I'm short, quite unattractive looking (ugly), overweight, dark-skinned, etc. So you can assume what I always get from everyone about first impressions, and it's not Option A.
Inspired by @Sonorous 's question here.
B and there there is no doubt about it. Some would be amazed how many times I have heard people commenting that they need to avoid me or parents quickly hold their kids closer. But since I'm not a people person and don't really want to interact with people I don't know its a benefit.
I can't read people's minds, so the hell if I know.
But I would like to think that the first impression of me is either: Shy or Intelligent.
Though then again, maybe that's just my pride talking. I could be a total idiot to someone else?
People I don’t know think I’m quiet and lack social skills. In real life I need to actually know you before I open up, and then you’ll never get me to shut up.
The horn effect
Some assume i am bitchy and rude /selfish. Some can see that i am depressed. Some can guess that i am only child
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women especially assume one thing about me at first. I dont think most like that I'm a teddy bear and not a lion around them. My competitive nature only comes out around other men, not women.
people usually tell me that i look too innocent and often say that i look sweet lol
It differs.
Some have said I'm cold. Some have said nice. Some have said mean.
It also depends where I come across them, what mood I'm in, who I'm surround by sometimes.
People have assumed that I’m arrogant and stuff but in reality I’m just shy with social anxiety
A lot of people would think Im an old white woman from the south who’s most likely intolerant and traditional.
People probably think I'm rude and arrogant because I appear too serious and don't engage in small talk.
People only ever assume I'm arrogant and mean (because I'm too shy to talk to people) or they assume I'm a starving little baby because I'm African.
I think I get the halo effect mainly because of the way I dress plus the fact that I'm naturally a shy/quiet person
People usually assume that i am either an asshole (partially true) or fucking depressed.
Exposing normies to the Halo Effect?
They won't be able to piece it together lol
But naturally as a guy I get the worst assumed of me
The horn effect: they get really horny. Sometimes I wish I wasn’t so sexy. I’m tired of being treat like a mindless piece of meat.
People tend to tell me I am one of the nicest guys in the world.
Im the opposite of u and still get improper assumptions made about me
Nobody really knows me.
Good impression most of the time
Probably bossy lol
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