big deal.
Big deal it is not. The ever growing population guarantees, that there will be no shortage of humans. Let alone the signs of starving and dying children in Africa is a clear signal, that it's going over the limit already. Same signals are birth controls, the growing count of jobless and homeless people and the abortions. In fact it's a proportion of the population. The more humans are being reproduced, the more will also suffer or die. The thing is, the general percentage of casualties is going up already.
MGTOW is simply a choice, that does not reflect on anybody else but the man, who decided to go it's own way. If it's a loss (which hardly can even be), then it is not your own. There is a reason or many why a man has decided to go it's own way.
Now
What MGTOW is NOT up to:
- Discriminate females, attacking females, hostile behavior towards females
- Refraining from straight sex
- Set up females as the real world problem
- Refraining interactions and contacts with females
- View females as the worse, lower or in a way of negative level sort
- Blaming females for things not going right or how things were expected to be
- Claiming to be MGTOW, yet be an extremist and still expect something from females
People, claiming to be MGTOW and doing the things mentioned just above here are the one's, who toss dirt to the entire MGTOW community, making it hard to tell between sane and insane members.
MGTOW is NOT a threat. MGTOW is a way to tell "I am not planning for getting married and having children" in an easy way. This movement started by men is being viewed as a response to the society to not surrender and give a chance - mainly to the family court system.
There are also open minded MGTOW guys, who also speak with (open minded) females about this movement and they don't seem to have a single conflict with it. It's great to know, that there are respectful people, caring for each other interests and being open minded to expand the education. For both parties it's a gain: For the male AND the female.
Sincerely...
Someone, who decided to become MGTOW a very long time ago since childhood.
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