me and an ex of mine. It was really just a sexual relationship.
But we were always getting caught (she liked public places -_-) and her family was always with her. So when we'd meet up, or see each other we'd just really stare and look at each other alot... but even when we had a moment alone her nephew would always be in the room so it was like "ah SHIT"... and then we'd think about how we damaged each other... and then postponed our next meeting... but it was almost like god was preventing us from doing anything.
happy to say we are still really really good friends... and yes we were finally able to do it ^___^
but sexual tension is rough. Because your raring to GO and then it shuts off when the moments ruined, or you aren't able to get there etc... so its like a roller coaster that doesn't go to the edge
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It's hard to explain, really. If you're not sure, then it's not there. Trust me, when there's sexual tension in the air, you WILL know it, without a doubt. It's different than just being turned on around somebody. The definition of sexual "tension" is when both people feel it and they know they both feel it. But it's a good tension. It happens when both people are in sync sexually, without any, or little, physical contact. You just know. I can't really explain it any other way.
Whenever I feel it this is what happens
The guy I feel it with is normally in public. Our feelings for each other mix with heavy attraction. We hold lots of eye contact but try to not look due to other people around. I feel a sexual want towards him, I don't necessarily want sex but I want soft touches and kisses down my body and I assume he's feeling the same. It's the need and want for each other that we can't have. I want to be pressed against him. I want him to slowly rub his hands down my back all the way to my butt. It's a sexual and emotional want that we mutually share, but don't get. It honestly hurts when it's over because you can't have it. One of the worst and best things in the world. You don't always know when you're having it but you'll know later.
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Feelings towards another person that builds up and you don't get to express it. That's the tension, because every time you see them it just adds to it. For me growing up, it was almost like lightning shooting through my body. From my skull down to my toes. You feel very alive in those moments when around them and after leaving their presence you still walk around with a high
When u know u like each other. And the person let's you "accidently" touch them and invade their personal space. DEEP eye contact.
It's like a mutual attraction you both feel feel it you both want each other and you both know it.
Mutual attraction and constant thoughts about him
No idea. I've never experienced It
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