Why do people judge women who date younger men? (Page 2)

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Men date younger women all the time and it's "normal" but people have something to say when a woman dates a younger man. I've dated younger guys all my life and this didn't start at 34 years old. I'm too young to have a mid life crisis so it's definitely not that. I'm aware that I'm a 34 year old beautiful woman and I embrace that daily and I'm very confident. My age doesn't define me and though I'm not 21 anymore which is fine I'm not a senior citizen either. I don't consider myself "old" and my 25 year old boyfriend loves me and shows me off in public. I'll continue living my best life and being happy.

Wowgirl10q · Answer

Caues they can't I don't date my age they want to marry and have kids F that Give them candy girl

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I agree with you. No one should judge a Woman who is older and dates younger Men i believe that should be her decision. I do agree people will judge us when were dead and gone it makes no matters.

AdmiralBailey · Answer

I don't know. It's some sort of shortcoming within them making them feel like you should live a different life because it seems unfair to them that you're living a rogue lifestyle.
I hope it ends.
~Mr Bails Bails

chrisbigman · Answer

Jealousy? Their idea of what is acceptable, or what society considers acceptable? I personally am not against an older woman dating a younger man. If an older man can date a younger woman, why not the other way around?

Matt57 · Answer

I don't know, I don't see anything wrong with it. Then again, I am a guy that would like to date older women, so of course it doesn't bother me.

red324 · Answer

Most women won't date date a younger guy. I don't mind dating a 35 year old. Probably better than dating a young 23 year old who's just flat out dumb.

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

“Any one who doesn’t support me must be a ‘hater’ and for some reason that makes them invalid. Checkmate atheists.”

TomMarks · Answer

People judge others for weird reasons. Age is just a number, as long as it not some one under 18 then I say have fun and let the haters hate till they admit they are just jealous.

Muhammad1999 · Answer

Because society is shit , old men made the rules and they made it for their interests

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

I don't know but I can understand the other way around... although I am "attracted" to youngers too myself (they are the more kind individuals) , but there are just too many men that don't see the boundaries of what should not be done...

ElvenMr · Answer

Personally i don't, not like i have seen many couples like that. It's hard to tell sometimes, if someone is 30 or 20 in some cases. Not even from behaviour.
And of course there are 25 year old girls who look like they are in their 40's somehow.

CharlieTheUnicorn · Answer

Sexism and a lot of preconceived ideologies. You do you girl, and date who ever makes you happy 👍🏼

niDaye · Answer

Dont worry it is okay.

An older woman? Dont have experience yet. But I saw one very beautiful woman at a engineering conference. She is like 20 years older than me. I was pretty surprised myself was turned on by her.

CuChullan · Answer

People love to judge others who they think don't follow societal norms. We all have to belong to the sheep herd, or so they think.

Eleni91 · Answer

Cause there jealous they can’t control you. There nothing wrong with it. Plus I bet cause they can’t look like you. I like dating older women.

GreatnessBack · Answer

People judge

MrNicety · Answer

People can make up all these dumb rules when it comes to dating. When really, the only thing that matters is the mental connection between the 2. Regardless of race, gender, age etc

Pandora91 · Answer

I never see that? Usually people complain about older guys dating younger women... I never see anyone complain about a woman doing it but I'm sure there's some people who don't like it

Eternal_Blizzard · Answer

Because people think she's destroying his chances of being with a better younger female... While every logic can explain how bad that scenario is... I think it's nobody's business

BatmansWife · Answer

Some people are judgmental, doubled standards and/or hypocrites.

samy_deadpool · Answer

People need to mind their own business  by the way I've never dated younger women hahaha

DrHonesty · Answer

I think it's hot. I dated women 10 years older than me. Best sex of my life 😉

TheSpartan · Answer

That’s because it makes zero sexual strategic sense.

lcc010 · Answer

Pure jealousy, I am 46, which means I'm catching up, but I've been divorced since I was 35, since then I will not date any woman under 50. Younger women are too wrapped up in being social butterflies and are not sexually mature yet...

JalaB33 · Answer

I dated a 17 year old guy when I was 18 and got called a pedophile by a friend lol true story

Rogzi · Answer

The same reason they judge a 34 year olds guy that dates an 18/21 year old girl.

Moonshine9 · Answer

No matter what you do someone will have an opinion based on their values, but you live in your own reality not someone elses so you shouldn't really care allow your own judgement to be Paramount you'll be a lot happier

AngelLily · Answer

For me it's the same with both men and women it depends how old you are and how young your going.

maaaaax · Answer

No, I judge men, like "why?" But to each his own I guess.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

They judged Mr. Macron and his wife too. And they will judge Mr. and Mrs. Jonas as mismatched.  The mindset is at issue.

Northern_star · Answer

with the best intent, im afraid you dont wanna know the real answer to this question, you wanna hear what you want to believe.

Malik00 · Answer

Look Honey You don't need anyone to justify grooming an obedient little boy toy. If you wanna be a cougar go ahead no one cares.

SleepingSnorlax · Answer

Men that date younger women 100% get judges Stuff with the double standard victim bs

Blkone2u · Answer

Because they see them as women on heat that should stick to their age

murdanyc916 · Answer

its that liberal "PC" culture, they think that they set the "norm"

jurgenmeister · Answer

Nothing wrong with it, sometimes age diff. can be sexy

zagor · Answer

Nobody gives a shit who you date, except maybe your mom.

kekekekekekeke · Answer

Let’s say... as long as the guy is not younger than 8 years, then they’re good

Kemil_Zhoki · Answer

Because a lot of people are busybodies who believe that their standards are the best for everyone.

LuWe22 · Answer

I date one younger than me but it's only one year so people don't notice and I don’t care

Pufffgirl · Answer

Because why should an old man/woman date someone that could be their child? its nasty

BZRKr · Answer

[Your age]/2 + 7 = minimum age of your partner. So in your case 34/2+7= 24.  So it is understandable why some people would find it weird.

sonnysunshine · Answer

This is one of the only very, very few double standards men get to enjoy. Considering all the other bullshit I’ll take it.

Bash_Sani · Answer

The purest if love I have seen is actually an older woman dating a younger man. I don't know why people judge. But who gives a duck, I live my life with my own rules

ladsin · Answer

Don’t know. I don’t care.

Paris_44h · Answer

I dont think people should be judged for this, but if someone says something u dont like then I dont see why their comment should he removed lol. U asked a question, they will give u their answer 🤔

momo-22 · Answer

Age is no matter at all.. Love and compatibility is.. For me? I have always liked more mature older girls.. girls my age or younger are way too immature for me..

ryryryan · Answer

Their judgment is damn I'm jealous of that older lady...

Philyouup · Answer

I see no issue with it, I think it shows confidence..

valualty · Answer

Because they gone through their generation and want to go through another 😂

erikthereasonableboy · Answer

My uncle was 39 and dating a 19 year old a couple years ago lmfao

yarek121 · Answer

As long as he can take care of her. What is the problem? Some people need to get out more

9chase · Answer

cause they are sorry people who have nothing else better to do

eagle1951 · Answer

same reason they do it for men who date younger women gives them something to bitch about. plus they are jealous

Rambler221 · Answer

I don't personally approve of large age gaps for either gender, but hey, fuck it, you do you.

Nachowedgie · Answer

They don't, they judge the men who date the older women

Tamtam84 · Answer

Because they want her.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Because some are just closed minded

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

It's what some people live for...

1812Overture · Answer

Because of double standards.

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