Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology

Anonymous

On June 26th, 2014, my best friend began to date a Feminist – perhaps even a Feminazi. Moreover, after my long interactions with her, one could no longer ignore the nobility and irrationality of her crusade.

Understand, in any social science, from Economics, dating, seduction, psychology, and beyond, the rules are all relative.

Parallel to stereotypes, there is always a certain truth, but it is human nature to think in patterns, therefore there is always an exception to any rule or stereotype in social science.

Lastly, my understanding of Feminism and Feminazis may be limited. Respect everyone’s opinions on here – any inappropriate comments will be blocked or reported.

1. Fight for equality

Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology

Parallel to climate change, denying women get paid less is foolish – as a business owner, I see it happen often. If someone paid you less for doing equal work or would not hire you simply due to race or gender, naturally, it would infuriate anyone.

2. Victim’s mentality

My college experience, put mildly, was unlike most. The amount of bullying and harassment was so severe that I had to transfer colleges. Post-traumatic stress, physical assaults, GPA loss, a year and a half of time lost, and close to $50,000 of loss were the costs of this bullying.

75% of the bullying came from sororities, while the rest came from a fraternity. The school and police ignored and even mocked me when I tried to report them.

As a fighter, I went back, and well, they now run away from me. Even after 4 and a half years, I still wage my unholy war against them – lawsuits are also coming.

Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology

Here’s the rub, I do not blame women kind nor the world for my unfortunate treatment. The sense of extreme inequality and powerlessness I faced, an experience shared by many women, often blame men or the world for their problems.

While it is human nature to always point fingers at someone, all humans will have to face adversity, from passive aggressive morons at work, to the jerk off on the road. Moreover, I still respect women, but naturally, I’m more careful.

I blamed myself for my losses and not fighting sooner, despite being 400 students versus a nobody like me. You are the master of your own fate, no more no less.

3. Play fair

My best friend's crazy girlfriend would go into a rage when we talked about women in general, but had no problem stereotyping about men or other races.

Once again, it is human nature to see what you want to see. Moreover, it is human nature to focus on the bad things, and typically, only the bad things.

When you wake up, you’re not thinking about how lucky you are to have water, or a TV, or even a roof. As a world traveler, I’ve seen poverty in the extreme - trust me, only a few Americans have the right to complain.

Feminism has come a long way, and because of their crusade, conditions have improved monumentally – many do not see this due to being stuck on current issues – only.

Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology

4. Women can do no wrong

When speaking to the police and school, there seemed to be a bias that women were incapable of such harassment.

The constant articles online, the news, and beyond about feminism often paint a black and white picture. It’s always the man’s or world’s fault. Therefore, women are always the victims.

Let’s be clear, no one is truly innocent. Even babies and children often manipulate (try to anyway) adults or other children to get what they want. I’ve seen both men and women do incredible immoral acts. Only the dead and gods can be perfect.

5. A woman doesn’t need a man

Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology

Naturally, as with all rules or statements, this can be interpreted in many ways. Assuming my understanding is succinct and for simplicity, let’s focus on a general POV – income, protection, emotional satisfaction, the whole 9 yards.

As a strong observer of people, without a doubt, we humans evolved to be part of a group – it’s a survival instinct. 20,000 years ago, with no technology, cops, guns, internet, who in your opinion would be an easier kill, the lone human or the one in a group? It’s no coincidence that carnivores often go for the youngest or out casted animals.

Every human, from the psychopath with no conscience (Ted Bundy anyone?), to my loner cousin, needs to be with someone in the long run. The lesbian will still need a woman, the gay guy will still need a guy, the straight guy or girl will still need the opposite sex.

Physically, you may be able to do everything on your own. Psychologically, your mind will break in the long run. A woman can’t do everything nor can a man.

We all have roles to play in this life – if you don’t like this, move to a desert or a forest and don’t come back.

As an extremely independent person who had to learn how to fight, date, and make friends on his own, I still need companionship. I can’t fight against nature.
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Alas, those that become feminists often do so due to environmental and/or personal dramatic experiences. If it’s the latter, as a man, I apologize on behalf of us men; we sure can be cruel at times.

Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology

To reemphasize, as a social science, there will be Feminists or individuals who do not align with these observations, however the odds are not in your favor.

Why I Disagree With Most of Feminist Ideology
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