Before anyone says anything I don't mean a minor. I mean a girl who dresses like a lolita. As in the lolita fashion made popular in Japan. Which is a style of dress to male the wearer literally look like a doll. I'm an adult but I look around twelve or younger because of my childish face and very short height. The only thing about me that isn't young looking is the fact I have big breast lol. But back to my point. Wpuld you date a girl who dresses like this. Which yes is the way I dress. And do not say this promotes being a predator or pedophilia please because it doesn't.
No. I'm not attracted to people who looks way too young or dress too young although in cases where I knows their age and that they can be adults. If I'm going to date a person the person have to look like an adult and behave like one, not only be an adult. The ideal age to look like is between 20 and 35 for me. I would never date anyone who looks younger than 18. This style just makes a person look way too young. Already in my young teens of the age of 13 it was people in their 20s I thought about. All of the girls in the pictures you shared looks 10 for me and not a year older.
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no. not appealing to me. i want to date or marry a woman who acts, behaves, presents like a woman.
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Being a loli doesn't mean you act childish. I very much act my age which by the way is twenty four. I'm childish in a like being goofy and stupid st times yes. But I very much carry myself as a grown women. Not just as a loli because I love the style and look like a kid
not just about acting but behavior and how they present. presenting and/or looking like a child in dress is not appealing to me. there is just something off putting about even feeling like i'd be attracted to a girl who dresses the same as my daughter
I think your the most beautifully delicate flower I've ever seen. I've never had a beautiful girl to have and to hold. I can only hope that you are equally beautiful on the inside. I adore the way you dress... it's most becoming of how delicate you are.
But I'm unfortunately much much older than you. I'm 60 and have pretty much given up after being alone for 17 years.
But what do I have to lose by telling a girl how much I admire her.
I'd love to hold you close to my chest every night
Definitely! The style is unique, and has an elegant beauty to it in my opinion. Ultimately it depends on personality, looks do not always show who a person is...
I suppose I would, as long as I found the person attractive in the fashion that they dress in, then I don't really have a problem with it, be they goth or loli or some other group.
I dated mostly girls around my age and older or younger. The youngest I’ve ever dated was 18 and the oldest was 32. My current girlfriend is the same age as me.
Yeah, just because they're dressing like one doesn't mean they are one, there are plenty of adult women who look like lolis anyway, which makes them insecure
I don't always dress lolita like. But I always am in skirts and dresses that are always bright colors like these ones. But I do own clothes that show off stomach and cleavage that I do wear
People seem to have a stigma attached to the style. And I've noticed people look at me and my boyfriend weirdly when we put together and people always mistake that he's on a date with a child. When in reality I'm the oldest of the two of us by almost three years
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