The world does not revolve around peoples trauma. If anything thinking or acting like it does or expecting people to act as if it does revolve around your trauma is asking for more of it. Because you might as well be painting a target on yourself. Because their are people who will pick up on that and push back or attack you due to that. Pushing people to change something because of your trauma or issues also paints a target on yourself. So you can get some help to overcome your trauma and move past it or simply walk around dealing with all the fall out that comes from having unresolved issues.
I was kidnapped and molested as a kid, raised by a single mother with really bad taste in men and she has had cancer since her teens. So I know about having actual unresolved trauma and going through life dealing with the fall out from it. I also know about getting help to resolve it and moving past it. Now that I have gotten past mine, I have zero sympathy for those that choose to not get help for theirs. Because not seeking help is a choice we can make and we can choose to work through our issues is a choice we can make as well.
So don't expect me to put a new bathroom in to my business or house because your issues dictate that you need one. Own your issues and get help to deal with them.
Such things aren’t even supposed to exist so no
u I really don’t care what washroom anybody uses, seriously. If they’re using a women’s washroom, it’s all stalls so nobody sees anything anyways.
Yes, make a LGBTQXYZABC%5*2@@ bathroom and let all the dysmorphed, binaraypandemiagnedersexual people use it.
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trans people need to stop abusing women for their own selfish issues. All the implications of this have come down on women, who now have to deal with men peeing on their toilets.
I'd suggest all bathrooms labeled "roosters/etc" "hens" and people figure out which is which. If space permits make a family bathroom they can use, but not fair to require businesses to make separate bathroom for people that don't know if they are a rooster/etc or a hen. Etc means includes all.
Look, why dont we just have separate toilets for everyone and this whole problem just goes away forever.
Its literally the only thing you can ever do, so lets just get on with it already.
I dont care by the way about sharing I would be happy to share with any and all genders, all i want to be when using a public toilet is safe and you can't keep anyone safe regardless of their genitals if other people can be in there too because criminals come in all types, shapes and sizes.
So thats the long and the short of it.
It doesn't matter who you are or where you are in the world and this will always be the case, so lets just get on and do the work that needs to be done and then never think about this again.
I think they should have 3 bathrooms men, women, and "other" or unisex if you prefer.
I had a friend who worked in a women's prison. And one of her co-workers was a transgendered female to male. She, because she was a Trans female to male, wanted use of the men's locker room. The prison instead gave her her own private locker room. And she sued the state prison system for discrimination (and won).
I'm not against Trans people. And I could understand her suing if they had made her continue to share the women's room. But they tried to accommodate her by giving her her own locker room.
I’ve no straight opinion, as I myself know not, but what’s up with showing hair? My hair is longer than many women’s, and I ain’t transgendered. Should I cover my hair when using the public loo?
possibly a private toilet for anyone that doesn't fir the female/male or is uncomfortable that there is some male lurker that is the women's bathroom.
Unfortunately, the burden of the cost of putting one or more of those bathrooms in will be the responsibility of the property owner, and it would not be cheap to do.
And would they actually use them, or just go in the one that they think they are.
How could you enforce it?
No! They already have single-person bathrooms. Let them use that, since they're less than 1% of the population anyway. And if those aren't available, then they can "pretend" to not be crazy and just go in the bathroom that matches their born anatomy.
Yeah give them a separate Porta potty outside
Yes. But only for the MAGA transgender community.
A ''transgender'' 'identifies' (sic!) as a woman or as a man. Where's the problem? I still only count two genders. The third set of toilets then can only be for: ... attention seekers.
Separate toilets? No! There should be one common toilet for everyone, with a separate family toilet for families with small kids.
No. in fact I've often seen women come into the men's room at events because of the long lines to get into the ladies' room... who cares
Font they have those family ones? They can use those.
No need. They can just use the disabled toilets.
It think that there shouldn't be restrooms divided by gender at all.
Both can use men's bathroom they can defend themselves in an altercation
I think there should just be public restrooms with stalls
Sounds like a waste of money. They can just use the disabled bathroom if they're unsure.
For communal restrooms, there should be one for males and one for females. For single-occupancy restrooms, it's obvious. But no special restrooms for mental illnesses
Got a dick go to men's period
Yes, I do.
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