Well if I like a woman I ask her out, even if I don't know her. Obviously I get turned down a decent bit like anyone else. If I want to know someone I talk to them. Thing is I don't want to know most people, and I only talk when I have something to say.
And how's that working for you? I was in your same boat and it didn't do so well for me.. but if it's working for you, then great!.. I guess the point I realized is that I might meet new job ventures/entrepreneurs/etc.. Basically, I didn't see any real harm or danger in networking cause I realized I didn't have to take "Every girl I met" on a date.. Ya know?
i used to do that too. I think that's a big problem. don't talk only to people you're interested. I'm quiet too and I used to do that. try to talk to more people (other then ones you see as potential dates) because you never know what may happen or who they may be.
Why would women fight over a loud-mouth blow hard?
I don't know, but a lot of them do...it makes no sense to me.
Personally I would find it more likely if women were to compete over good looking, rich, intelligent and have a huge ****.
Honestly, I don't look for wealth or a huge d***. Just nice, semi-intelligent, not a total douchebag, and as long as his d*** is 4+ inches it's OK with me.
Don't knock it til ya try it (:
I don't knock anything before thoroughly trying it, but I'm not about to fight for a guy just because he's rich and has a big d***. I don't fight for any guy that wouldn't fight for me, rich guys usually don't have to fight for anything they're whole life (just speaking from my own experience, not stereotyping).
All I'm saying is a lot of girls I know didn't think size mattered until they were with a guy that had a thick one
I don't find anything particularly manly about not paying for a woman's dinner or kissing a** to try and get a** lol
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Quiet guys are either socially awkward, insecure, or stoic.Being socially awkward is creepy because it shows a lack of interaction & intepreting acceptable behavior.Being insecure is creepy because it may lead to depression or desperation or show a lack of self esteem/confidence.Being stoic is creepy because I get a sociopath vibe.
Well what if the guy just prefers to be quiet most of the time, and opens up with the woman he is dating, family and friends? Might be worth pointing out that most sociopathic serial killers were described by their neighbors as "the nice guy" and that they couldn't believe such a nice guy could possibly torture and rape women and kids and burn the remains in a furnace. Real sociopaths are often extremely charming and very good at pretending to be human.
I know all about sociopaths. They have a charming persona when active/engaging others not by themselves hence when I see a quiet guy when passive I get sociopath vibe.Well what if the guy just prefers to be quiet most of the time, and opens up with the woman he is dating, family and friends?Not creepy but not my type.
I don't think I've met a bigger idiot then you. By the way, do you ever sleep? All you do is hate on men 24 hrs a day. And I know the reason why. Men don't give you the time of day & that I know for a fact. Whoever sits on site like this ALL fricken DAY is the SOCIALLY AWKWARD one. Another fact. Sorry, had to say it, my opinion.
Allday? I come on here a few hours a day. Are you on here all day to verify thatI am?Men attractive men give me time.Show me this so called man hate.How is finding quiet guys creepy stupid? Let me guess you're offended because you're quiet?If you weren't so narrow minded you'd see I put manly is based on character meaning I don't think they're unmanly just creepy.
Man hate? Seriously show one.I find it funny that not liking quiet guys, prefering a big d*ck, not liking unattractive guys, and giving rape stats is defined as man hate.
Well, there are some quiet guys that have a big **** and aren't ugly or disrespectful to women
Why are you so settled on me liking quiet guys.Some girls like them, some don't mind, and some don't like them.I'm the latter because I find them creepy because they are usually either socially awkward, insecure, or stoic.Having a few qualities I want won't disqualify the creepy factor.Just like for my guys/girls you can be the perfect match but if you're ugly/average it won't happen.
Well it comes down to a matter of social normalcy. In America, it is more normal for men to be extroverted and in women's faces about what they want. I think extroversion gets mistaken for self confidence here in the West. Personally I know a lot of extremely insecure people that need constant validation and attention from their friends, despite being extremely personable and outgoing.
Actually in America it's normal for both genders to be extroverts.On the case of aggressiveness you're right that's a "male" trait.Some might mistake being an extrovery for confidence but I don't I know any one can be insecure. It's just a quiet guy is more likely to be insecure.What was your point? I know insecurity isn't limited to quiet guys & I don't mistake being an extrovert for confidence.It doesn't change the fact I find quiet guys creepy.
But you should date who you are attracted to (:
I do date who I'm attracted to & quiet guys aren't it.
I can see that, personally I couldn't date someone so quiet they can't open up to me, but I wouldn't care if she was quiet in front of other people. I think women tend to prefer outgoing men and that in general quiet guys are left out to dry lol
Most people like outgoing people.Just like most people prefer attractive partners & ugly guys/girls (girls more so because guys are judged more on character) are usually left out.Do you think it's because you're quiet that you won't mind?People will like what they like.
Most people like people that like them and people that are like them. This is because most people understandably like themselves and are familiar with people that are like them and like the same things that they like. Because most Americans have an extroverted personality (MBTI) they like other extroverts.In some other countries where consensus is valued, I think those that are too loud or too extroverted are possibly seen as self-centered, ignorant or rude.
I don't think to be extroverted is to have a better character. If someone has a bad personality and they are very extroverted, they're just an annoying.
Cool.So you dislike extrovert guys/girls.And I prefer not to date introvert guys.
No I prefer to date more bubbly outgoing women actually, because I'm pretty laid back and those are the women that usually hit on me lol
I always found that funny when a guy complains that women finds/views a trait he has as a negative but prefers to date women without that date.It's like if you prefer to date someone without the trait why can't you get an idea of why they'd prefer to date someone without the trait.Whatever.
Well I date a lot of different types of women, because I care more about things like how smart she is and whether she shares my extremely old-fashioned morals when it comes to relationships and sex. Out of the 4 girls I've dated, 2 asked me out and I asked the other 2 out.
But since I have remained a virgin so I can't be manly by definition, according to society. Because all real men have to sow their seed.
Sowing your seeds doesn't make you manly that's just a gender role most guys want to keep so they can be free to slut about.Manly is based on a guy's character.
What if he had said he hadn't found the right woman yet
thats pretty much what he said...whats your point? I just think he's a jerk..i like him and he said that?!
Well if you're really quiet you don't meet a lot of people, or perhaps you believe in soul mates. I know I haven't met the right woman yet. As I am very passive and quiet.
he acts like he has way more friends than me...but he just hangs out with his nerd friends. idk
Sounds like he's high off the smell of his own s***. I don't have any friends at all, though.