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Why are so many men so uncomfortable by a woman breastfeeding in public? (Page 2)
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1. One boob is left spare.
2. That can arouse many, well thats not an issue but then why they can't wank in public too.
3. Sometimes it really feels just awkward and one has no reason to give.
Men Like tits, they are sexy, they are a "Turn-on" they do not see them as a "Self contained food delivery system" for babies all they see are BOOBS... Boobs and More BOOBS
I know... immature. but there you have it...
I don't think there is anything to be uncomfortable about TBH!
I didn’t know they were I’m definitely not I think it’s great
Because many see breasts and nudity in general as something sexual.
Cheapster's are mostly uncomfortable with this. Men's with a cheap thoughts
I don’t care , I just don’t want them to think I’m staring
It's so hard sometimes tho! Grrr
@Inbox Always 😊
Cause they can't jerk off in public. Jk
Breasts are mostly seen as sexual organs more than a food source. Not everyone wants to be reminded about sexual stuff
Also to many men , women breastfeeding alone implies she doesn't have a man around to control her and stop her from exposing her body. So an independent women irks them
because we know you're going to attack us for looking/staring/sneaking peaks because women think they should have the right to control men's eyes. And I guess we'd just rather avoid that whole situation. You're welcome.
people are afraid of girls nipples... they are so scary!
👻 👻 boo
@Apple1996 haha i like to be scared though :P
There's no reason for it. It's more difficult to think something through, so stupid people just react, instead of considering things.
Because some men are sissys about it and don't want to deal with their erection when all they need to do is stop looking and a woman feeding her baby.
Because she's pulling her boob out in public aka public flashing with an excuse.
If I take my shirt off it's not flashing. Saying it's different because she's a woman is ridiculous. They're not genitals. That is public flashing.
Besides when tits are out we want to see them not babies
Then go to a strip club
They are not. You are delusional for believing that.
So the guys I was talking to yesterday about it was just lying?
@Subarugirl you didn't even mention what you were even talking about. i see now the story is going to change but in the end it is all anecdotes.
Most men under 30 haven't witnessed that in their lifetime, except as infants, and perhaps in a movie. Nevertheless, I must be mentally challenged that it didn't occur to me that even more than sports, that must be what most men are talking about.
To many men a boob is strictly sexual and so they worry that they might become aroused when looking at a baby.
Because its exposing almost her nudity; at least put a blanket over the breast if the child needs to be fed right then and there.
Because they are mad they don't have control over a women's body
I'm only against it to annoy all shouting feminazis.
There is no need for it, it can be done in private like ages before all 'woke' nonsense.
Yes, I'm anon, I clicked it.
I dont think thats true, can't think if any man i know who wouldn't enjoy seeing a mother and a baby together bonding
It’s low class not lady like but as a last resort acceptable
It’s low class to feed a hungry child?
In public yes it is if it requires you to expose yourself these women could at least take them somewhere private
Expose what? No one complains when a man takes his shirt off to swim or to jog.
Women aren't as visually stimulated as men
I am not at all uncomfortable seeing big lactating boobs in public.
No I wouldn’t imagine you are
@Subarugirl. Let's be honest, most men like look at breasts. You are disgusted by men who are creeped out by women breastfeeding in public, I have no problem with it because, hey, I like boobs.
I’m not upset. It’s just a question. I think I have a pretty good idea of why a lot of people find it uncomfortable. I just wanted to know what other people thought. Thank you for contributing.
Well, for one, it's a misuse of the equipment... 😄
As it becomes more prevelent and accepted, views will change but the classic paradigm still lingers
To many messed up female's with to much free time bjaping entitled toxicity to get a daily kick.
I have no problem with it, it is perfectly natural.
I was taught if you didn't have enough good things to share with anybody in the room, don't let them see it. ;P
I dont think mother nature is disgusting at all lol
Because men are sexually exited by it and it is hard to walk around with an erection.
Only one reason ofcourse seduction or attraction of seeing her breast turns them on
Maybe cause they don't usually see tits out with a baby around them that often
maybe because we have sexual desire when we see beautiful breasts
I comfortable for breastfeeding because whole food for baby
Because it makes my dick hard in public when I see a naked boob
Uhm well
Deep down many of us wish we could ask if we could suckle on the other nipple
I'm a revert so I look at the tittys. I'll. make u uncomfortable
Pervert
You misspelled "childless women."
What?
Men don't care about breastfeeding, but childless women do. This is pure psychological projection, Karen.
Actually I’ve been lots of men who do mind, there are women who do too. I’m not projecting. I was inspired to post this because of an article that literally just read. No need to be an ass and call names. If it doesn’t bother you, great, but it does bother some people.
10+ internetz says the article was written by a woman and is secondhand psychological projection because responsibility is women's kryptonite.
Why are you coming for me? It was just a question.. I don’t need you to agree with me but you may want to entertain the thought that you may not right about everything.
Are you really implying the author wasn't female or that me don't like seeing breasts? Never trust someone wearing a mask confirmed.
Ohhh you’re one of those.. okay that makes more sense. You’re just an idiot lol
You have no argument. I win the internet. 🦒🍆🇺🇸🎲
Okay buddy you keep thinking that
Good girl [pets you vigorously] 🦒🍆🇺🇸🎲
Bare breasts get them horny
men do not care
the government does
you should go to peru you see tits every where
I’m not and it’s important for the child
I see nothing wrong with the public breastfeeding
Honestly most people don't.
Oh but there are so many people who do
I don't, I mean i might stare because i haven't seen it before otherwise I try to ignore it
Well that’s great, more people should be like that
I think it’s the titty envy lol
Same reason why so many women so uncomfortable my men having boners in public
Having an erection and breastfeeding an infant isn’t remotely close to the same thing
I don’t understand how you could even correlate the two. This is uncomfortable
@ddogsandfrogs If anyone talks about something arousing, orgasmic and something "you can't control" (because you can't control your baby's hunger" that principle exists in both. You can't deny that boobs are sexual organs. If you're uncomfortable with guys being "uncomfortable" look for solutions to cover it. Like really it's common sense.
We're not uncomfortable with the breast feeding alone but we're in fact uncomfortable because she might turn out to be a moron who screams "stare rape" for just looking at her exposed boobs as if it's our fault we have eyes.
You’re comparing your own self control to that of an infant?
It's not just my own but every guys would agree that boners are really uncontrollable and can randomly happen even if you're not being horny. So yes you can't control your breathing, you can't control your digestion, you can't control your periods, you can't control your blood flows which is one reason boner happens. The point is both the baby's hunger and boners maybe uncontrollable but anyone have the control to cover it. It's bold of you to assume guys can just control it.
Unless they have erectile dysfunctions. Guys who have erection problems or who just can't have can't relate.
I’m not expecting you control an erection, you can but I expect you to control the way that you act.
What "act" are you even talking about? Ok sure you can talk about those weirdo creeps who would really take actions for it but they don't make up the majority of men. As far as i know, most men would just stare at it in secret so the only way you'd know is you'd stare at them as well. It's like this, if someone is carrying a cute pet like a puppy for example, you can't control the urge to say it's cute in your mind and you get the desire to look at it. The only difference is it's nothing sexual so you wouldn't resist so there's no reason for you to feel uncomfortable. You're still ignoring the fact that boobs are sexual organs and it is also your responsibility to take precaution. Otherwise, i bet you're also the same person who would just leave your car open or leave their wallet on a chair then blame the thief. But if you're so good at keeping an eye on your belongings, then there's no excuse for you to cover up when breast feeding.
Breastfeeding isn’t sexual either.
It's basic precaution and responsibility. After all, you have no idea how much those guys also took risks to stare at those blobs creepily considering the fact that they can easily get embarrassed by society or even get convicted for such claims.
I never said breast feeding is sexual. I said boobs are sexual. What makes you think "breast feeding" doesn't involve "breasts"? Do you breast feed with your butt?
Breasts aren’t sexual organs, but that doesn’t really matter lots of people sexualize non sexual body parts. Feet for example, feet. Having a foot fetish is one of the post common foot fetishes out there, should I start wearing closed toed shoes all the time becase someone might sexualize my feet? That’s ludicrous.
Boobs orgasm exist, they're linked to how much estrogen you have which is also a sex drive, if it's nothing sexual, then why do most girls feel "harassed" even if the boobs was accidentally touched? Do you not realize even animals hide when they breast feed? As humans being biological creatures, we do share our great ancestors DNA so yes it is a sexual organ. Feet doesn't share the same features which is why most guys aren't even footers. Women don't feel harassed when their foot is touched. So ironically you like to call me the one giving "unfair" comparisons when that's exactly what you're doing at this point
Oh and that goes for men too since men also have boobs.
How about you learn to appreciate how people look with out sexualizing a persons body. Once you have children, if you SO breast feeds, I think you will feel a bit differently.
Are you even able to see a naked body without sexualizing it?
Nobody is saying that we shouldn't control it but the fact that boobs is still a sexual organ, being aroused by it is still on normal thing only we don't take actions for it. That's the same for naked body. Tho i'm not speaking for myself and for all guys but that doesn't remove the fact that it is a sexual organ. If my SO breast feeds, it wouldn't matter if i get turn on or not because i know i'm not going to do anything about it. But the question is will other guys do? Which is why i'm going to cover for her because again it is responsibility. If you don't like that kind of responsibility then who is forcing your to have a child?
So if you really like to say that boobs is not a sexual organ i can say the same thing with penises because thats just for peeing. The true reproductive organ would be the balls that we should cover. But sure you don't like comparing boobs to penises but you like to compare moves to feet. But sure i can also compare female boobs to male boobs and which is also why majority of men don't even go topless. While boobs orgasm exists, the difference is that girls don't really appreciate guys moves as much as guys appreciating girls boobs is because girls have more boobs orgasm than guys so there is not much reason for women to appreciate guys boobs when they have their own and better. This explanation even has nothing to do with saying it is ok to grop a girls boobs but another reason why guys get turned on by it. But the thing is you just don't really like to learn. All you like to do is make straw man argument.
One more thing. here's another fact for you, just like how it feels to get nipple rubbed, women also feel that arousing feeling when breast feeding www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3431754/ and it's normal. Do me a favor and go to the "Sexual Arousal During Breastfeeding" part. So if I have to judge women like how you judge men, i can say they're freaks for getting aroused with their own child. But it's "only breast feeding" right?
I have breast fed thank for educating me but I’m aware that can happen to some people
And that's why it is a sexual organ and you shouldn't get surprised if anyone gets horny over it. You're fighting so hard to argue it isn't when you can just use nursing covers. It's not like you're carrying tons of dumbbell weights with you. It's not because all men gets horny but it's because there always is a creep. Even guys have to beware of female creeps and take precautions but it doesn't mean all women are like that. It's basic responsibility and what you should agree on before committing to have a child. Thanks for actually taking it. It's quite rare to see someone actually opening their eyes
No we will just have to agree to disagree. Though as a mother I do have more experience in this department.
Being a mom doesn't really qualify anything when we both know there are also deadbeat moms who don't even know what they're doing. And if you know better, you shouldn't be surprised about how some guys would react to breast feeding.
Oh I am not surprised, I just think that it should be normalized that people should be more comfortable with such a normal and natural thing. I would be willing to venture that the majority of people don't care, but there are some close minded individuals that can't separate sexuality and nurturing an infant, that is what I have an issue with. That some people find the female body so sexualized that she has to hide her self away just so that people like you aren't uncomfortable.
How ever, it was never natural to breast feed in front of people you don't know. It's much more natural to hide and take precautions because it's common sense and even animals and our primitive ancestors have it. Again this isn't about the breastfeeding being sexualized but the fact that it's boobs we're talking about. So about that link i sent to you, about women being aroused when they breast feed, why can't they also separate sexuality to breast feeding? So if they can't because it's normal, then it's also normal for guys to get turned on when they see boobs. Those close minded individuals demanding women not to wear something that turns them on are just the minority here. Sure you are now allowed to wear short shorts and crop tops but that's not removing the fact that there could be lots of guys turned on about it but you just don't know it.
Men and women get turned on by random shit all the time. Just don't be an asshole or a creep about it.
I promise you that one day when you have kids, you'll feel differently about this topic.
Imagine if you're in a bus and someone in front of you is carrying a really cute puppy or a kitten or whatever cute pet that makes you feel how it feels. It would be hard to take your eyes off it. You just won't resist because you know it's not a bad thing. You're gonna have urge to talk about how cute that pet is. You can say "can i pet it?" only because it isn't sexual. Yes that's like how it feels to cat call or to get the desire to look at boobs for some guys. The only thing is that, looking at a boobs is the sexual urge version of looking at something cute that makes you say "awww can i pet it"?
I said it before "If my SO breast feeds, it wouldn't matter if i get turn on or not because i know i'm not going to do anything about it. But the question is will other guys do? Which is why i'm going to cover for her because again it is responsibility."
Did you even forget that part? Or are you just deliberately ignoring it to try to put words on my mouth as if i knew nothing?
Do you have any idea what self control is? Let me use your same analogy. I'm on a bus and there is someone there with service dog that super cute, and I want to pet it, but I am not going to ask because that would be inappropriate.
When it comes to pets in the bus, you're also ignoring the part where i said "The only difference is it's nothing sexual so you wouldn't resist so there's no reason for you to feel uncomfortable" But face it. You know it's not easy to keep your eyes off it. So you wanna talk about self control? That's what a lot of guys could have been doing and how they felt. The only exceptions are those cat callers.
It's always a taboo when guys just express something but luckily for you, when you're moody because you're on your periods or whatever, it's so much excusable "because guys don't know how you feel" yet you don't know how guys hormones felt.
it's so much excusable *to bitch out about something
One more thing would be, chances are those guys who cat calls about breast feeding and be creeps are also those guys who whines a lot because they can't bottle up their emotions like what the average guys would do. So if you wanna talk about guys not having any "self control" then you're talking about those loud minority creeps.
Because we want to watch but know we shouldn't.
bring out the boobs! whip out the tits!
I have no idea. I don't see the problem.
Why do we wear clothes huh?
I think getting uncomfortable is kinda normal.
Bc most men are perverts
Lord knows it's ridiculous
Cuz they dont get no tiddie
Close enaugh 😗
We’re just not used to it
Men who do that must be prudes.
Because sharing is caring
Not many, it's mostly women who bitch about it.
because it makes them thirsty
Because they want to suck too
lol 😂
Don't know, I'm not bothered by it
No idea, I didn't know this was a thing.
I really don't bother.
I don't care. İ see nipples