The only reason why I would be more likely to help one over the other is based on how badly they were injured. If the woman was badly injured but the man wasn't, then i would be more likely to help the woman. But if the man was badly injured and the woman wasn't, I would be more likely to help the man. If both were injured badly, I would be likely to help both of them. If neither had any real injury, I might be more likely to help the woman only because I am much more comfortable talking to women who I don't know than I am talking to men who I don't know.
I'd definitely call the cops on that first guy I mean wtf how is that punch even justified? Fucking psycho... A light slap is not as half as severe, so if talking doesn't work and they touch you in a really inappropriate area I think it's okay for either gender to slap them. In fact, I actually slapped intrusive men myself before.
In general, if you go in a bar, you should expect a little bit of less than appropriate behavior. I would make sure it didn't escalate in either scenario. But where alcohol is involved, there tends to be touching. And fighting. Been there, done that lol
Probably neither case tbh. Stepping in to someone elses fight usually aggravates the situation even further. That's how people get stabbed to death on a cold lonely night by trying to play "super hero man" until they're rushed to the ER with multiple stab wounds and internal bleeding over someone they don't even know. I wouldn't care tbh I'd let it unfold and let the authoritys handle there business.
I'm disregarding your scenarios because they aren't equal. I'm not going to lie. I'd be more inclined to help a woman in harm's way than a man because she is more physically vulnerable and is more likely to sustain damage and injuries faster. However, if a women was harming a man, I'd intervene there too.
It looks to me like by the time you realize anything has happened it'd be over. I get the purpose of your exercise, though. I don't think these two things are comparable... you're talking about a touch to the leg gets a knee to the face, but an ass-squeeze gets an open-palm slap. Those aren't even remotely close.
But generally speaking, getting involved in someone else's fight rarely goes well. But if I saw a woman continually beating up a man, I would go stop it because his mind is imprisoned and he is defenseless. My mind isn't imprisoned that way, and I may well be the only one in 10 miles who would do something.
Kneeing someone in the face is far more violent and damaging than slapping someone in the face. So in these two scenarios, I'd be very likely to help the woman who just got smashed in the nose. The guy might have a red mark, she'd probably have a broken nose. If the two reactions were the same slap, then I'd probably ignore it, because they deserved it, and should learn to keep their hands to themselves.
That particular jab in the first one looks like it could've done real damage. Neither gender should hit the other period, but an average man hitting an average female is worse because of the physical power differential. A physically strong woman hurting a weaker male is bad too.
Slapping does not equal kicking someone in the face, but ok.
If the scenario was hitting in both things, I'd say they were both wromg. Communicate verbally like an adult. If that does not make them go away rhe barkeeper will probably intervene. If they don't, I'd probably help whoever was being assaulted
None of my business. Women want equality theyre going to have to learn to act properly or get a belt in the mouth from time to time. Saying that i dont like people taking liberties men or women. If a persons scared or outmatched against somebody and the guy still wants to beat them up thats when i step in
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A hard elbow to the face vs a paltry slap? Hardly equal situations. I'd rather take the slap lol.
I would interfere if it continues on after the first hit. Like if the girl continued slapping him, or the guy continued striking her. Not much you can do once someone's already been hit other than get them away from there.
both cases are wrong but the first guy ELBOWED HER IN THE FACE, his sharp bony elbow hit her face, a slap is NOTHING compared to that, if anything it'll bruise his face and his ego, not result in a broken jawbone so obviously the woman would get help quicker
Nothing makes me more angry than domestic abuse from either party. I would intervene regardless. What really makes me sad is I have seen situations where it's the man getting hurt or beat on, no one does anything, and most just assume the man deserves it. no matter the gender domestic abuse is unacceptable.
Probably the same way, give it a whole lotta "leave alone". Someone getting hit once or twice just means its a reaction. now someone continuously hitting another, thats the one that requires intervention. nothing is that serious.
I would do nothing in none of the cases. They are the ones who are having a problem and I have nothing to do with it. Plus, what if they start hitting me? It might happen.
Both cases of hitting was uncalled for. Just remove their hand and walk away from them. Hitting is just going to screw you over legally if they don't hit you first.
i wouldn't intervene if anyone hit anyone, i'm not trained for that. i'd prolly yell a bit if it got out of hand but then if not, i'd mind my own business.
a man is more strong so he can defend him self if he wanted so i'll not help him of course, but the woman doesn't have equal chance so I'll at least take her away from her to understand the story and defend her later if it's necessary
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Anonymous
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i saw a girl in a bar smash a drink in a guys face and the glass caused cuts and there was smashed glass on the floor. Initially when it happened everyone including me were sniggering, and no one came to his rescue until they saw the damage. If a guy lay a finger on a girl, people would call the police instantly
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Did anyone else notice that he says "knees her in the face" but the gif shows the guy hitting her with his ELBOW? That's was bothering me. Anyways I'd help neither cause I tend to mind my own business.
depends. if it´s just a slap, i won´t do anythign, cause i don´t know what lead to that. i´d think bad of the person who slapped the other though. physical violence is just dumb.
75% of girls that get hit in public by men tend to be stepping way out of line. meanwhile if a guy is feeling up on a girl and get hit and tries to fight her id step in.
No matter what the woman did, if he didn't want the attention she was giving him, he should have stated that to her and moved away. A man should NEVER EVER hit a woman. In the second scenario he probably deserved to have the shit slapped out of him.
I understand that you come from a different age, pops, so let me give you the lowdown of what women want these days: equal treatment. They do not want knights in shining armor, they do not want gentlemen. No one should hit anyone, yet if a ridiculously ugly woman (and you have an idea the woman has a dick as long as yours) feels you up, wouldn't you feel so violated that you wouldn't want to defend yourself?
it depends on how lunch damage is done. usually a guy can handle himself if a woman is wailing away at him. it's like trying to swat away a fly
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I wouldn't get involved at all. Only if someones life was actually in danger outside of that they can beat each other into hamburger meat. Maybe it'll be a good lesson for them.
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Anonymous
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I don't think those things are comparable. But people shouldn't be hitting each other. Kneeing in the face is obviously too much, but even with the slap she is not entitled to do that.
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