Is having a racial preference racist?

[Babygirl_S]

Considering the definition of racism it seems racist to favour one race over another.
Racism: Prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalised.
What do you think?

[Jenny-Marie]

No, I don't think so. Is it discriminatory to prefer blonde or brunette for instance? If I saw 4 ladies together in a room, one each of Oriental, Asian, black or Caucasian, all intelligent with similar figures, similar clothing and a similar upbringing and I was told to approach one to escort to dinner, who would I choose? Everything being equal, I would ask the Oriental lady, my 2nd choice being the Asian lady. Not because I'm prejudiced, but as with a work of art, I some paintings attract my eye more than others.

If however I'd had the opportunity to chat with each lady beforehand, I would have asked whoever appealed to me on an intellectual and shared interest basis. I would have picked up more on eye contact and genuineness of her personality.

[DEXTER_LIVES]

If you can love your preference, and understand that they may not be everyone's preference, and without putting down or degrading other races, then you aren't being antagonistic, or claiming any race is superior to another (Racist). It's really just a matter of loving who you want to love without being disrespectful to other races of people.

If you want to argue that being more attracted to one race than another is discrimination, then you would also have to consider not dating anyone you're not attracted to to also be unfair discrimination. At some point we have to accept that nature isn't fair and attraction doesn't follow a politically correct man-made system.

[Pinay_ako]

No. It’s a preference. As long as you’re respectful to the other races..

[RolandCuthbert]

That definition is really bad.

I like the original definition.

Webster's'

a belief that race is a fundamental determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race

Confusing discrimination and prejudice with racism is extremely problematic. You have to have a belief in the concept of race first.

[true_blue]

I suppose it's about romantic/sexual preference. Actually, the great majority of people share a preference for their own race/ethnicity or what they're most familiar with. It's completely natural and there's an obvious evolutionary logic to it.

[Kaneki05]

It's quite literally based on the race of the person so yes. If I said I prefer white friends over black ones, or I prefer white girlfriends over black ones. That is simply an example of racism so yes.
A friend should be a friend all the same no matter there race, and same for relationship.
As King said there shouldn't be barriers based on race. This would be a barrier.

[DiscreetUser6]

No it's not, everyone has preferences and it's okay to want them.


For example it's okay to not fuck someone if you don't find them attractive or your type just so you don't come off as racist.

If anyone says it's racist tell them to sleep with that entire race rather than one person that way they can accumulate more anti racist points.

[NathanDavis]

you can have a racial preference without being racist...

and you can have a racial preference while also being racist at it

it all depends on how you really go about it...

[Hellraiser1984]

Dating outside your race can create issues. Just like dating outside your social class. So if I only date middle class people does that mean I'm a bad person? No. Im not against interracial couples but it can create problems, the parents may reject your kids or you. So. sorry to say this but sticking with your own kind can be better for you. I'm sorry if I sound like a racist it's just I've seen it happen and it can be pretty damaging for the kids.

[menina]

It depends. If you just happen to be attracted to someone of a different race it's fine. But if you date someone of a difference race because you have a fetish with that race, then yes it's racist.

[Smashingdoozy]

Saying you would only ever date one race is racist yes. But saying you have only ever been attracted to a certain race is not. The latter is saying you wouldn't be opposed to someone of a different race.

[DiscreetUser6]

There is absolutely no difference in both statements except one is phrased in a polite way

[DiscreetUser6]

Most people have preferences and they can't actively get over them it has to happen accidentally

[Smashingdoozy]

@DiscreetUser6 there is absolutely a difference. One is flat out refusing to date someone of another race even if they are attractive to you.

[DiscreetUser6]

No it just means they don't find that race attractive 😞

[DiscreetUser6]

For me I find women of all races attractive as long as they are in shape, just like that some are only attracted to certain races.

[Smashingdoozy]

@DiscreetUser6 so it's not racist to not want to date someone even though you are attracted to them but they're the race you "don't prefer"?

[DiscreetUser6]

If you don't find a race attractive you can't be attracted to one of them

[DiscreetUser6]

If someone says I don't date someone of some particular race then they have already made up their mind they can't be attracted to them

[Smashingdoozy]

@DiscreetUser6 are you attracted to every single person? I highly doubt that so Its kinda impossible to believe that you would be unattracted to every person within a race.

[DiscreetUser6]

No I have a preference for fitness

[Smashingdoozy]

@DiscreetUser6 but would that completely rule out someone who isn't fit? The chance of your falling for someone who isn't fit is still not impossible. Would you really turn down someone who is otherwise perfect and exactly what you like?

[DiscreetUser6]

I would look for a similar person

[Smashingdoozy]

@DiscreetUser6 that's fucked

[DiscreetUser6]

I don't think so, let's say I am involved with the kind of person you are talking about then there is something that I want is missing which I have to seek out somewhere. It's best for both of us to not get involved.

[DiscreetUser6]

But don't take me seriously I am approaching this completely logically and I happen to have some free time on my hands at the moment 😂

[DiscreetUser6]

I don't know what I'll do in that scenario, I was just trying to win the argument 😂

[slatyb]

It's racist if you assume that members of some race are objectively inferior to others. It's not racist for you to be unattracted to most members of some race. You don't owe anyone a date.

[UniquelyBasic]

It's just a preference and doesn't have to be racist but some may not date certain races because of racist views. Just depends on the individual person.

[Berethor]

I don't care, I don't want to date unattractive girls, some races are better looking than others.

[zagor]

No, no more than any other visual preference. IF that is the reason for their preference. If they prefer a race because they think other races are inherently inferior then yes it would be racist.

[SlothySlob]

Technically yeah. But who the fuck cares. (Excluding the guys you dumped)

[chicosuave]

Yes super racist but people want to cover it up.

[Zolly99999]

No it's just a preference.. unless you take it to extremes

[Luckycharms12]

Can't help what you find attractive

[despiteful]

Not according to me

[Hanrej]

No, it's not.

[justFriend]

No, I think nationalism.