What would you think or assume about a 28 year old female that lives with her grandparents?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because society is extremely narrow-minded, superficial and judgmental and will judge based on your answers to their questions about your age, status, job etc instead of your actual personality. This is avoid sharing personal information with most people, unless I know them well. It's considered extremely negative for an adult to be living with their parents or grandparents, once you're past a certain age. In Eastern societies, this isn't the case, as there's a large percentage of people, who live in the same home with their parents.

I don't really see it as a problem either as long as both parties are able to have a healthy relationship. Actually it can be very smart financially, especially if you live in an area where housing prices are ridiculous. I find it really annoying how in the states people assume that because you live with your parents, you don’t cook or do laundry or anything around the house.

[Asker]

Agree so much with this!!

[FreyaRed]

Not uncommon here, she helps them, when the Ferryman drives them over Styx she inherits their real estate.

[Asker]

I can sense people have an opinion over me living with them and don’t know what they’re thinking. I’m unsure whether I’ll inherit anything. I’d rather them be alive

[Lliam]

It shouldn't be an issue. It wouldn't bother me. I might even admire her for being a caring person and helping them out, and also for being in a good situation for saving money for the future. Plus, grandparents have a lifetime of experiences and she's lucky to gain insights from them.

[Asker]

I know it’s so much more interesting talking to older people than people my age with little life experience. I learn so much. Just seems I’m always greeted with the same reaction when I say I live with my grandparents. Silence and I sense they’re judging or thinking hard about it. I don’t know what they could judge about it

[DrPepper12]

Are they healthy? Are you still in school? Is it for financial reasons? Do you have private entrance and are treated like an adult? Lots question to be answered to have a sincere answer

[MzAsh]

Depends on who is supporting who.

[Asker]

Work full time and help them just wondering why people go silent when I say I live with them

[MzAsh]

They probably assume you’re living like a kid and not the one paying the bills.

[Asker]

Ok makes sense

[Asker]

I pay bills

[MzAsh]

Is it your house or your grandparents house?

[Asker]

Theirs

[OtterMan68]

depends on the situation

[mickeysmonkey]

Maybe she is helping them

[Asker]

I help them just don’t understand why people go silent when I say I live with them. I wonder what they’re thinking

[mickeysmonkey]

They may think you are living off them

[Asker]

They know I work full time though

[NetherlandsNar]

Nothing