Yea that seems kinda sketchy. If she was truly interested why would she plan something else at the same time? Plus also have another guy there too, and him holding her from behind :S Seems kind of obvious what was going on there. I don't think what she did to you was right. She should have at least told you she either had another date, or was busy that night or that something came up. Instead of just not really addressing it and showing up somewhere you were by mistake.
I would have just taken her aside and asked her straight up. Say that you were really looking forward to the date. Find out who this guy is, perhaps she was talking with him at the same time and got suckered into the date and didn't know what to do. I would give her the benefit of the doubt until you find out the whole truth here. But don't let your guard down completely.
She should have come to you, but if she is still talking to you, I would at least talk to her about it. It could have been a big misunderstanding. But I completely understand your disappointment and that's why I think you should ask for some answers. At least then you can know what happened and make a decision based on that information :)
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She seems a bit needy not to mention dishonest. I would run away from that...
she seems like she was two timing you a lil. but did you ask one of her freinds about the dude and her? somtimes the girls friends can help you out.
regardless she was acting a little shaddy but instead of being rude you should have tried to explain what you were thinking and see if she could explain her actions.
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