Why MGTOW Is Popular Continued... the Absurdity of Dating Women

[Apope16]

A woman uses primarily her sexual appeal to directly barter with a man for the advances of prestige. The transference of wealth, status, power, and class in society is then transferred to the woman directly.

It is thought that today’s woman is different than the past in the sense that they now marry for love. In reality, nothing much has changed.

In their early 20’s, the most beautiful women have it so easy because they don’t even need to work for sex or for a relationship. All they need is sex appeal and everything is handed to them.

However, when women reach around the age of 30 years old, their looks start to fade. The beautiful women who took advantage of nice guys for free drinks, the ones that dated men who loved them and they dumped for the next hot thing…these women will no longer have personality for appeal. Like men, they actually have to rely PRIMARILY on their personality and decency. So 30 year old women feel lonely and depressed and struggle to navigate this new world of competition against the 20 year old bimbo. In short, they’ve spent 10 years relying on their looks and they haven’t developed a personality. They aren’t well read, they haven’t thought deeply about life and what it means, they don’t know how to lead a dating conversation because they’ve never had to. Most of all, they now have to ask out men but don’t know how because they’ve never had to.

The result is then to complain that there are no decent men out there. To complain that all of the good ones are taken. Then when they do find a quality and handsome man, they suddenly realize they can’t have anything common with them because they’ve not anything deep and meaningful to say on a date. I mean, if you are 20 years old and are super sexy, why do you need to have any deep conversation. Horny guy will go for you anyway. So, thirty year old ends up married to a rich fat man with a receding hairline. Because at the end of the day, its about the money. It never was about love.

[Anonymous]

I agree with everything you wrote about men, women and marriage, but you are erroneously conflating all of that with MGTOW. That's not what MGTOW is about.

Men are indeed avoiding marriage in ever increasing numbers, and the reasons are indeed what you said... marriage is rigged for the benefit of women and children and NOT men. Men are realizing marriage is a scam that rarely works out in their favor. But what they are doing is dating and having casual sex with all the women who will fuck any stiff cock and not committing to any of them, because they don't have to today to get laid like they had to in the past.

But MGTOW is about men saying no to women altogether and, more importantly, to the expectations our gynocentric society places on men.

[Anonymous]

I never found this to apply to me. I'm 33 but I look 23. I have the man of my dreams already. I also still have 20 year olds praying for the day I become single. There are still plenty of good guys out there.

Money doesn't mean much to me. I earn what I want. There's not much else to it.

[Apope16]

Whenever a Woman says money doesn't matter. I never believe them.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't get me wrong. I enjoy what money can buy, but I prefer to make my own. Depending on a man for money gives him too much power.

[Apope16]

Most definitely. THat's why you marry him and then divorce him. That way your assets increase 50%.

I dont mean to be a dick though. You're the type of lady that guys should be going for. Intelligent and not a gold digger. That's 90% of a perfect lady.

[Dali-chan]

Please don’t try to make the asker feel comfortable, cause he’s the type of average looser who will ask for a model looking woman but ofc this model should love him for himself and expect nothing in return lmao

[wisdom_sharer]

Lol, this implies that women have no lives outside of dating scene, or marriage. Well, wrong. :)

[Apope16]

Its focused on one topic. I have only 2,000 characters. Give me a break.

[wisdom_sharer]

Okay, but then you should post it under "Relationships", or "Dating", not " Society and culture". I guess I took broader perspective because of that.

[Apope16]

I wasn't sure which one to post it under. But those who are MGTOW is a cultural thing. MGTOW in general is a cultural phenomenon. It is a MGTOW perspective on dating rather than my own. It is the second part of a previous mytake.