Why am I so scared to move in together?

[greendaygirl723]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 and 1/2 years and we are moving in together in a month and a half and I am terrified. I love him but I'm having constant doubts about our relationship.

Do other girls have these doubts? Or am I not really going to be happy in this relationship?

[jevaunit1]

Well I know you're asking the girls but I just had to answer

It's perfectly normal to feel scared, this is all knew to you and don't confuse being scared with nervous energy (sex will knock that right out), I'm sure he's scared and nervous too. you're going to find out a lot about each other, some of it's going to be annoying as hell, maybe he doesn't put the toilet seat down, maybe you fart in your sleep, the point is this only a fool wouldn't be afraid of a big change such as this. you're going to have to share space (personal space) with someone else, no were to hide now... he's gonna see you without the glam, you're gonna smell him with out the axe, but all in all it's either gonna make you closer or make you rethink the whole thing, but I'm sure you guys are gonna be ok. me and my wife moved in with each other a whole 4 years before we were married, you know what me and my wife did when we 1st moved in together, we had sex in every room :) I'm talkin non stop from room to room butt necked...sorry you don't wanna hear all that lol

[toulouse]

Lol

awesome answer!

i do that when I move into places..

well, not have sex naked, but bond with each room i& then use the room in a way I like to live :)

whatever activities have deep meaning for me

( dancing reading music & just bonding with each room :)

however I could see the advantage if a stress relieving activity lol

[jevaunit1]

Lol awesome

[Anonymous]

Its a big step because you will spend more time together, and learn new things about each other, noying habits, things you need to learn like compromise etc,

It can test your relationship, might be a period of adjustment and geting used to a new living arrangment, you might have doubts about the relationship, do you see a long term prospect with the guy or are you just with him for comfort and security.