I think Asian men have it the worst. Anyone care to disagree? (Page 2)

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I think it's better to be a woman, as well as a black man or hispanic in America because they get more benefits than Asian men.Asian women can get any white guy they want, while black men can get any woman they want. Asian men can't, unless if they're muscular or act atypical to a typical Asian. Colleges and jobs accept a black or latino with lower SAT scores and lower grades than an Asian guy with high grades and high SAT scores. They even get scholarships as well, to the detriment of many Asians in college.It's easier for women to get a date because they can reject any guy they don't like as 'creepy'. There are more single men than single women. And most single women that I know aren't looking for dates.So I think it's easier to live life is to be born black, hispanic, or a woman in America than to be born as an Asian man in America. Sometimes I think that I was born cursed to be an Asian man and sometimes I wish I was born as a black man or as an Asian woman.I hate myself. No one likes me because I'm an Asian man.

Anonymous · Answer

you should be proud to be Asian, I'm white and I think asian people are really cool, think of all the cool stuff they invented like fireworks, sushi, martial arts, and anime, the list goes on and on. back a long time ago their culture was way more advanced then european culture, they have beautiful writing systems and religions and all and all they have a really awesome culture. Asian women are the most gorgeous women in the world, with their shiny black hair and almond shaped eyes. you should not care about what racist people think. You should consider all the things that are so popular that came from asian culture. that and nigahiga is one of the most popular channels on youtube, he is cute and funny.

Anonymous · Answer

Well it depends how you carry yourself. No offense but if you look like one of those wimpy nerdy guys then of course women aren't going to be attracted to you. I know some Asian guys that are hot and pull girls of all races and they aren't using race as an excuse. I could see if you were victims of employment discrimination, housing discrimination, targeted by police and jobs were being taken out of your community but no you're sitting here whining about girls and SATs.  If you are one of those weak passive guys who stay in the background, how can you whine about not getting girls?  Make an effort.

sh0wgirl · Answer

It doesn't matter what race you are or what you look like, try and remember that at the end of the day, everyone wants the same thing -- everyone wants someone that makes them smile and is fun to be with -- everything else (looks, race, height, physique etc...) -- is all in the eye of the beholder, and eventually fades anyways. Don't stop believing in yourself! Your value and importance as a person  and whether you're fun to be with, has absolutely nothing to do with your race.

Strait_Shooter · Answer

Son we live in the year 2010 in the United States of America. We live in a time where the president is Black. Racism still exists but compare it the 50's or 60's and you will see how far we have come.

This whole theroy of asian girls not wanting to date asian men is nonsense as far as I am concerned. You just sound like some teenager that's p*ssed because he can't get a date on friday night. There is no law saying people can only date their own race because that would be riddicouls and would lead to major turmoil. You need to just suck it up their and try again.

jacquesvol · Answer

Update: And my parents just encourage this f***ing behavior? I can't stand this sh*t! I may be proud of my ancestry, but when my parents tell me to discard my ancestry and my identity, I feel like I'm living in the twilight zone! Ancestry and "identity" (whatever that may mean for you!) don't earn you a meal. That you've to merit. And nobody gets any merit from ancestry and "identity", just as nobody gets any merit from "race".

"I just despise people who are racist towards their own people. " You're racist yourself.

Update: I'm currently suffering from clinical depression. Now I know it's not because I'm Asian, it's because I'm depressed and ugly. I have no idea what to do now.

____________ It's because you're depressed. Period. Ugly? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and depressive people send ugly vibes. Get out of that depression. Are you receiving professional help? If not, get it asap.

gorgeousgemini91 · Answer

I agree with you to a certain extent... I actually think black women have it the worse because we are the ones that deal with the stereotypes & that trashing of our name from all groups... I actually think that EVERYBODY has some kind of struggle... we all just struggle in different ways... I wish everybody could just look at each other as people instead of the labels

gallie · Answer

Hey I think aisan guys are more caring. I have dated both asian and white guys. white guys are more fun, but asian guys are caring and sweet, like someone who would do little things for you to make you happy all the time.ya but sadly it seems like people perfer white guys more...

IHateMeganFox · Answer

I don't agree. I like all races. Asian, black, white, Mexican. I find them all attractive in their own way. The only reason people think Asian men have it bad is because of the whole "small penis thing" But it doesn't really matter because it's about the person not their d*** size. But I also don't agree that any Asian woman can get any man and black men can get any woman... That is far from true. But there is someone out there for you don't worry!

The_Upside · Answer

i disagree I'm half asian half australian and I attracted a lot of girls ..i think its the way you hold your self confidence/attitude towards life ,...you will go through hard times in life everyone does, its about coming through them that makes you the person you are

peace,good luck

smooth

sweetheartcandygirl · Answer

bet u only like on girls out of you league... im a thick mexican girl and well u see my pic... I'm a sexy thickness, i have never been hit on by an Asian guy ever. Do all u Asian only like skinny chicks? lol only thin white chicks and Asian chicks for u huh? Riiiiiiiight see i would date an Asian guy their just not attracted to me. Now I get hit on every day by black guys a lot of them appreciate my curves so do hispanic men as well, but white guys and Asian dudes want some thin Asian whit or THIN latina... guess y'all are more superficial.

allykat · Answer

I am American Indian, Basque french, and italian. I love Asian men. I married a Vietnamese man from Vietnam. Anyways, we separated for a little while and I got involved with another Viet man, who was ugly and had no game at all. Anyways, I got  hooked on that old dood bad. He was not an alpha-male at all; however, the way he played me was as if he knew exactly what he is doing. Anyways, my point: Asian men can have any woman...its all in how they manipulate the game. By the way I must mention--this guy was a 43 year old math teacher--guy had strategy--not player game.

idontknoww · Answer

lol... you serious? I'm 100% Chinese and I don't really have trouble with girls. I think it depends more on the person then of the race.

oo yeah and french girls love asian guys xD. Almost every French girl I know said that so you should go to France.

chynadoll09 · Answer

Omg first let me say that I feel for you I just cried looking at your updates. Unfortunatly there are stereotypes like that but why would you feed into that. I'm am a very attractive black woman and I find asian men sexy and smart. Who wouldn't love having someone like that than the usual player that is just going to waist your time. Trust me god will send you someone all in due time that is going to make you feel worth while don't give up hope have faith.I know that sounds cleshe but seriously please don't feel like that do things to make you feel better. Get into a church or some kind of community. Well if you want to talk more you can message me. Be blessed =D

Confused614 · Answer

I'm not asian but I have no plenty who have had a good attitude towards life were friendly, outspoke and that sort of stuff. I don't think they were that attractive (I'm not gay so I couldn't say for sure) but they got girls they were confident and didn't pout when then got rejected.

Crazycanuck · Answer

hey keep your chin up on of my buddies  is Asian and he just got married to a White girl..about a month and a half ago...the more you consntrate on it  the harder its going to get...but if you just let it go and roll off you then its smoothe sailing...

hallowman · Answer

dude...i think you could get any kind of girl from any kind of race if you tried...each one has a willing girl...any guy can get any kind of girl if they are willing...lots of girls don't care about the penis size if you have a good ego to go with it ...different things turn girls on if a girl dumps you  because ur not huge then you don't need that kind of girl...just keep looking dude

smentor991 · Answer

im sorry I'm not asian or a male I can't empathize but I can tell you that I think plenty of asian guys are hot more like the ABDC kind but still they're asian no doubt about it and I deff don't have any scholarships piled up either lol (I wish).

Hope life gets better

Anonymous · Answer

In terms of dating yes Asian women only want pure white guy they are not even into mixed Asian guy while women of other race prefer their own men and most self hating non Asian women would date mixed men and non Asian don't find Asian attractive well indian men are considered unattractive but indian men who don't look indian do better than Asian men sadly all Asian men look Asian and unlike Asian women indian women are not self hating and prefer india as for women least desirable are black even they do better than Asian men and they can at least get men for sex because at least in sex men don't care about race but Asian men can't do it and no matter what people say to black men no one is more self hating than Asian women most black men prefer black women

Anonymous · Answer

The stereotypical thinking of Asian men is that they have small pricks and doing their best to dress more American.

I'd say yes, they have it somewhat tough. But it's still not easy being a Black man in American either. And I have no idea where you got that it's easier being Hispanic. Try wearing a bandanna and driving near cops close to a Mexican border. That would be a laugh.

rocksongwriter · Answer

"There are more single men than single women."

Um...there are more women than men in America as well as the entire world. So unless there are a lot of lesbians out there, you are wrong.

Don't give up. Just read the book "How Successful People Win" by Ben Stein.

TheHusband · Answer

that's probably because you're an ugly Asian guy. a good looking Asian guy would actually have it better than most non-asians. for one, he'd be able to get any Asian girl he wants and will also be able to attract a high percentage of white girls. also, the thing about colleges only applies to the top few colleges such as ivies, the majority of colleges do not care about race. even then, it applies to Asian female applicants as well, not just the guys. also, for majority of professions, it doesn't matter where you go to school anyways, so it's kind of a moot point to begin with.

also, remember that most Asian girls are rather unattractive and undesirable themselves, and thus they will have a hard time getting a decent guy of any race, so it's not like things are much easier for them

YourHusband · Answer

okay, perhaps YOU'RE one of those unattractive, nerdy Asian men with low self-esteem and confidence, but don't think you can speak for all Asian men. after all, Asian men who are confident, masculine, and attractive are considered desirable by all women, especially Asian women, which is why the most attractive Asian women tend to go for guys like that.

also, black men certainly can't get any women they want since most non-black women aren't interested in them, at least not for a long-term relationship.

Silivanus · Answer

You know what? Stop being a weak little pussy! That is the main problem. I'm a damn Asian male and I do pretty well in obtaining dates if I so desire. I will give to you that you do get blown off a bit due to being Asian and I've experienced it. Yet guess what hero? If you have some confidence in yourself you can attract the vast majority of women, and in all honesty if you don't want some woman who is going to be that superficial anyway. Only moronic women pay that much attention anyway. Perhaps I'm spoiled because I am Okinawan and was gifted with double eyelids and a masculine appearance. I couldn't tell you, but I will say that a lot of it is your own self image. Women smell you insecurities a mile away. Go to the gym, grow some balls, and stop feeling sorry for yourself because your an Asian male.

rapscallion · Answer

wow, i know people feel bad sometimes but trust me "Asian guys don't have it the worst"

You said "So I think it's easier to live life is to be born black, Hispanic, or a woman in America than to be born as an Asian man in America" Are you serious? Nearly half of the young black men in the USA are in jail and almost all have to face prejudice from cops! The stats aren't that much better for young Latino men!

You seriously cannot compare not being able to get girls (as you put it) to being in jail or dead.

As Chris Rock said, when given a choice, a white homeless guy would rather remain homeless than be a rich black guy, LOL.

Prilee1992 · Answer

Dude, I'm chinese Asian guy although I'm still single at the age of 21, but I don't think I would be lonely for the next 30 years.
It really doesn't matter how u look, how much money u earn. What matters is really the only perception you have within yourself. People can't afford to make u lose your own identity if you have strong foundation; strong inner voices versus all those ridiculous external stimuli.

Jinmetsu_Rasetsu · Answer

Well, Don't feel too bad... I am multiracial, and I am short... 167 cm tall... I have a difficult time... And not just because of my height... Sometimes people haven't a clue what the hell I am... When I tan, I resemble my majority being african american... But in the winter... My skin lightens up, and confusion sets in... LOL

I haven't daten in over 7 years... I am so short that asian women think I am too short... LOL

Anonymous · Answer

sorry to break it to you man but From the sounds of it...the reason you're not gonna ever get a girl is because of your horrible pathetic point of views and personality...the asian thing is just something yoUre using to cover up the real problem here that you and I and everyone knows is just simply..you.

Anonymous · Answer

there are a lot of asian women that are rly nasty and would never get a white guy... that goes for any matchup tho... there are allways nasty ppl... and most asian girls that I know are only interested in asian guys, so yea... but in general it probably does suck to be asian unless you have a good personality...

milviel · Answer

I think you need to toughen up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Everyone has some difficulties in one way or another. You should stop moping around and attempt to overcome these perceived obstacles.

Anonymous · Answer

I like asian guys and know a lot of chicks who do, more than I know girls who like black  guys. You know what I think is the hardest to be? Black women, because that is where the largest pool of singels are, right above asian men. Eveveryone just wants to be loved, so that's why I say asain men have it at least better than black women.

JH5022 · Answer

f*** I'm white, dark hair, athletic in college and have a job and I still can't get a girlfriend!

Anonymous · Answer

Waaa waa waa I'm asian it sucks...

get over yourself, and accept who you are.

As for colleges, there's many MORE Asians who come to the US and get more scholarship help than natural born US citizens.

So stop crying,... if anything YOU should be the last one complaining about anything.

Maybe the reason your not attracting girls is because you can't get over yourself (as in insecure).

Anonymous · Answer

I think my comments will cheer you up buddy.  What we need to do collectively as the Asian male race is to band together like brothers.  We need to stand up, GET MAD, GET PISSED and GET ANGRY at society which tries to put us down.  This is America- go get yourself a gun (2nd Amendment) and be ready to stand up to any cock-eyed brain-dead hick that tries to put you down, make jokes or whatever and blow his ass away.  Any **** whore that rejects you just because of your race put a barrel to her sh*tty little forehead and see if she doesn't get on her knees and sucks d***, then spill her tiny brains over the pavement.  PUT JUSTICE IN YOUR OWN HANDS LIKE VIRGINIA TECH, that's really the only way to get through to these racist brainless f***s that inhabit this piece of sh*t country.

Anonymous · Answer

Its not that you're Asian, it's your crap attitude. Do you think that kind of attitude attracts girls? Try being more confident fake it 'til you make it! Stop with the whoa is me thing. I know not a lot of people are attracted to Asian guys but I'm a white girl and I would much rather date an average-attractive nice Asian guy than some hot jack ass white or black guy.

missielovee · Answer

okay, calm down!im going to tell you straight out, I'ma white girl (no worries, I'm not ugly or fat.) iim actually suppperrr atracted to asian guys ( all asian.) I think youare hot. asian guys are more respectful to me, and I loveee asian people!+++ I'm  not even a wannabe asian!hows that!

jssmith · Answer

I am a cute blonde hair, blue I girl & I prefer Asian men. I have dated Vietnamese, Korean, Chinese, & Japanese men. So your theory has holes, my friend married a Vietnamese man & I know several white girls that have married Chinese men. Maybe you just haven't found your niche yet!

hapa18 · Answer

Depends on who you are talking to and about. For me, I only date Asian men and find myself fall more for Chinese guys than any other Asian nationalities. Hell my guy is half chinese hahaha and I love him more than anything. ^_^

Anonymous · Answer

Overall, I know I can't speak for everyone's opinion, I think women have it easier entirely initially when it comes to dating and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. Because us guys always have to make the first move and initiate everything, ask them out, say "I love you first", etc. Yes eventhough some people say that puts us in the drivers seat, that gives us more control, well for me, I don't care who is in control just as long as I'm in a happy, loving relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Hey guys... cheer up please! I am a white girl and not being cocky, but quite good looking too... Just saying. I really, really, really, really like Asian guys. Recently had a a short romance with a American born Chinese guy, was very fun and exciting, wish I'd met him earlier! I just wanted to say that looks don't actually matter in relationships and a lot of white girls have a weakness for Asians, but we are shy and under confident. So my advice is just to grow some balls, go to a club, go up to a girl you like and just start talking.

Anonymous · Answer

Hey guys... cheer up please! I am a white girl and not being cocky, but quite good looking too... Just saying. I really, really, really, really like Asian guys. Recently had a a short romance with a American born Chinese guy, was very fun and exciting, wish I'd met him earlier! I just wanted to say that looks don't actually matter in relationships and a lot of white girls have a weakness for Asians, but we are shy and under confident. So my advice is just to grow some balls, go to a club, go up to a girl you like and just start talking.

KanonWong · Answer

If you go to Europe there isn't much stereotype to Asian men what fucks up us is the US media on TV radio and other stuff Asian guys are always portrayed as infernal weak small d**** feminine study nerd ... its been like this for centuries ~ the only way out is to Leave this place because you are looking at the wrong area go to Europe or other country like South America ~ those girls will easier accepting Asian guys

IsseyMiyake · Answer

I'm attracted to asian men ...I'm from los angeles ... I've tried to date asian men , but they act as if they are intimidated by me because I'm black:(

mikkie180 · Answer

You know what? This girl that I have the hots for prefers guys with asian type eyes, it drives her crazy, so quit your bitching. Well she did give it up last night, so I guess I should quit my bitching too.

Edison · Answer

hey,dude after I think for a moment I'm feel sory about yelling at you,i mean if there is smoke there must be fire,maybe you through something really hard that didn't felt it,but I hope that someday you can proud of your chinese race

Standingpretty · Answer

I feel bad, I think a lot of the reason you feel the way you do is because of a family who brings you down and tells you to be someone your not. I believe that you should get awaay from them and hang out with people who care about you more.

gotc147 · Answer

Being a white male in America is the worst. A black or hispanic or asian person will get a job before a white person because they're minorities. Pretty soon the minorities will be the majorities.

abundantlyrich · Answer

you can if you believe in victimhood... everyone have some sort of challenges in life and they don't have to be asian. So called unattractive people stemming from all ethic and racial background have these problems too.

sskeataesn · Answer

take a gander at this. sting. I know. it hurt when I read it too (asian male). however... I believe in fake it till you make it.

chorboys · Answer

nut up and stop acting like a girl. chicks dig guy with charisma, personality and confidence, not whiney dudes who wantt to kill themseles. you come off as beyond desperate and no (self respecting) chick is going to respond well to that.

burningxdreams · Answer

Take Deep breaths:)

I think you will be fine. I am Asian too, though I am a girl. Sometimes I feel like guys look at me different too because I am not "white" or "their race" but the right girl will NOT care about your race:) You should be happy with who you and be proud you are Asian American. Go to California there are tons of Asians there lol:)

currannaaach · Answer

This is very, very true.

I am indian, so technically, I'm asian, but either way, I know exactly what you mean. People of asian, or indian decent must score so much higher to get accepted compared to any other race.

It's really annoying.

nycl17 · Answer

You need to chill out. Nobody wants to be with someone who talks and thinks like this.

vineeth · Answer

pfftt  ...You are lucky compared to me ...i'm Indian and we Indian men look ugly and pathetic than most other races ...we got screwed by every race out there  ..but we don't have any regrets ...we admit it it's the way we look there is nothing more we can do about it  ...The world will continue to screw us ...

katrinasanchez · Answer

Uh kinda true? chinese guys in my school seem to only get dates with asian girls.. unless they're actually good looking, they can get a date with a white girl who isn't that great looking.. hmm I duno

uwbadgerguy · Answer

id say indians have it worse compared to east asians for getting american women. asians in general are indeed the lowest of ease of getting women id say. we do generally have higher natural intelligence.

Anonymous · Answer

hi,dude,don't be disappointed,I am a Chinese man ,too.But a lot of  white girl can hang out well with me,some of them even like me.However,I am muscular,a little bit handsome and a little bit rich.But my English is poor.You know,no matter Chinese girls or white girls,every girl is different,some may not accept you,but some may like you!Remember,most white guys and black guys are not handsome,just kind of ordinary,what you have to compete with is not Brad Pitt of Kobe.Be confident!

GIntrovert · Answer

I don't think that's true... I think most guys have a hard time finding a girl who likes them... Mostly because girls tend to let guys they like just walk away, without ever giving them a hint...

Anonymous · Answer

How do you figure there are more single men than single women? There are more women than men in the population and every couple involves one man and one woman. That would mean there are more single women than single men since the same number of men and women are in relationships.

snowangle · Answer

That sucks for the other people. I hope I someday marry an Asian. XD

SuckerPunch · Answer

I wouldn't like you because you're so insecure, not because you're asian..

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