Oh my gosh, I've had the same issue with my brother! It's totally normal for a guy to do that (my guy friends talk about masturbating sometimes.it's disturbing) and I have no idea why my brother is so comfortable doing that in front of everybody like your brother, even if they do think no one can tell. I guess the only explanation for it is that they're guys, and boys will be boys. Just know that you're not alone in being grossed out :P I've made remarks to my brother like,"Why do you have your hand in your pants? Gross!" and he always claims he "has an itch." Sometimes guys need to "readjust" down there, but I think what our brothers do is a habit now, maybe it has some sort of weird comforting feeling to them.
P.S. unfortunately, I've also had a teacher that likes to fondle himself in class when he thinks nobody's looking. It's disgusting, and everybody knows he does it. So I guess this situation isn't specific to teenage boys.but honestly, I wish they would just save it for the privacy of their own bedrooms.
you should tell like your parents or something to let him talk to someone about that beucase that's out of your hands lol
It's normal and it's NOT normal because most young boys know enough to keep private what's private. If they're brought up properly they should know that they don't do certain things with their stuff down there in front of girls even their sisters. Young boys are still in the maturing and learning stages so when an older person (like you) see them doing out of line sexual things you need to tell them in a nice way, but firm! If you do that they'll not only learn something important but they won't do it anymore, at least in front of you. In your case just outright say in a question, "What are you doing when you're always touching yourself down there?" No matter what he says just answer back in a question, "Don't you think I notice you doing that?" The last thing should be you asking him, "You're my brother and I love you and I want you to learn to do the right things when you're around people, so can I depend on you not to do that in front of me anymore?" Lastly, "Thank you."
Hah, I don't do this but I guess it is normal for us to do this. He probably doesn't care that you notice you being his sister and he he probably thinks you don't really care. I would just ignore it, or if it is really bothering you you should tell him not to do it while around you. He thinks its not a big problem around you because 1) your his sister, its much easier to do stuff like this around family and 2) you've never told him you don't like it.
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It is normal, but you really should tell him it bothers you and it's not necessary for him to do it with you there.
ya we all do it! how old is he?
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