Why is a guy hitting back a girl in self defense always blamed. Is it wrong? If u dont want a beating why hit a man?

[Anonymous]

Why do woman think they have to right hit a man and then expect to walk away not getting their ass whooped. SMH

[Anonymous]

Neither of them should use violence in the first place. But if a woman is attacking you, I don't see why you shouldn't be allowed to use self defense.

[Asker]

Laws forbid us

[MissChasityL]

Neither one of them should hit the other one, that’s abuse in both cases.

[Asker]

Yes neither should hit but what if the woman doesn't stop hitting what are guys supposed to so? If we hit her we are assaulting her if we tackle her we are sexually harassing her. ? Ur a woman so tell us what a guy should do?

[JxrdN]

It doesn’t matter what your gender is, if you hit me it’s going to produce the same result of you getting shit whipped.

[JxrdN]

Lol thanks for MHO

[grega239]

i dont think a woman could hit me hard enough for me to retaliate. unless she kicks me in the ball, then she's fucked

[OlderAndWiser]

Self-defense means using the minimal amount of force necessary to protect yourself. It doesn't mean that someone has given you an excuse to beat the tar out of them.

[Asker]

If u got kicked in the balls would u still hold back

[howarth2469]

Na self defence is anything u see as necessary to defend yourself apart from killing them obviously

[OlderAndWiser]

@howarth2469 Is that your legal opinion? Self-defense is a legal term.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would do whatever was necessary to make sure that it didn't happen again.

[howarth2469]

What the fuck are u on about

[OlderAndWiser]

@howarth2469 I thought that my response was very clear. What do you not understand?

[howarth2469]

All of it

[OlderAndWiser]

@howarth2469 Is English not your native language?

[howarth2469]

Oi dont get fucking cheeky im asking you what you meant so dont be getting fucking lippy

[OlderAndWiser]

@howarth2469 I thought my words were very clear and should have been understood by anyone who speaks English as a native. I asked what part you did not understand and you said "all of it." You profile does not indicate your nationality. No need to get in a snit.

[howarth2469]

Im English but what u said made no fucking sense

[OlderAndWiser]

@howarth2469 To me, the words are so clear that I cannot imagine why you would not understand what I said. Was it my use of the expression, "beat the tar out of them?"

[howarth2469]

The fuck r u on about

[Asker]

Calm down both of you.

[howarth2469]

Im calm he just won't tell me what he is on about

[Mexicoman101]

I mean I wouldn’t do it but I’d probably manhandle her to the ground or twist her wrist if a woman punched me.

[Asker]

If u man handled a woman she would rather start shouting and blaming u for sexual harassment. Its best to punch back once and defend

[Mexicoman101]

I’m not afraid of that happening. I punched a woman back once when I was a kid who was even older and taller than I was and I just felt fucked up about it after. When it happens to you, you’ll realize it doesn’t feel remotely good or impressive to punch a woman back, because when you’re that pissed after getting punched its hard to regulate the amount of force you use.

[Mexicoman101]

All you really need to do is establish dominance and scare her into knowing not to do it again.

[Asker]

I think i get what u say

[rickytim]

Nether one should be hitting each other I have been in martial arts for a long time and never hit someone only self defence but I never hit a woman

[wankiam]

would you agree that men are generally bigger and stronger than women?

[Asker]

Just because we are strong doesn't mean we should just stand and take the beating. Im not talking about hitting back like a boxer. Just enough to defend

[wankiam]

no it doesn't and what you have done there is assumed i was going to suggest that... my point actually is that restraining her until she calms down would be the better option and make you the better person. as oldandwise guy said... its not an excuse for you to lay into her

[Asker]

How would u stop a girl that is hell bent on punching u? Talking rarely works with such people

[wankiam]

restraint... like i said. if she was trying to punch you then grab her arm and stop her. thats it.

[Asker]

Got it👍

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Violence should never be the option, on the woman' side, nor the man's.

[madhatters4]

it isn't always blamed

[SarahsSummer]

Is walking away not an option?

[Asker]

Id never let a woman hit me and walk away

[SarahsSummer]

why's that? Isn't walking away also "self defense"?

[Asker]

Nope. Thats ridiculous. Its just being cowardice

[Asker]

Coward**

[SarahsSummer]

so self defense really isn't the issue is it? You just like an excuse to hit a girl.
Does that make you feel like a hero?

[Asker]

Its not an excuse. Its equality. She hit me i her back. Thats what u feminists claim right? Equality?

[SarahsSummer]

so again, it's not really about "self defense". that's just your bs excuse to hit a girl. Does hitting a girl make you feel extra manly inside?

[Asker]

Self defense is impossible against women. As much as id like to return the favour to a girl who hits me. I can't. Id get arrested and she gets to walk away with that bullshit

[SarahsSummer]

You seem to have this notion in your head that "self defense" means hitting someone. It Doesn't.

[Asker]

If protecting yourself was just about not hitting the other person. There wouldn't be weapons in this world. Everyone knows offense is a defense. When the enemy knows u can hurt them they won't even try to hit you. Same goes for this situation

[Journeyman11]

What do you mean, an "excuse to hit a girl"? YOU are excusing the abusive girl, when you say that HE is equally bad, or worse, when he hits back.
If the outcome is the same, what is the difference between hitting a man and hitting a woman?
And why can a woman, who assaults someone, still demand not to be hit back, as long as he doesn't hit back harder than her?

You pretend like breaking a man's nose is somehow better than breaking a woman's nose.
This guy is not a womanhater. If anyone, it's YOU who values the opposite gender less than the own.

[Journeyman11]

And why the fuck should I WALK AWAY, when someone assaults me? Why do I have to walk away? Why should I let her do that?
Why does a man have to make that sacrifice, but a woman who dishes out violence, doesn't deserve EXACTLY what she does to others?

[Journeyman11]

If men and women are worth the same, why do you call it an "excuse" to hit a girl?
YOU are asking ME to treat her, like she's worth more than me, just because she doesn't have a penis!
Why is it any more necessary, to find an "excuse" to hit a woman, than a man, when the outcome is the same, and especially if SHE initiates?

I am just NOT treating her better than she treats me, AFTER she attacked me!
Why do you think you deserve that? Why are you in a state of mind, where being treated like you're worth more than men is the norm, and anytime I refuse to treat a woman like she's worth more, it's something "bad", and I'm just finding an excuse to do bad things to her.

Fuck that.

[SarahsSummer]

@Journeyman11 he said he wouldn’t walk away because it makes him look cowardly which is not an excuse to hit a girl or hit anyone for that matter. If Walking away US an option, taking it dies several things, it diffuses the situation, it dies t cause harm to another human being (let’s face it) the average girl is going to be more injured by the average guy in a fight than the average guy would be. If she hits first , not walking away JUST so he won’t look like a coward is a pathetic excuse. If one person hits, then one person is at fault and can be subject to assault charges, period. Guys and their precious egos cause more problems than good old common sense.

[Asker]

If u girls dont want ur ass whooped don't hit a guy and expect to walk away. Journeyman11 has already stated valid points.