He doesn't accept my friend request?

[Anonymous]

I added someone on Facebook,someone who I met at a party and talked well.Thought he was friendly so I added him but a week past the status is still "pending"..and I'm sure he signed on during the week...

So why is it? And he didn't "ignore it" (otherwise it won't say pending,will it?)

[Anonymous]

Guys are oblivious.

The guy I'm currently dating hasn't accepted my friend request for at least a month. I don't mention it because I don't want to seem like I care. But secretly, I do.

Facebook is huuuuge today.

Good luck.

[Asker]

Oblivious mean he would forget who you are?

[Opinion Owner]

No. Meaning in all likelihood he hasn't even seen your friend request. I know for me, on my Facebook, all I see is '1 new friend request' on the side margin, almost non-visible. And that basically means he's never even seen your add. You could just try messaging him first and then he'd definitely accept you.

[hesaysim2sexy]

it's a bother because it means he doesn't really care or it doesn't bother him... so don't bother either. lol

[Anonymous]

He might be busy with someone else, when he is done with her you will be next, its like a queue, take a number wait your turn etc... you don't want to see what he is up to and with who, or he doesnt...

[mf-ibmj]

some people just don't check their fb that often

[Asker]

No...i know he was on during that week...

[mf-ibmj]

I meant they don't check their friends requests

[Asker]

Hmm....wel...it's right there...it pops into ur eyes...that new friend request...im just thinking if this is how he says no..but actually,it is really "friend" request

[mf-ibmj]

Trust me, I have seen guys that have 15+ friend requests and they don't even check them ! unless i, for example, add them and ask them to confirm me,,

[Asker]

Lol thx for comforting me..i do feel better now

[Darknut123]

The girl I requested still hasn't answered. Went from being friends, blocked to unblocked... will instant message me from time to time to see how I'm doing divulging things going on with her, but won't accept I don't get it

[CrystalB4ller]

Things like that can be a big deal to girls but honestly don't even cross guys' minds. Probably didn't even notice

[Asker]

Huh..really? well..it's just every other friend accepted my requests,like normal...

[RideTheLightning]

dont let it bother you he probaly just hasn't logged on or checked his requests