Girls, what would you suggest to a man who's soon going to be a trans-woman, about being a woman?

[YourFutureEx]

What will be the struggles of being a woman? What will be the privileges?

How will be the overall experience?

[Lynnfriend]

Dressings like a woman, finding women clothes that fit right. Maybe shoes if you plan to wear heals. Operating a motor vehicle in heals. I don't see any privileges. Women generally work harder then men they work all day at there job then go home and take care of the chicken, preparing meals, doing laundry and getting the children to bed. Some mem are very helpful but a lot of them are not. Course I realize this doesn't apply to you as your not that far into a relationship. I don't know but one can get overwhelmed with the responsibilities of a woman.

[AsaKyo]

Maybe don't be an idiot and ruin your life? lmao

[Sabretooth]

a common issue: http://www.therainbowtimesmass.com/lovers-fetishists-men-love-trans-women/ https://transamorousnetwork.com/transamorous-men/destroying-the-chaser-fetish-trans-trope/ https://transamorousnetwork.com/transamorous-network-blog/real-transwomen-dont-top/ would also suggest she not tuck... it'll only build her up: https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/transgender-bulge-photos-activist-trans-16766536 kinda hot, too.

[Sabretooth]

and keep a firm grasp on your male side... it'll be very useful.

[YourFutureEx]

Aren't they supposed to get their dick chopped off?

[Sabretooth]

no. many don't due to... well, this: www.reddit.com/.../ very mainstream. flipside is this: I've gotten to a point in my transition where I actually kind of love having a penis. I used to be embarrassed of it, and I would instinctively keep it covered when I had sexual encounters with men. However, I recently met someone who I adore-- he happens to be a bottom, and he loves every part of my body, including my penis. He likes for me to top him, but he doesn't see me as any less feminine, and I don't see him as any less masculine. Slowly I began to realize that I never hated having a penis, I just worried about what other people thought, and finding someone who affirmed me that way gave me the space to realize that I like my penis, too. I like that it makes me different, and I accept and embrace the category of woman I fall into as a transsexual with a penis.

[Sabretooth]

and by maintaining a strong a strong connection to your male side--a trans girl will be able to understand us better. that's the point to those links. their dick is whatever they decide it to be-will they embrace it and the uniqueness of it and the deeper connection it can them and have a greater love for them selves? or, let it destroy them?

[Sabretooth]

And NEVER attack a man for having a tranny fetish --that's part of of our growth and acceptance--our transition.

[Sabretooth]

And thanks.

[Sabretooth]

and no--I don't think it makes a man gay or bi.

[Sabretooth]

and I personally prefer she keeps her balls.

[YourFutureEx]

Interesting stuff. I didn't expect such information. Good input Sabretooth.

[Sabretooth]

no problem. input from the outside can be far more beneficial in many cases... especially here as such things are fround on in that community. it's good you have an open-mind... most don't... as those links prove. all too often are the conversations like: www.youtube.com/watch I'm Ghostface... too many have no interest in doing what they want us to do and would rather just lash out at us... why would a man choose to see them as anything more than a fetish? I've never hid my fetish... that's why I know so much... not saying I would view one as just that, of course. it's how it starts--see my convo here: Why do I get made fun of for dating a transwoman? Would you do the same? ↗ . all men will want to embrace a trans girl's dick at some point. by accepting this and by overcoming their dysphoria and allowing both sides of themselves--things will only get for them and easier for the men interested in them. if you wanna talk more... I find the subject very mentally stimulating. I also prefer them cut.

[Sabretooth]

maybe play that game, yourself. it has less to do with the sex--that's not much a point... mostly.

[YourFutureEx]

Are you in a relationship with one or is that your kink/preference in general?

[Sabretooth]

I was afraid someone was gonna ask me that question... it's the latter. I would love to say that everything is bullshit or to give some trite bullshit answer... a few I really liked... sadly, it cuts far deeper. I don't think I could ever be emotionally available... for any girl... not s long as the heartbreak is in my memory... all the years I spent looking for her again, making a mistake and spending the last... 15 years or so trying with a positive sign everyone in awhile. I knew what a relationship with her would mean... an empty life full of pain... she was my way out... I loved her more than anything and viewed her as the girl made for me--I felt a strong connection to her. instead... I watch a lesser man with a history of lying, manipulating, and abusing her be the beneficiary.

[YourFutureEx]

So sorry to hear that. I hope things work out for you. World is full of endless possibilities.

[Sabretooth]

Thanks.

[Sabretooth]

and be cautious of the trans community. the trans community as become a toxic echo chamber that is bigoted to the very men who desire them... and to themselves. they want men to see them as women but bash men who reach out to them.. as you saw in that one example in that video.

[YourFutureEx]

Yeah I'm aware of that

[Sabretooth]

as a former transphobe, I fully acknowledge the necessity... but, now... it's a a leaking toxic reactor... poisonings everything. the disdain may be justified--but, they'll be the ones who play the price... and it'll be a steep one.

[YourFutureEx]

They probably see us as a threat or fake supporters

[Sabretooth]

and that we will stay... by large. they any desire to understand.

[Sabretooth]

lack.

[YourFutureEx]

Things will take time

[Sabretooth]

I've tried to help bridge gap quite a few times... pretty much went the same as it did in that video. that's fair... but how long until the men who begin to hate them again?

[Sabretooth]

hell, In my last attempt--one said she wasn't into gender conforming men... do I really need to explain the hypocrisy here?

[Sabretooth]

not to mention the emotional, physical, and financial damage they'll do to themselves. SRS is a con... a con highly valued by the community... with a strong opposition to the reality of it. at current trajectory--I don't see a positive outcome--minus the few rare exceptions. it's fair to give time... but, I don't think they have it nor the knowledge of how to apply it in healthy ways to be of any benefit. change needs to escalate to be of any use.

[YourFutureEx]

You cannot change the system alone. It's decades long process. But people like you are needed to keep the spark alive.

[Sabretooth]

won't matter if they won't listen.

[YourFutureEx]

It won't happen overnight.

[Sabretooth]

I've had a few convos during the last 3 years.

[Sabretooth]

I would actually go so far as to say that the trans community has become opposed to true, healthy progress.

[Sabretooth]

mind doing me a small favor?

[YourFutureEx]

Sure

[Sabretooth]

I was in an argument here: transamorousnetwork.com/.../#respond . all I ask is that is that you say that you were paying attention our covos and saw this quote by him ''everyone deserves what they put out. if i’m getting attacked, it’s likely i have within me judgement, anger and frustration. so my world shows me what’s inside me by reflecting that back to me. no exceptions. so yes, everyone deserves exactly what they get. whether they suffer or not.''. and imply that it seems as though the chickens were coming back home to roost. here's where he said that: transamorousnetwork.com/.../ . don't tell him I asked you to do so until replies. I simply wish for him to know that as he was trying to get into my mind... he left his wide open.

[Sabretooth]

let that be a lesson. mind games require a link that a strong mind can take advantage of. the harder that they try to probe your mind--the more they reveal about their own mind.

[Sabretooth]

figured I'd give you all that so you weren't really lying.

[YourFutureEx]

Just send me the text to copy/paste.
It was 3:45 AM when I sent that text. No way I'll stay awake.

[Sabretooth]

Hmm?

[Sabretooth]

I already told you what I wanted you to say. what do you need?

[Sabretooth]

hey.

[AMS700CX4u2]

jI would tell him to go send some time with women. Get into some discussion about being a woman. Don"t go and alter your anatomy only to discover that maybe you were more happy as a man.

[joeldalton]

You aren't going to be a woman. You're going to be a man pretending to be a woman.

[BJP21]

Get ready for a huge dynamic in mood/emotional change.