Is it hypocritical to be judgmental of judgmental people?

[Still-alive]

I'm very specific about who i judge... and its the ones who are very judgmental themselves.

The racists, bigots, homophobes... anyone looking down on anyone else especially if they're traditionally been marginalized in our society.

Yeah thats hyocritical. you should be more empathetic to judgmental people

Yeah its hypocritical but who cares?

No its not hypocritical. judgmental people deserve to be judged

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6 mo

everyone is judgmental but im talking about the ones that judge those for things people cannot control like their skin color, or how the look etc. i have low tolerance for them and will judge them.

[KhunMike]

Not at all. There's an actual "MAN" on here whose life has been destroyed by Trump. lol

Can you even imagine a woman wanting to marry a pussy like him? Grow the fuck up. Biden will bring on WWIII and this Nancy-Boy will be crying about Trump.

"Trump said he could grab a pussy. What if it's my pussy"?

"Trump wants to drill for oil. Why can't we just beg for oil from our enemies?"

[goaded]

You can't tolerate intolerance.

[Still-alive]

Yup exactly

[thegreenyogi]

That depends on how you perceive judgment. Usually we tend to make assumptions or judgments on things we don't really know and if that's the case aren't we all judgmental people?

It's just human nature and the only difference is that there are people who do it less or more than others.

[Still-alive]

I feel im pretty precise and accurate about judging judgmental types. Its a skill you learn over time.

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you for the MHO!!

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Nope. Not being judgmental doesn't mean not judging anyone ever. It means not judging people for who they are. U can def judge them for being a peice of shit.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Someone judgmental will meet their maker, so I just ignore them and let them go on with their life, but I do pray for them and wish them the best.

[loveslongnails]

The great Will Rogers said: "Everybody's ignorant, only on different subjects".
I can imagine him saying, were he alive today:
"Everybody's judgmental, only to different degrees."

We judge one another all the time. Sometimes you'll hear people say: " Judge the action, not the actor", or if you prefer "judge the sin, not the sinner". In my opinion, that only applies if the action is not extreme in the observer's eyes. Once it crosses a certain line, the action AND the person become one.

[Potteplante]

I view it this way.

As you mention - then we're all judgmental, it's about being aware of WHY we are being such. I'm judgmental of racist, homophomes, ableist - not because who they are (can't be helped) but how they choose to be (active choice, actions). A racist, homophobe, ableist - they're hating on people for something that they can not control.

I feel no guilt for being human - and as a human I'm judgmental at times, I just try to be aware of it.

[Sour-rose]

Honestly no buuut... there was no "other".

It isn't hypocritcal because humans judge and... everyone in their life has. But what makes one different is will they try to understand them? Probably not. :c

[serious_miss419]

That’s not uncommon for a home life for most youth/kids. You ain’t alone. Are you progressing in any healing?

[Still-alive]

healing? i don't understand.

[menina]

No, it's not at all. In fact, it's the right thing to do. These kind of people deserve to be judged, they suck.

[Hanrej]

Yes. That means you're also judgmental but hide it better.