Anyone dislikes women who act like they are still young?

Question

I see old wrinkly women in their 40s and 50s thinking they are 20. It creeps me out.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

It used to bother me but as I talked with more older people and simply observed them and while observing my aging parents, I seen and noticed many of them don’t feel “old” or like they should change what they usually like. Some when they were younger loved to follow trends so you see them following that as they age. Newest iPhone. They know how to use!

My dad said recently he couldn’t believe sometimes how he looked. Seeing himself in a photo, he had a brief moment of wondering who that “old guy” was, but didn’t feel that was him.

Another guy I used to talk to said he still felt he was in his 30s while being double that.

Especially if they’re adaptive and social and talk and are able to hold conversations with younger demographics, then they don’t get outdated too much. The only thing is they may like stuff we may not have heard of and such. Or stuff before our time.

I just let them be. Age is just a number, not so much a mindset u til later, later, and it doesn’t affect everybody.

Just cause someone IS and older age doesn’t mean they have to dress like it or fit a stereotype. Though some may 🤷‍♀️. It really depends. I’d say 1% are acting. Some are just being themselves. The 1% are the ones who refuse to age so they just do stuff that isn’t really like them. They adopt younger and newer stuff and maybe childish stuff. But who are we to judge? 🤷‍♀️ I may do the same when I get to that age. I don't know how I’ll think then, but I’m confident I’ll just continue to be myself 😂.

Being self means sometimes being constant and unchanged or slightly changed, but following trends is what changes people. They assume that means being young so they always need the latest stuff. Instead of sticking to what has always worked for them.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Ok, so the facts are that folks in their 50s-70s, let’s say, are constantly encouraged to keep up physical activity and diet and social activities to stay fit and healthy. (It helps prevent certain health issues, Emory loss, etc etc etc.) Some people naturally still LOOK under 50, so while they may SEEM like they’re acting younger than they are, it’s simply accidental bc they’re well-preserved.

Having said this, folks in their 40s (and higher) shouldn’t DRESS like they’re still in their 20s, pretend they can still poach partners in their early 20s, etc etc. Grow up a little. There’s lots to do with folks your age.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

You know it shouldn't creep me out, but it does.

Usually when that happens it means that it's caused by an instinct. So I suspect there is some underlying instinct that comes from nature that makes me (and others) feel that way. I can't immediately identify what that instinct might be, but if I had time to give it some thought I'm sure I could.

Most likely has to do with reproduction as most of these instincts do since reproduction is nature's most important value. Maybe something to do with the fact that the older woman is not fertile and is impersonating a woman who is.

That may not be exactly it but offhand it seems like it might be pretty close.

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

Get a grip , wrinkly old women in their 40’s & 50’s ? These women ARE STILL YOUNG. You should remember that getting older is a privilege.. Not a right !!

Anyone dislike immature women who act like they are the only ones allowed to have fun?

MzAsh · Answer

What kind of things are they doing?

avery58 · Answer

So what's wrong if they act "20" if 20 year olds can be mature? And what about the 20 year olds that act like immature teenagers (always partying with no responsibilities? There are many)

They're not doing anything wrong as long as they are mature, they don't have to change their personality for anyone.

I still watch anime even though I'm an adult, and I'm not asking nor care for anyone's opinion about that. Nor will I stop watching something I enjoy as I get older (when I reach my 30's or 40's) for something as stupid as what others may think.

Don't worry, you'll get to their age sooner than you think too.

SphynxUK · Answer

I don’t dislike any woman who is simply being herself, wearing what she wants to and living her life as she chooses. My guess is they’re in that sweet spot where children are grown, they have worked and have a healthy amount of wealth to use and more free time.
I am 51. I don’t have wrinkles. I dress in clothes that suit me and have a young outlook. My children love my stylish edgy dress sense. That doesn’t mean I act childishly or am immature. I can’t help having good genes. My mum looks 20 years younger than she is and dresses well. She needn’t be in flowery dresses and cardigans, just because you would prefer it! At this age she, or myself don’t need to please anyone except ourselves and we no longer gaf what other people think. Live and let live.

Loner111 · Answer

I remember this 41 yr old woman I had a thing with for a very short time act like she was that young...

She would slide down in a chair to where her ass was in the air, but her head was where ur ass should go on a chair while she was texting someone and smiling.

She would hop around when we would go for a run like she was a little girl because she was so excited.

Maybe it was because she was hanging out with me... Not sure.

But when she wanted to act like a grown woman, she did and was a completely different person.

It was kind of cute... But, I really disliked how quick she would act like a different person at random... Which was one of a few reasons why I ended it.

Good riddance :).

I wouldn't mind an older woman acting like she's in her 20s, but just pick a personality, don't fluctuate between acting young and then just like that, act like a grown 'im a responsible adult' personality.

PhenomenalQueen · Answer

Yes! My ex’s aunt is in her late 50s pushing early 60s and she still moves and dates around like as if she’s in her 30s. I find it to be absolutely ridiculous especially because she’s already a great grandma.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

The midlife crisis isn’t just for men anymore. Unfortunately, you are in the minority. Older women who refuse to act their age are glorified for “living their best life” and being brave & empowered.
Meanwhile, men doing the same things are cringey at best; usually creepy and gross. They always have been.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

What are they doing? Having fun? Are we supposed to just like stop having fun when we hit a certain age? What 🥴😤 mind your damn business. It's everyone's first time living. Let them do what they want.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

When someone talks about older folks acting like they’re in their 20’s, I usually end up thinking of drunk partying in which case my response is “alcoholism doesn’t have an age limit.”
It’s either that or just people enjoying stuff that young people just also happen to like. In which case, why get mad about someone being happy?

GeminiDiamond · Answer

I have a younger sister, 24. We like taking our mother out, 57, for a lady's night out. I think it's great seeing her have fun and letting loose. Especially after a few dry Martis, she can starting being a wild kitty.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I do not care. They are but harming anyone. Let people live

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

It depends. An older woman who still has a lot of energy and likes to go out and do things makes me optimistic.

a woman who’s 40 and acts like she’s 25 makes me think she did too many hard drugs as a kid

Surely · Answer

OMG! You are over halfway to the Big 5 oh! Better hurry up and party.
Their children are probably grown and now they can have some “their time!” If they still have it. Why not flaunt it?
Besides, you should be responsible parents in your child bearing years.

Neatfinity_YT · Answer

Yes, or no, it depends on how much they’re doing it how they’re doing it and why they’re doing it there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be young everyone wants to be young but if you are delusional and believe that you are when you’re clearly not that’s the issue

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

If when in my 40's-50's I can feel like I'm half my age, I'm taking full advantage of it while if course imparting the knowledge and experience I've gained in my lifetime.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

No. Feeling young is great, so I'd never blame them. I'm almost 25 and I don't even feel that age. I might be 18 mentally at best, but no clue, still could be 12. But I do whatever I need to do, so it's fine with me.

Apple1996 · Answer

It only bothers me when people like 35+ are still going our drinking, smoking and partying like they are still young. At some point they gotta stop all that and start caring for their health

Anonymous · Answer

There's a line. As long as she doesn't cross it she's OK. If 20 you mean showing far too much skin, overly flirtatious, etc. Then yeah, that's creepy AF. But I woman thats like in her 40's or 50's that likes going to concerts, music festivals etc. I consider to just be full of life and fun loving.

Getting older doesn't mean you have to stop having fun. Getting older just mean being able to balance it with responsibilities.

Makeushiver · Answer

We will all be there soon enough so you might want to come to terms with that sooner rather than later. The woman shown in accompanying photo is your example of old than I'm all for it as she is beautiful & sexy.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i am 44. i don't feel 20 physically, but mentally i feel young. i don't see why that should bother anyone. it certainly doesn't stop the 20 yr olds from sucking this cyock!

Avicenna · Answer

Chronological age does not always match maturity level or even biological age

MisterWack · Answer

No, let people be people if it isn’t harming others. If they are catfishing or whatever then that is awful since honesty is best policy.

FreyaRed · Answer

Their choice, their business. I don't really care

AviatorTom · Answer

40s and 50s is barely middle-aged today. Why can't they enjoy life the way they want? If you don't like it, just look the other way.

loveslongnails · Answer

Wrinkly "old women" in their 40's? That's not old. LOL Well, anytime someone dresses like they're 20 years younger and can't pull it off, it looks weird, dude.

MacDaddyRico · Answer

Old wrinkly 40's and 50's? LOL! "Thinking they are 20"... what are you, a mind reader? You have issues with age... are you afraid one day YOU'LL be "old and wrinkly"?

Serkee · Answer

It doesn't bother me at all. It's weird, sure, but weird isn't necessarily bad.

coachTanthony · Answer

Exactly how dare they try and compete we all know women love older men anyways

paledreams · Answer

I think some women who are 30s plus should not still act like 20 at 30 or act like 20 at 40 lol 😆

Kelly6 · Answer

@hurremsultan I'm 40, so I can't have fun and enjoy at beach and drink and go to party at beach?

Bricealan · Answer

Yes, I just dumped one that thinks she is still 22.

SotiCoto · Answer

I couldn't care less about that specifically.  ... Well, unless acting young means making noise. I hate noise.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Also women w red or blue hair, or other hair colors w nose piercings. Facial piercings. Cow ring through their nose.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

So... what are the behavioral privileges of a "still young" person, that others don't have?

Anonymous · Answer

do you mean the moms on OnlyFans whose kids get mocked and ridiculed because of her OnlyFans?

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Each to their own , if it makes a woman feel good leave them be

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

LMBO. what a funny question and comment. 😂 And I don't care.

Minky17 · Answer

Maybe they have autism.

Dreamclouds · Answer

Yes of course sometimes, most of times can be too much

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Some disturbing but at the end of the day we all are young inside so just be it

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Not at all. I admire them

Med_guy1978 · Answer

It depends on what they are doing?

RavVid · Answer

It creeps everybody out.

exitseven · Answer

It is good to act like you are young.

sheikalana · Answer

I don’t hate them but it’s cringe to me.

Samantha_17 · Answer

Nope if she is Jane Fonda..! :)

Babygirl_S · Answer

They have the right to enjoy their life

CubaPirate · Answer

Sheep 🐑 dressed as lamb lol

serious_miss419 · Answer

You seem worse

eagle1951 · Answer

yeah

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