Friend zone to me is someone not interested in you romantically or they friend zone you so you are a back up plan if there other interest doesn't work out
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Please. PLEASE post this 1 trillion times more so that all the men in the world can see it.
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What does being placed in the friendzone have to do with being a nice guy? "Friendzoned" means you have gotten too close to the girl to the point where she sees you as a brother, therefore it's weird for her to think of you in a romantic way. Sure, it can happen, but it's rare. I don't understand why you added the "nice guy" part. The two have nothing to do with each other.
Oh okay. I haven't noticed that but if you say so. I do agree with you though about nice guys though. Back in the day when I was a standup guy I had minimal success with women These days I get a lot of girls even though I'm much more selfish in relationships and readily cheat without a second thought.
I don't mind the friendzone as long as the friendship does not entail her asking too many favors or if I wanna hang out me having to pay , only met one girl who went we hang out pays for her shit.
The friend zone exist. Yes everyone has the right to say no. However, the definition remains. Now, that doesn’t give one the green light to be an asshole because you got friendzoned.
male perspective : she is using me for gifts and attention, I tried to be the man women CLAIM to want by taking it slow and showing i value more than p**sy.
Female perspective: if the possibility of getting used is that despairing to you why do you start/sustain platonic relationships with women you want as your own.
I think the irony in all this is that 99 percent of friend zones are the guy chasing the girls while 99 percent of those who complain about the friend zone are men, so about 100% of the "dreaded" cases of merely having a friendship where your genitals weren't involved were initiated and kept alive by the same ones who complain about it. This is not to turn my back on my fellow male by saying rejection in this matter isn't supposed to suck. It does. It's the same "no" that men are used to, but over the course of months. its simply to ask "why tether yourself to a car that MAY go the way you like and then be too much of a wimp to cut the rope and THEN blame the driver.
Well, you might’ve read it but it doesn’t seem like you grasped the actual point. Basically she was saying that “friend zone” isn’t something negative. It’s something to embrace. Having friends isn’t something negative.
If a man thinks the friend zone is a bad place to be in, this means he only wants to get to know the woman to sleep with her / date her. He doesn’t value their friendship as a potential foundation for a future relationship, rather, he is only interested in looking for something sexual.
Which means - guys who whine and say they were friendzoned deserve to be friendzoned, since they don’t know what having a friend means, and they don’t value it.
The image shows a doormat (not a friend) thinking he’s gonna be respected because he does everything a woman wants. I don’t see any friends here. So what do you mean?
This makes no sense... Friendzone is not just a rejection. Friendzone is "I like you too, but only as a friend"... You see, that as a friend makes a friendzone. Not being nice or treating person like a majesty. That "friend"-ly kick in the balls is what makes a froendzone real.
No, that’s what we call unrequited love or a one sided crush. It’s rejection. It’s not placing someone in the category “i wanted to fuck you and you placed me in the terrible friend box!”
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Friend zone to me is someone not interested in you romantically or they friend zone you so you are a back up plan if there other interest doesn't work out
Please. PLEASE post this 1 trillion times more so that all the men in the world can see it.
What does being placed in the friendzone have to do with being a nice guy? "Friendzoned" means you have gotten too close to the girl to the point where she sees you as a brother, therefore it's weird for her to think of you in a romantic way. Sure, it can happen, but it's rare. I don't understand why you added the "nice guy" part. The two have nothing to do with each other.
Because “nice guys” often are the ones to scream they’re in the “friend zone”
Oh okay. I haven't noticed that but if you say so. I do agree with you though about nice guys though. Back in the day when I was a standup guy I had minimal success with women These days I get a lot of girls even though I'm much more selfish in relationships and readily cheat without a second thought.
That’s not what girls want either and i disagree with your choices but it’s your life fam
I don't mind the friendzone as long as the friendship does not entail her asking too many favors or if I wanna hang out me having to pay , only met one girl who went we hang out pays for her shit.
The friend zone exist. Yes everyone has the right to say no. However, the definition remains. Now, that doesn’t give one the green light to be an asshole because you got friendzoned.
Good take. I agree. I'm trying to write something along these lines as a mytake. Now if I could just sit down and write it all at once.
Good points, but they don't mean friendzone doesn't exist, but rather that you have no moral rights to blame the person for it.
I agree. The "friendzone" concept is pretty odd.
And same to anyone who didn't take time to read it but still commented anyway.
*shame
Too Long to read.
Yes it exist... for guys and Girls.
I've had female friends that I later found out had crushes on me.
9 out of EVERY straight guy friend a girl has is a guy that wants to have sex with her... but she only wants to be a friend.
Don’t read? Don’t comment. Lazy bum.
Sexism against women does not exist. Say it louder for the people in the back!
See how retarded that sounds? That's exactly how you sound right now.
This is why many men recommend to other men to not be friends with women. Theres’s No point.
If you see no point in a friendship because of gender you’re fucking retarded.
For most men, the reason why they are friends with women is because they’re hoping to fuck them. Now, watch your fucking mouth.
My twat is fucking ugly and I hate it
Damn girl. Hit the ball outta the park here... Will seem harsh to some but hey, not everyone can handle the truth lol... Good job! High five ;)
male perspective : she is using me for gifts and attention, I tried to be the man women CLAIM to want by taking it slow and showing i value more than p**sy.
Female perspective: if the possibility of getting used is that despairing to you why do you start/sustain platonic relationships with women you want as your own.
I think the irony in all this is that 99 percent of friend zones are the guy chasing the girls while 99 percent of those who complain about the friend zone are men, so about 100% of the "dreaded" cases of merely having a friendship where your genitals weren't involved were initiated and kept alive by the same ones who complain about it.
This is not to turn my back on my fellow male by saying rejection in this matter isn't supposed to suck. It does. It's the same "no" that men are used to, but over the course of months. its simply to ask "why tether yourself to a car that MAY go the way you like and then be too much of a wimp to cut the rope
and THEN blame the driver.
so you're telling me the friendzone does not exist?
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I think you have to read the whole myTake to understand what she means.
@silverqueen i did
Well, you might’ve read it but it doesn’t seem like you grasped the actual point. Basically she was saying that “friend zone” isn’t something negative. It’s something to embrace. Having friends isn’t something negative.
If a man thinks the friend zone is a bad place to be in, this means he only wants to get to know the woman to sleep with her / date her. He doesn’t value their friendship as a potential foundation for a future relationship, rather, he is only interested in looking for something sexual.
Which means - guys who whine and say they were friendzoned deserve to be friendzoned, since they don’t know what having a friend means, and they don’t value it.
@silverqueen explain this image here then
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The image shows a doormat (not a friend) thinking he’s gonna be respected because he does everything a woman wants. I don’t see any friends here. So what do you mean?
@silverqueen quit trying to hide the fact that the friendzone exists
you will not poison me with your lies!
I never said it didn’t exist.
@silverqueen HAHA i knew it existed
so this myTake is utterly false in it's entirety
checkm8
I’m really hoping and praying you’re just a troll who is acting like he doesn’t have half a brain...
@silverqueen you can't fool me.
Your propaganda will not work on me!
@silverqueen do you wanna go on a date with me?
@silverqueen i love you.
@bente2 LOL
@silverqueen so you're just gonna friendzone me?
ok
This makes no sense... Friendzone is not just a rejection. Friendzone is "I like you too, but only as a friend"... You see, that as a friend makes a friendzone. Not being nice or treating person like a majesty. That "friend"-ly kick in the balls is what makes a froendzone real.
No, that’s what we call unrequited love or a one sided crush. It’s rejection. It’s not placing someone in the category “i wanted to fuck you and you placed me in the terrible friend box!”
There is difference between I want to fuck you and I really like you.
there is no friendzone cause people rarely become real friends. especially amongst the opposite genders.
Wow, bitter much?
Of course the friend zone exists. Anyone with half a brain and a shred of honesty knows it does.
But that really doesn't matter because disputing the existence of the friend zone was not the real point of this myTake.
Couldn't have said it any better myself
THERE IS NO FRIENDZONE PEOPLE
A sure way to guarantee it doesn't exist is to stop writing about it altogether.
yes amen brother! do you believe men and women can just be friends without any feelings?