Added and then deleted me on Facebook?

[Gia0603]

I met this guy in a club the other night, we made out and then I left with my friends, a few days later he added me on Facebook and I sent him a comment just saying "hi", the next day when I checked back he had deleted me from his friends. What the hell?!

[Anonymous]

The comment made by the Anonymous User was blunt and not cool but there is a message there. The guy had a change of heart about staying connected to you. Why? Who knows.

It does highlight though, what can happen when you have a make out session with someone you don't know, and then try to get to know them. This is what happens. Hey, if you want to make out with someone you just met, go for it, have fun, but realize to the guy it means absolutely nothing. Girls usually make out with guys they are in to in some way, and would completely want to see him again, usually. Guys can and do make out with a girl and could care less about seeing you again. And they do stuff like adding you on Facebook and deleting you. Kind of takes the fun out of making out with randoms.

[Anonymous]

maybe he was drunk when you guys made out and he completely forgot what you looked like. then he added you on Facebook and thought you were ugly and removed you? it's something most guys would have done

[Italo_DiscoFever]

For sure

[WeaponZero]

She's not ugly, dude. That's just plain mean.

[cheerangelcharity]

That kinda same thing happened to me recently: met this guy at a music show and exchanged numbers, then later that night he came back with some of his friends randomly and we hugged tightly for a couple minutes, then when we both got home I added him on Facebook and he IMed me saying hey then started texting me asking what we want to do when we "chil" and how far we'd go sexually...well I tried getting ahold of him a couple days later but couldn't...

[cheerangelcharity]

Then finally he texted me saying to leave him alone because for one I'm 22 [he's only 15] and I told him "k fine whatever you're the one who started it...and asked how far we'd go" and he just texted back that everyone says things they don't mean when they're DRUNK [apparently when he and his friends left the venue the first time they started drinking.]

that's just sad and I heard that people do say what they mean when they're drunk but just don't mean to say them...and I never drink btw.

[Bubbles]

Wow he was 15, and drinking??

[Opinion Owner]

I never called her ugly. I was guessing what the guy thought, there's no other reason unless she's not including the other details.

[cheerangelcharity]

Yep 15 and drinking and hitting on me because of it...idiot.....