Because, all humans make mistakes or take the wrong choices (sometimes shit happens, because no none can be always wise enough) . The difference is that when a woman makes a wrong decision by getting with some male jerk, then fortunately the said jerk is going to be punished, both by law and society, plus many come to her rescue (even strangers to her). When a man happens to make the same mistake. then no one cares and he has to face it mostly all by himself, on top of that the female jerk equivalent rarely gets punished. That's why male abuse almost never gets the time of the day.
Thats true, I agree 100%. I just do not get abusive relations either male or female. There are lots of early warning signs, and when help is given, its just someone telling you to end the relationship, but the abused man or woman keeps going back?
Yes, of course me too, I've never been in a situation like that. That's why personality matters. But not all people are the same. Since you are 24 years old you might know already for sure, that some people, males/females are such good actors pretending they are the best characters around that manage to persuade even the most socially people to give them a chance and that's where the "adventure" begins. As you said you've never been in that kind of an abusive relationship and I believe that you try to make good character choices, the same goes for me. But, what I've realized is that it's part good choices from us part a little bit of luck also. Unfortunately some other people might not had that little boost of luck back in the day.
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(Peter Griffin laugh)
Why are these men with such jerky. women?
@dancing_in_nebulas
Because, all humans make mistakes or take the wrong choices (sometimes shit happens, because no none can be always wise enough) . The difference is that when a woman makes a wrong decision by getting with some male jerk, then fortunately the said jerk is going to be punished, both by law and society, plus many come to her rescue (even strangers to her). When a man happens to make the same mistake. then no one cares and he has to face it mostly all by himself, on top of that the female jerk equivalent rarely gets punished.
That's why male abuse almost never gets the time of the day.
@Odysseas
Thats true, I agree 100%. I just do not get abusive relations either male or female. There are lots of early warning signs, and when help is given, its just someone telling you to end the relationship, but the abused man or woman keeps going back?
Yes, of course me too, I've never been in a situation like that. That's why personality matters. But not all people are the same. Since you are 24 years old you might know already for sure, that some people, males/females are such good actors pretending they are the best characters around that manage to persuade even the most socially people to give them a chance and that's where the "adventure" begins. As you said you've never been in that kind of an abusive relationship and I believe that you try to make good character choices, the same goes for me. But, what I've realized is that it's part good choices from us part a little bit of luck also. Unfortunately some other people might not had that little boost of luck back in the day.
*socially smart people (I forgot to write the word smart in the sentence I hope it makes sense now) :)
@Odysseas
Right it ashame. I've never even had luck to find a partner and here people are abusing theirs. Such a shame
yep, some people even had/have an abundance of it and they don't appreciate it. It's unfortunately a part of our shitty behavior as humans...
@Odysseas
Like how hard is it to love someone, goodness gracious lol
wow I never even knew this :o this is so sad :(
Twitter isn't a scientific source in my opinion
What has science got to do with this?
@Peterules If you believe twitter, you believe Trump too?
Well, of course!!! Whoever said they couldn't?
Nice take
We men don't need pity.
It is good that you are kind though.
I hope there won't come a day when you'll need it because believe me, you won't get any.
Perhaps, I went to far, arguably men need some pity but we should try to suck it up as best we can.
I do believe that men need to fix this with themselves but the same goes for women.
lol weak men get abused!
Whatever you say 'Anonymous'. Are you too scared to say that with your account exposed?
@Aki6000 no, he is just weak ;P
Says the anonymous man.
Let him say to her.
thank you
Good take
oh god lol
I disagree
Would be great if you elaborated, would love to see the opinion of a man who hasn't even finished developing yet.
@DainGrey I will elaborate
Go on?
@DainGrey I will
yep it true
I agree