Heterosexual men, would you date/have sex a transwoman?

[Anonymous]

After a transwoman whined that they can't get a date and are 'getting desperate.' They said it's transphobic for men/lesbians to put no transwomen on their dating profiles. I said its not transphobic and it's because they don't want dick - that hardly any 'cishet' men or lesbians would date a transwoman. Someone told me I am 'stupid' because 'CISHET men would date a transwoman because they see a woman first, not what's between their legs.' Said I 'need to get in check with reality.'

Yes

No

[MCheetah]

It's literally answered in the question.

"HETEROSEXUAL men... Would you date or f*ck a man?"

If they answer yes, they objectively are NOT heterosexual. (They'd be "pansexual" or some sh*t.) The only logical answer is No, a straight would not date or f*ck another man. Because they are a man.

As for the dating profile, no, it is not "transphobic" (that word is so overused nowadays, it's lost all meaning, assuming it ever had any to begin with) to not want to date a fake woman. However, it is unnecessarily rude/mean to actually type that on a profile, because 99% of straight men and lesbians, aren't going to be attracted to transpeople anyway. They don't need to go out of their way to state that, since it's the default opinion.

That's like when women say "No men under six feet!" It's like, no sh*t; we already know that's the default opinion of women anyway; no need to state it. Or that'd be like me saying "No foul-smelling women who don't use menstrual products and like to free-bleed." It comes off more weird than anything. Like, how many transwomen would have to be hitting on them for them to need to write that?

As for "Seeing a woman first, not what's between their legs," that would only apply if the majority of transwomen could pass. Most of them look like this...

... Absolutely hideous and practically growing a five o'clock shadow. Even if they were biological women, they'd still be 1s and 2s out of ten because of how extremely ugly and masculine they are.

So, no. Maybe 5% or less of them can even pass (and I feel sorry about that, but it is what it is), assuming they aren't f*cking six-foot-eight or something. Why do most transwomen end up taller than most normal men? I swear, I've only ever seen one transwoman under 5'10" and that was Blaire White.

There was even a post by a gay man two week ago, and the "hot one" he posted, clearly looked like a man, so even the men who ARE attracted to transwomen, still end up choosing very masculine, clearly-not-female ones.

The TL;DR is: Straight men aren't attracted to men pretending to be female or any other types of men. "Pansexual" men are into that, though. I rest my case, your honor.

[my_name_is__]

It's okay if you wouldn't date a trans woman. But still... Trans women are women. And men who date trans women can be straight. Why do other people's sexualities and gender identities bother you so much?

[MCheetah]

@my_name_is__
They objectively aren't women, girls, or female, in any capacity. Hence the word "TRANSwomen" and no just "women." And no, straight men objectively are NOT attracted to cocks or Y chromosomes. I know you're just 18 and all, but get your gaslighting BS outta here.

[MCheetah]

@my_name_is__
Also, how can your types even tell someone what a "woman" is, when you can't even define what a woman is, anymore? Kinda contradictory, yeah?

[Asker]

@my_name_is__ trans women are trans women. women are women

[my_name_is__]

Gaslighting Bs? Calm down! I just have a different opinion.

[MCheetah]

@my_name_is__
You came onto MY answer, starting BS and spreading lies. You then asked a smug and obnoxious "why do people's sexualities and identifies bother you so much?" question, implying anyone who doesn't agree with your objectively wrong insanity must be insecure or "triggered" or something. I don't appreciate that.

No man is obligated to f*ck other men, especially straight ones. What part of "No Means No" do you not get?

[Avicenna]

Ignore these idiots. They aren’t dateable.

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the mho

[genericname85]

would not and have not. i am sexually attracted to women, not to men pretending to be women. that doesn't mean i can't ever be tricked by a trans person. but the fact that i can be fooled doesn't mean i'm attracted to trans women.

it's like i can be tricked into thinking i got a chocolate cookie but actually it's raisins. it doesn't mean i wanted raisins and i'll notice my mistake once i take a bite.

claiming someone is "transphobic" for their sexual preference is like claiming you're "cisphobic" for being gay or trans. it's idiotic labels that really mean nothing and are merely an expression of how bitter the person who uses them is.

[genericname85]

like i understand it's difficult to find a sexual partner if you have gender disphoria. but don't blame your difficulties on everyone else. they can't help that you have a cognitive disorder. not saying you can. nobody can.

[TheUniqueOne96]

If I were into hookups, then maybe I'd hook up with them, but they'd have to look convincing and even then, if the time were to come, there's always the chances I'd be off-put by the fact that they were born a male.

It's not transphobic to not want to date someone who's trans.

As for dating, probably not, as it's a bigger deal than just a hookup, assuming I would participate in hookups.

[Berethor]

No, "transwoman" was born as a male, and I am not gay, so it's a dealbreaker to me.

[NatalieIshereO]

You are the one who tries to make a difference between a boy and a girl at all costs, you are messed up.

[Berethor]

Why you following me? and you are bisexual or something, that's why you don't care?

[NatalieIshereO]

Because you are crazy

[NatalieIshereO]

Yes I am bisexual

[NatalieIshereO]

You have a trauma, were you molested by a woman or something?

[Berethor]

Many women are bisexual, and I am not crazy, heterosexuals are normal.

[NatalieIshereO]

You have a trauma

[Berethor]

You have two users from what it seems, and a trauma from old men.

[NatalieIshereO]

I think you have the trauma here, something happened to you in the past

[NatalieIshereO]

I think you were sexually abused by some man, but trust me woman do it too.

You should seek therapy

[DJB72]

Not for every cent every American billionaire claims they have.

[crmoore]

I mean no ill will to trans people, but the opposite of what that person said seems to be true. I think most lesbian, gay guys, or heterosexual people are interested in cis-gendered people.

[AimeeKyle]

I wouldn’t date them but may consider hooking up with them once or adding them into a threesome for a new experience.

[Anonymous]

No I think they are highly delusional freaks.

[Philyouup]

maybe after the junk was removed. defiantly not before

[sawno]

No, I want to date a real woman.

[Anonymous]

No. I am straight.

Dick is not my preference.

[AsaKyo]

They're not straight if they date one

[Anonymous]

Normally I'd say no but if Nicole Maine's offered I wouldn't say no

[WindAtMyBack]

Hell no. I only date women.

[KittyBox]

I prefer women with wombs.

[Summeroflove]

No never

[Chthou95]

Nope. Don't want to date another man

[Sabretooth]

could.

[Jltakk]

Sorry, but no.