Entitled or just desire. Childless people in general are more desirable to start something serious with anyway. Single mothers struggle to find a good man let alone a man with no kids and often have to settle for any guy they can get.
That is ridiculous and self absorption at its finest. They should slap themselves. won't date someone for being exactly whi u are? Girl get a life lol not u them lol
It doesn't matter to me if that's their preference but I've see several times where women complain about guys without kids who won't get in serious relationships with them. Like that's something foreign and completely irrational.
In case common sense just completely passed them by, no there's not a lot free men out there lining up to take on their baggage. You can have your preferences but there's a damn good chance you won't find it anywhere and that should be common sense.
Only unhinged Social Justice Warriors would suggest single mothers SHOULD BE entitled to childless men. Make your first relationship work if you're worried about how difficult it might be to be a single mother. Take some personal responsibility; it will make life a lot easier!
I wouldn't say they feel entitled but I mean It is their life. They can do as they want and be with who they want. Everyone has a choice some choices dont seem right to others but doesn't mean it is wrong.
I think it’s fine if single moms won’t date single dads or vice versa. It’s already hard enough to introduce a parent’s new romantic partner but if they come with extra kids there will be even more work and potential conflict.
That's what I'm saying, not only do you get a partner who understands the struggles of parenthood, but you get another child to love and care for as a plus, I don't know why single moms don't usually go for single dads lol
"like he doesn’t belong to me fully..." - that's exactly what men feel about single mothers yet we're called sexist and immature for not dating them. I dont want to deal with attitudes from kids who aren't mine and baby daddies constantly coming around.
Uh no nobody is entitled to anything least of all a person you don't just get handed a free provider if you want a PARTNER you can pair up with single fathers but your not entitled to anyone least of all somebody who is free from any and all baggage your child is yours and the fathers responsibility nobody elses
Sure it's hypocritical, but relationships aren't law courts. I know women older than me who will only date much younger men. It might be hypocritical, but people are perfectly entitled to like what they like and avoid what they don't.
No cause she expected him especially if it right away and if you both understand if she introduces you right away I’d be worried cause she might expect you to provide.
Exactly he's there as a provider if they want a partner that's different but there are single fathers who you can actually bond with because have similar struggles of being a single parent
I've been running into this a LOT in my 30s. No, they're entitled to shit. I've gotten speeches from multiple women already who play victim after I reject them for being single mothers.
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Entitled or just desire. Childless people in general are more desirable to start something serious with anyway. Single mothers struggle to find a good man let alone a man with no kids and often have to settle for any guy they can get.
That is ridiculous and self absorption at its finest. They should slap themselves. won't date someone for being exactly whi u are? Girl get a life lol not u them lol
I might sleep with a single mother, but I would never have a relationship with one.
Any woman who isn't a widow and has a child without being married made a serious mistake somewhere along the line.
It doesn't matter to me if that's their preference but I've see several times where women complain about guys without kids who won't get in serious relationships with them. Like that's something foreign and completely irrational.
In case common sense just completely passed them by, no there's not a lot free men out there lining up to take on their baggage. You can have your preferences but there's a damn good chance you won't find it anywhere and that should be common sense.
Only unhinged Social Justice Warriors would suggest single mothers SHOULD BE entitled to childless men. Make your first relationship work if you're worried about how difficult it might be to be a single mother. Take some personal responsibility; it will make life a lot easier!
As a single mom it’s all about the guy. I mean if he’s good with kids (others, his, or mine) I don’t care. It more about how he is as a person
I wouldn't say they feel entitled but I mean It is their life. They can do as they want and be with who they want. Everyone has a choice some choices dont seem right to others but doesn't mean it is wrong.
I think it’s fine if single moms won’t date single dads or vice versa. It’s already hard enough to introduce a parent’s new romantic partner but if they come with extra kids there will be even more work and potential conflict.
That's what I'm saying, not only do you get a partner who understands the struggles of parenthood, but you get another child to love and care for as a plus, I don't know why single moms don't usually go for single dads lol
It’s difficult to say something unless you are in that position.
It does seem like a bad thing, as it would make me feel like he doesn’t belong to me fully...
"like he doesn’t belong to me fully..." - that's exactly what men feel about single mothers yet we're called sexist and immature for not dating them. I dont want to deal with attitudes from kids who aren't mine and baby daddies constantly coming around.
I don’t believe people should be entitled to anything but I’m not surprised.
Uh no nobody is entitled to anything least of all a person you don't just get handed a free provider if you want a PARTNER you can pair up with single fathers but your not entitled to anyone least of all somebody who is free from any and all baggage your child is yours and the fathers responsibility nobody elses
I think others shouldn't care so much whom another person dates.
If a single mother find a guy she likes and that like her back it really doesn't matter if he has a kid or not.
That’s not what I meant lol.
Who cares? Let they make whatever choices they choose. Regardless, who they want and who they can get are not the same.
Sure it's hypocritical, but relationships aren't law courts. I know women older than me who will only date much younger men. It might be hypocritical, but people are perfectly entitled to like what they like and avoid what they don't.
As far as I'm concerned, when the entitlement is in, the dating is out.
No cause she expected him especially if it right away and if you both understand if she introduces you right away I’d be worried cause she might expect you to provide.
Exactly he's there as a provider if they want a partner that's different but there are single fathers who you can actually bond with because have similar struggles of being a single parent
I've been running into this a LOT in my 30s. No, they're entitled to shit. I've gotten speeches from multiple women already who play victim after I reject them for being single mothers.
Right on.
It is very hypocritical.
Chidless men don't want to date them because they bring a lot of drama and the reward is the same as a childless woman.
No offense, but I would only date a single mother if I run out of options.
No there should be no double standards, but unfortunately there are and it sucks. I am a single dad who has his daughter full time.