Why don't people accept that racial preference is racist? (Page 2)
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I don't agree.
If I prefer white men over black men that's a preference based upon what I find attractive.
What would make me racist would be insulting black men for all the prejudice/stereotypical reasons whilst upholding white men.
That is exactly what people with preferences mostly do.
That's not true. A man that doesn't meet my preferences just isn't on my radar. I might pass on opinion of a celebrity that doesn't meet my preference especially if he's listed as sexiest man etc...
But I'm sure most people would share an opinion in these circumstances. Or hideous trends that make more men stand out like the Johnny bravo shaped guys in super skinny jeans and boat shoes yikes!
Most people are idiots. And I mean it with conviction.
The term race means competition.
The term -ism means the study of or doctrine.
Anything else that’s affiliated to the term and spelling is used improperly. Some people don’t know what they’re talking about but uses certain words to one up eachother. Society is filled with imbeciles and ignorant people who want to feel better by talking down on others by using the level of skin color, ethnicities, and dialects of a person or people to their selfish advantage.
Those who live by the sword die by the sword.
Nothing outside of yourself will make you smarter, stronger, attractive, wiser, or richer. It all comes from within. So don’t let nobody else tell you you’re not attractive. On this planet, there is always someone for somebody.
That's like saying "it's racist for makeup brands to make makeup with different shades of natural skin tones because they're making certain tones for some races and different tones for other races, thus, they're treating races differently, thus, they're racist. If they weren't racist they wouldn't treat the races differently and they woulf sell the same shade to all races."
But we both know how silly this is, we both know it's an incredibly loose interpretation of "racism."
It is.
But it don't hurt anyone and it's personal choice for a person to date who they want therefore no one calls it racist because it don't have the connotation to bullying with it.
Example, Your not belittling someone just cause you have had more Asian girlfriend's because you are more attracted to them. Therefore no one see's it as a problem which it isn't.
It hurts those who like someone who has a preference.
If you had more Asian girlfriends there is NO WAY you won't belittle others when you get a chance. So it is racism.
I already said it was racism. But no it does not belittle people. Your mentally deranged if you think, calling someone slurs or thinking eww them people shouldn't exist in my country is the same as ah well these people are hot. There both nothing alike and one is not belittling.
People can't control who they're attracted to and who they're not attracted to. Just because someone has a preference for a particular race doesn't make that person a racist. I'm not attracted to guys that are significantly shorter than me. Does that make me a heightist? No
But if you're treating someone poorly because of skin color that is racist
You can date anyone you want but there may come consequences. If you want to call it a fetish to only date someone of the same race fine. But it is not racist. I only date white, Asian and Hispanic. I am white so what. There are some very beautiful African women, but I feel that their families would dissaprove of me more than the races I mentioned. I would not date a Muslim woman for the same reason. Also our children may be rejected. So why take the chance on something that's probably never going to work. I love redheads too.
Racism is treating another person differently because of the colour of their skin, it has nothing to do with if you are attracted to them or not. What you are saying is that because I married a white man instead of somebody of a different race I am racist. I call bullshit on that one. Also, because I married a man and not a woman does that mean I am also sexist? I will stop feeding the troll now.
So if someone is a-sexual they are racist to all humans?
If someone has a fetish for cars but not humans, they hate the whole human race?
You can't help what you prefer sexually... Shut the fuck up.. sure there might be some people who are using "sexual preferences" to let out some of their secret racism.. but some people jus can't help not being attracted to what they're not attracted to.. would you force someone to fuck dogs and say they're dog racist if they don't want to? Come on... I don't find fat woman hot but that's doesn't mean I'm fat phobic
You can't force people to be attracted to something they are not... If a white woman doesn't find white men hot what you gonna do?
Chain her up and force her to suck a white dick?
You jus gotta let people like what they want, Snowflake
You have got to be one of the better trolls out there or fully retarded.
Things that are also racist: gloves, Pepsi, cell phones, grass, trees, concrete, chain saws, hammerhead sharks, seagulls, clouds, the andromeda galaxy, the Great Lakes, words, letters, baseball and the Empire State Building.
I’m so sick of this crap. I hope people realize the more they beat the racist drum the less people care. It’s a tired old song.
"sexual racism" You have created a new term. And you are contributing negatively to the current CRT narrative. Racial preference is, at worst, "discrimination"... like selecting which fast food restaurant you want to go to today.
Most dating aspects have a concept of selfishness/shallowness about them. Same as not wanting to date an overly over-weight person.
Doesn't make them a bad person, just makes them a person who knows what they want in a relationship.
Not everything needs to be screamed about as being racist and blah blah blah. A lot of snowflakes need to get a bit over themselves.
I don't know why you're making it seem like people of color don't have their preferences also. Are THEY racist?
I also don't see why not being attracted to a particular race will make them worse off. It's not like they're going to suffer an injustice just because someone of another skin color isn't attracted to them.
What am I missing here?
Because people are not nice to the ones they aren't attracted to so that leads to racism.
This has to be a Troll lol. Having a preference is not racist. You are attracted to who you are attracted to. I’m a light skinned African American female but I am not attracted to light skinned (black) men, People have a type and it’s just that persons preference.
If you treat someone differently just because of their skin color, then yes I would say you're racist. However if you're more attracted to people of your race I don't see that as being racist. To me it's a normal thing since most people usually date or marry within their race. They go for what's familiar and comfortable.
So you agree that someone being a different race causes you discomfort? This is racism.
No, that's not what I said at all. What I mean is that is easier to feel comfortable around people who share your culture, your language or are from the same country as you.
I never said that dating or marrying outside your race is wrong.
There are many people from different races who live in the same country.
Yes there are.
Racial preference is not about choosing someone from the same country or culture. It is about preference for a race.
Ok, so...
Then just date someone your race, are mad that a certain race 9f guy won't dare you?
Sorry ypu almost have it as bad as most guys, shit no one, ok, 4 girls in my whole life have asked me out, and I've slept with 2, so sorry if I don't have to much empathy.
Okay. What should we do about it?
To change the behavior based on attraction, we would have to change the attraction. But attraction is not quick, or simple, or easy to change. It is mostly formed in childhood, and it is even partly genetic.
How would you suggest that adults change their attraction, and what should they change it to?
Because if it was everybody would be racist in some and there would be no possibility of fighting racism because that would mean you need to change humanity at its core. Because if that´s racism than everybody is racist and there´s no way of changing that.
Having a preference isn’t what may lead to that preference can be 💯. So the reasons can be racist but having a type isn’t. Sucks for black women cause we get fetishized so much or we are seen as items then actual people. ( from own experience men like to act like they already own me and act like we are already together after one conversation)
I’m so tired of people searching for ways to turn ordinary people into racists.
See the unwanted woman wants to be wanted and thinks it because people are racist she’s unwanted… so sad.
Yes. I've definitely seen some black woman I find hot. So if I choose not to date a black woman Cos I find her ugly.. it's nothing to do with her race cos some white woman are ugly too