For those pro lifers out there, are you OK with being forced to adopt children that you don’t want?

Question

Just curious

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I am one hundred % pro life for me me only
I know an eighteen-year-old girl who lives in the Philippines since she was 8 years old she's been living with whoever would take her in
She's had a hard life.
The only thing that she cares about it's finishing school
Become better than her parents
She's always had to take jobs here and there to get money to buy food
No matter what she's been through in life she fights to become the best person that she can be.
Last year she was raped
She has no money she has no medical
All she wanted in my was too finish school and succeed get a good job do whatever it takes live a better life someday get married have kids
In the Split Second all that was taken away from her she asked me what she was going to do she doesn't want a baby she can't even take care of herself she doesn't even know the guy he said for he stunk he was dirty she said he was a pig
she said she had done some research there was a pill that she could take she had to take 12 of them and there is no guarantee that you would have worked the baby because three hundred bucks I told her to send me the information she did I've read about it and I said you should be in the hospital when you do this she doesn't have health insurance I said I want you to think about it I cannot tell you what to do you have to do what you think is right for you she begged me for the money I told her okay on one condition she had to tell a friend she had to have a friend with her at all times she promised me she would
I sent her the money she got the pills she took them and she waited and waited 24 hours everything I've read about these pills told me it was basically a chance that she might not make it it also said that sometimes the first 12 pills don't work with some people she would have to take another dose I sent her another $300 she got the other pills she took them she was losing a lot of blood she had no food I told her friend to go to the store right now and by red meat play fruits by vegetables she needed to get her vitals back up she was losing red blood cells I told her I would send her 300 bucks again needed food and she needed it right now it took another day and a half for the abortion my friend was delirious she had lost so much blood he was blacking out I told her friend to go buy all vitamin Bs and a bunch of other thing
To make things worse she sent me a picture of the fetus I threw up right there
Even though I am pro-life if a woman this forced was raped is she got pregnant it's her choice and her choice only what she does and for anybody who thinks this is an easy task I would say think again because everything that happens they will live with it for the rest of their life so I say it's nobody's fucking business except for the women's or the girls at what she does and what she wants to do
The question it was asked is a valid question I can give you my answer no I would not because even I would look at that child and think about how it came into this world forced to be here without any say whatsoever because of a selfish Pig of a man if you can call him that a man decided he was more important the damage one person does
Even though I'm a pro-lifer for me and me only I will stand right in front of any woman that has been raped or forced into doing something that she did not want to do and I will fight to protect her right to do what she wants to do whether I know her or not that's how much I believe in it
whether it's right whether it's wrong it's none of my business. Until Somebody makes it my business and tries to force that girl or that woman into something else and she does not want to do

Goforit1010 · Accepted Answer

I love how liberals insist on their skewed thinking of every position they take. My point: "... being forced to adopt children..."

WHY should adoption be "forced"? Given the current adoption process and Gov't scrutiny every adoptive parent goes through, "forced adoption" is simply another idiotic liberal idea that's screwed up from the onset. This is their idea how pro-life individuals should respond to all unwanted pregnancies, and another excuse to justify aborting (killing) unborn babies!

Liberals need to focus on several things:

1. Personal responsibility. Women just don't get pregnant drinking the water. In fact, the left refuses to accept personal responsibility for just about everything they do.

2. Pregnancy prevention rather than using abortion as birth control. God knows, there's multiple contraceptives available. Better still, don't have sex until after you're married!

3. TRUTH. R v. W is their "sacred cow". OMG... IF... yeah IF, the SCOTUS overturns that decision, it doesn't mean abortion absolutely stops (unfortunately). There will STILL be multiple liberal states that insist on killing babies right up to the point of birth AND even allow infanticide (as illegal as that is!) to satisfy their blood lust!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Weirdly the newest Supreme Justice can't even define what a woman is now she is bent over a woman's right to choose. I mean for instance say a trans woman impregnated a baby carrier or in lay terms a female. Do they now both have the right to choose? What if one chooses to kill it and the other chooses to keep it? Is it then "her" choice too? I mean cutting the trans woman out of that choice seems kind of trans phobic. Then if they do have the choice to end another human beings life then why isn't it OK to end the life of fetuses that have down syndrome or autism. We have tests can predict it fairly accurately. Yet lefties get big mad that Iceland has virtually eliminated down syndrome by terminating the pregnancy due to the child's mental defects. I mean does choosing to abort because the child will be born with disabilities. Does it make the mother a abelist? or does she still have the right to choose not to be burdened by a autistic child? I mean there seems to be some big questions that need to be sorted out by the left before they just jump right to the killing.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Forced? Do you know how many people couples actually want to adopt, but have trouble adopting.
Adoption is a hard, costly process. What you think people can just say, "hey we want a baby"and then it's "oh okay, here you go here's the baby you want"
Yeah, that's not how it works, people can wait years to be able to adopt a child, some never get the child they wanted... While others have abortion after abortion, cuz hey it's their choice🙄 still don't get why people think abortion is a better choice than birth control, condoms, or no sex🙄

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

I'm morally pro-life and legally pro-choice. I know you're trying to make a point, but we're not even certain that the released draft is the Supreme Court's final decision. However, if it is, this is *actually* what's going to wind happening: Women will travel, if necessary, to exercise their right to choose in liberal states, which will likely loosen restrictions on late-term abortions (because the leaked draft cites "states' rights"... that means ALL states, not just the more conservative ones), and the frequency of late-term abortions will increase over time. It's going to wind up working in a backfired way. The only people who will benefit from this decision are those who are hard-core abortionists once liberal states eventually change their pro-choice laws to pro-abortion laws. Will Texas and maybe a few other low population states completely ban abortions? Possibly. However states like California, Illinois, Michigan, New York, and Massachusetts will be ready to be all too accommodating, and those are the states where the most abortions are already occurring.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s year 2022 where we have so many advanced methods of contraception and somehow we are arguing as if it’s the early 1900’s with no other options of birth control except celibacy or a coat hanger. Women have more rights and options than ever in any point in history and yet we are caught on this hill of aborting living babies because it empowers women? It’s disgusting and the whole Roe v Wade was never constitutionally protected EVER. The woman who started the issue ended up fighting against abortion. It’s so ridiculous. Worst case, just go to California or New York where you can abort a baby up to 9 months or whatever. It doesn’t BAN abortion. It gives the authority to the states. So if you don’t live in a state where abortion is legal, JUST MOVE!!! Trying to make an argument about taking in an infant is a strawman. Look at how many people are pro-illegal immigration yet would never host one. How about women just start being responsible with who they have sex with and be prepared with contraception instead of relying on government funded abortion clinics? You want to teach kids gender pronouns and homosexual identities but not safe sex and contraception practices? It’s seriously baffling how hypocritical and inane this situation is. People just need to move on.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Pro lifers only care about fetuses. They don’t care about the baby once it’s born and they don’t care about potential harm it would cause the women carrying said fetus. Pro-life movements are so toxic.

BlackBeauty90 · Answer

@subarugirl - no they wouldn't. And they most certainly wouldn't adopt a disabled child or a child of drug addicts, etc. Anything that may bring perceived shame to their family. Where I was a child in Canada the town had a very bible-thumper (aka prolife) attitude and the foster care homes were swamped with such children. Weren't aborted but tossed aside like trash instead.  Which makes the hypocrisy of their bitching about choice - when most abortions are for rapid, insect and disabilities / mother at harm - all that more pathetic. As they judge when, if god does exist, the Bible says man has no right to judge others. ... So if heaven and hells exists it's the judging prolifers who'll be getting a nice crispy tan at life's end.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

And, if someone you cared deeply about was raped and got pregnant, would you be okay with her walking around with an unwanted baby born out of hate inside of her, or having to take care of it once it was born?
How about if her Dr. told her that having the baby would very likely kill her and probably the baby? Would be ready to let her take that risk?

Arieshyper · Answer

The same people who are pro life bitch when parents are on welfare. Those same people would rather do the Christian thing and put them in the catholic church to be molested. They should be required to adopt the kids. Religious groups want to say save a life but they don't want to help in any other way. Someone commented whoring. What about rape and incest? What about the baby killing the mother during birth. So with that comment I agree to a point if someone isn't taking precautions and getting pregnant over and over with the mindset of oh I will just abort it. Yes those people are fucked up.

Guy13 · Answer

That’s an oxymoronic question…. The word forced and adopt referencing the same behavior is nonsensical. Adoption is a choosing or preference for, whereas, Forced is involuntary. One can not be forced to a preference. A preference is a choice where being forced is mandated. One can not be “mandatorily made to Adopt”

—What are you trying to say? It’s better to kill them than let them live because the living Being is a negative pull on society? I believe that you think only you have the right to Life…

Lliam · Answer

Good idea. Pro-lifers should be required to adopt at least one child. More, depending on their income level. Let them put their money where their mouths are.
Don't even give them a choice about which child. Just show up and say "Here you go. This one is yours." Let's see how much these hypocrites actually care about human life.

Tomboy5249 · Answer

No one forces anyone to adopt a child. If someone is even interested in adopting they have to go through several steps. And as far as abortion it should never be a thing. Everyone deserves to have an opportunity for a better life and go down a different path. Just bc the parent is fucked up doesn’t mean the child is. If a woman decides to have one it’s her choice. But abortions aren’t really good for females. But as far as forcing. For a person to adopt they have to send in a application and go through procedures on their own free will and their own spare time. Also the cost is a lot for adopting. But adoption also gives couples who can’t conceive a chance to be parents.

wankiam · Answer

no such think as pro life, they are anti choice and as such should be quite happy to do something they dont want to do

Sparks32 · Answer

@subarugirl When babies get murdered do you ever get shocked by that? In the womb out of the womb Murdering a baby is Murdering a baby. I accidently become a father and I took responsibility and we had a second by choice then I had a vasectomy. You should have been more careful.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I can't say I'm pro-life or pro-choice as I'm pro-states rights and if a state legalized it, I'm okay with that. If your state outlaws it, then fight to change it. Easier to do on the state level anyways.

Although last I heard there is a 2-3 year waiting list to adopt newborns... so doesn't sound like there will be needing force them on anyone to adopt.

SixFootSexy · Answer

I have 3 adopted siblings. Their biological parents were drug addicts, maybe they should've been aborted. They are literally bastards and act like ones a lot, but I still love them as siblings. I'm glad they're alive today. Abortion is reprehensible. <3

NaultD · Answer

It would be a non issue who don't care and a plus for for rapist. Temporary foster care has a disturbing amount of sexual abuse. All the bs about Disney being groomers is a smokescreen to actual rapist getting unlimited access to children.

It's crazy to me.

nachosaresexy · Answer

Not a direct response to your question, but these words will ring true in modern society for longer than any of us will be around.

Nalix · Answer

Doesn't make sense when there are plenty of couple who do want to adopt. The whole argument is just to extreme, and politicians use people's emotional charges, against them.

It's either enslaving women or hacking open a baby's face with an ax. Neither of these are sane positions. Protect the life of the mother if she's in danger, otherwise take the baby to term and give it to someone who wants it, because someone does.

EllaNella · Answer

You forgot that they only care about abstract concept of an unborn child. Not actual living children in the fostercare system.

TheLoneTerran · Answer

I wouldn't count on it. Pro-lifers tend to hop the borders to get procedures done if they've been inconvenienced. It's very much a "rules for thee, not for me".

lofii · Answer

There wouldn't be orphans or orphanages if women stopped opening their legs to every chad that comes their way.

Along with owning up to being a parent.

I see you're still trying argue against people taking responsibility for the actions that they chose to take.

She chose to have sex, she knew the risk.

She drove fast, (crashes into someone) she knew the risk. (Kills innocent person) (goes to jail for it)

Poked a bear with a stick. (Gets mauled)

AviatorTom · Answer

No one is going to force someone to adopt a child they don't want. That would be harmful to the child.

I think I get the point you're trying to make, but in the future, would you please think before posting such hurtful questions.

Anonymous · Answer

False equivalency

1. You can practice safe sex or abstrince if you can't afford the child. Or even a hysterectomy if you fear it that much

2. I'd take the adopted child. There a Government check that comes with it. And he/She should have the right to live instead being aborted.

Daniela1982 · Answer

How are you adopting a child if it is yours by birth? And if you don't want children, then you make sure birth control is used or you have your tubes tied, because I doubt any guy would ever agree to a vasectomy.

Snsl153 · Answer

Being adopted is always better than being dead, don't you think? And someone made this comment already, but I'll say it here, "adopt children you don't want" is just a very sly way of saying "children that I wish were dead".

Anonymous · Answer

Question is irrelevant because that is not how adoption works. When children get adopted, it is because someone came and sought them out. There are services that help children who do not get adopted. However, even that scenario is preferrable over an innocent baby that cannot speak up or defend itself getting terminated just for the inconvenience of a woman who opened her legs and does not want to face the consequences.

Agape93 · Answer

Of course they won't. They don't want to be forced to care for a child they didn't want or ask for. If they truly wanted to help babies, they'd have adopted kids by now enough to where adoption centers wouldn't be overburdened with too many kids

alice55 · Answer

No need to force pro lifters to adopt child they don't want considering the amount of people who actually want to adopt a child but cannot or have to wait 10 years for doing so.

Cherry234 · Answer

If they're against women making their own choices about their bodies, then they should be forced to adopt those children. That's what they deserve. I'd really like those people to pay karma.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Just because you have to birth then doesn't mean you have to keep them after if you decide to do that anyway then theirs no point in abortion

mobiusforniner · Answer

Hell, im not even super pro life but sometimes i think about adopting a kid even when I got some of my own, just to give them the life their parents never did...

Sarahr123 · Answer

I don’t like pro life. It will create more criminals because the little fuckers were unwanted spawn created from little whores and manwhores who couldn’t keep their pants on. Abortions are mandatory.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m not a pro lifer and I choose impact over quality - like the amount you spend raising one child you adopt is enough to save 900 kids you didn’t adopt in a foreign country.

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

No because that wouldn´t be helpful either. Firstly not everyone wants children, secondly not everyone could achieve an adoption because they are in a situation where they can handle having children.

nawtee_me · Answer

When my tax money was going to planed parenthood I was paying for abortions I didn't need and for people I didn't know. I would much rather raise a child then kill it...

jshm2 · Answer

What makes you think they are forced adopters?  You really are small minded, it seems.

Anonymous · Answer

You could add to this.. How about being forced to adopt seriously ill and mentally impaired children. Also important reasons for compassionate end of pregnancies.

Avicenna · Answer

I'm not "pro-life" as you mean in this context, but no one can be forced to adopt a child, so this is a ridiculous question.

Anonymous · Answer

I live in a country with wide open borders, so I think we can take care of our own. I think we should give the kids a shot at life and abort the parents.

MatteBlaxk · Answer

Hmm. I don't think no one if okay with being forced* to do anything.

Deserter · Answer

Why do pro choice people think me not wanting to financially support the kid should mean that I shouldn't have the right to not want someone to kill it?

Anonymous · Answer

For those pro-choice folks out there, do you only support choice for women or do you also support choice for men? That is to say, do you support men having the right to a paper abortion?

Redhead999 · Answer

No more than I am with being forced to get pregnant against my will but then I have the choice...

Anonymous · Answer

Considering the fact that there are literally thousands of couples looking to adopt and not enough children that are up for adoption your premise would simply never happen..

Amur8711 · Answer

If you don't want children, don't have sex, use birth control, have either of your tubes tire/cut, or the cheapest option is a condom! Be responsible for your actions!

TallAnon · Answer

I'm not pro life, but giving random people kids sounds like a horrible idea

ArtemisSilver · Answer

No but I'd be happy to pay some tax to make sure they're safe and well cared for while looking for a family that wants to adopt.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Are you ok with murdering unborn babies just to continue to whore yourself into oblivion without responsibilities?

the_man57 · Answer

That's not the same thing at all as not being able to have an abortion and you know it

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Wow what an argument. And to think that women who consented to having sex with a man shouldn’t have to bear any responsiblity for the child

Neilbud · Answer

Nah, but I also wouldn't expect anyone else to take care of my kid. I would buck up and do what needed to be done. Excuses and complaints are for the weak.

Dargil · Answer

I don't "believe" in government force except in criminal and civil law.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

No one can force anyone to adopt children. We have free choice.

johnypie675 · Answer

I used to be pro choice until I saw the way that abortions were actually done

Snakeyes7 · Answer

This parallel doesn't work unless you won the child in a casino game when you were just playing it for the thrill of playing.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. But only if I get to pick them out like puppies at the pound.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Yes. The are lot of family's would love a beautiful child.

SignedAutographs · Answer

Pro lifers aren't pro life. They're anti woman That's why republican women, are an oxymoron

Xtendable · Answer

Yeah, because I was adopted when I could have been aborted

Anonymous · Answer

Wow your question sounds dumb and stupid.  Did you think before you asked it?

msc545 · Answer

No. But I am even less comfortable with killing them or condoning it.

Anonymous · Answer

Thats a good point. And yet they still dont want kids, that aren't their own 😂

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