Bullying, Mean People, How They Damaged Me (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Last generations of people are weak and complain about bulling, use you egoistic behavior and react. Why nobody complaining 50 years ago about that. Nobody really care about you or someone else, the only person that can help you is you.

[Anonymous]

You should fight back

[Myplace22]

How you *LET* them damage you is what you meant.

[BaileyisDarcy]

Thats not exactly fair.

[Myplace22]

@BaileyisDarcy that’s the problem with today’s society; everyone wants to be coddled and fairness. Fairness is good, but truth is even better. In order for bullies and mean people to affect somebody, you have to enable it by giving them that power

[BaileyisDarcy]

Oh i agree entirely. But who made it thatway? Parents.
Thats why its not fair to accuse HER of letting them damage her. It was her parents that never gave her the tools to protect herself from letting them get to her.

[Myplace22]

@BaileyisDarcy that’s another thing that this new generation does though, they deflect blame. I agree with you if you say that her parents put her at a disadvantage by not teaching her, but to flat out blame them is not right. You can’t deflect like this

[BaileyisDarcy]

Im not deflecting.

Bullying never affected me because i didn't know it was happening. I had enough of it going on at home that i thought being treated like that was normal.
THAT was my parents fault. And thats not deflecting. Thats giving credit where its due.

Kids around me? They werent affected either, but they knew it was happening. Theyd get down about it, but not like kids do now. At the end of the day theh shrugged their shoulders and got on with life.

Kids now are being told theyre all special little angels. They get given everything they ask for and dong get punished in effective ways if at all.
They dont know how to handle being put down, or facing negativity. And thats not their fault. They were never exposed to it.

[Myplace22]

@BaileyisDarcy I don’t think what you’re saying is unbelievable but I just hate blaming people.

[myTake Owner]

I hate blaming people's actions too but sadly they affect lifes for bad. Oops

[Myplace22]

They have more affect when you’re young and not so wise. You’re an adult now, treat it as a disadvantage that you had to overcome and just grow. That’s all. You can’t stay the same way all your life, you need to grow and improve.

[myTake Owner]

I agree.