This explains it pretty well and I was definitely that cowardly guy at one point. I can recall some of the girls that "friend zoned" me and I can’t say that I couldn’t blame them. This is definitely a "nice guy" mentality that should be squashed. Most guys don't want to think that there is no such thing because that would mean that would have to look at their own behavior as the problem.
Being nice to a women or anyone for that matter is common human decency. It’s the golden rule of treat others like you would like to be treated and anyone that was raised right understands this. It does not entitle you to anything and you should not expect anything. It’s just something you do as a decent human being.
It’s what the post says the friend zone is imaginary. I understand the concept of a girl not liking you and just wanting to be friends but that doesn’t mean you whine and cry about how you have been “friend zoned”, As I have said before no one owes you anything.
It’s just a fact of life that not every women is going to be romantically interested in you, even if by some means you are an ideal, confident good guy. A good confident guy will understand this, not sweat it and won’t bitch and moan about it in the first place. A self proclaimed "nice guy" will think every women should have a romantic interest in them just because they are “nice” and whine and complain about it. Typical "nice guy" behavior
Regardless of how “nice” good looking, or cool you think you may think you are, not every women you run across is going to have, or supposed to have a romantic interest of some kind in you. Maybe she’s not physically attracted to you, maybe your not her type, or maybe it’s because she see’s that you are the "nice guy” thats thinks you’re entitled to something just for being “nice” which in that case makes you a selfish asshole. (see my first post for more on the "nice guy”)
The friend zone is bullshit and you need to stop going around whining about how you have been friend zoned because there is no such thing. Whining, complaining bitching and moaning shows a lack of character and maturity, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Stop doing it and move on.
The best thing to do is not worry about who has friend zoned you and not go out of your way to try and impress or bother a girl that you know for sure has no romantic interest in you. It’s as simple as that. So just to reiterate, there is no such thing as a friend zone.