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I have regrets regarding what I did.
I do not have regrets regarding what I did.
I have never done anything wrong towards anyone.
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What is the worst thing you have done to someone? Do you regret it?
I've done a lot of things to people I don't regret cause it's just how it went and I don't do things to people for no reason except two moments where I know I fucked up and it's the things I regret, I'm not going to go anon and chicken out of taking responsibility for it, the first is when I was beefing with Mexicans I had Mexican oppositions and th whole thing was fresh, I was chatting with a girl that was supposedly German until one time she sent me a picture and in the background I saw an azteca flag in her room, I got paranoid and threatened her, thing is where I'm at women set up men, they chat earn trust then when they go and meet up, a group pop up and shoot up the person they set up, which I thought maybe that was happening to me, til this day I'm still not sure what her deal is but she cut me off, as id expect , I don't know if its cause I caught her or cause she was genuine and i fucked up, i still regret it cause i want to think she was genuine, the other was that I broke a promise that I'd be there for someone always, I regret breaking that promise but I hope that this person doesn't need me for shit and is living their best life rn, that is what's keeping me sane about that rn 😂
I dumped my 2nd girlfriend. She didn't deserve it. I was her first boyfriend and we lost our virginity together. She was a good girl.
What happened was that she was starting college and she just didn't seem into me or spending time together. At her high school graduation, it seemed like she blew me off a bit. (We were together about 20 months at that point.) Meanwhile, a girl who I crushed on since she and I were 8, reached out to me and invited me over to her place for Thanksgiving. I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend, so, with much trepidation, I ended it.
Do I regret it? Many times, I think yes - I threw away a decent life. At the same time, I felt a bit lacking in my relationship - my girlfriend was not really the kind of girl I wanted at that time. Looking back, I realize that is still a bit true, but she had a lot of other things going for her that I was too young to realize were good for a relationship.
We still stay in touch, but I often regret what I did. In a way, I think I've been punished ever since and it's been almost 38 years since I ended it.
@Staximus No, it wasn't like that at all - more like... I don't know how to explain it exactly - teen girl bullshit. And, no, she didn't go away to college; she attended a local college.
When I was 16 I backed into another car in the school parking lot with my mom’s car and put a big dent in the bumper and my friend who was my passenger told me to drive off. Later that day I told the cop that was working at my school. She assessed the damage and my mom was called. The cop decided to not call it a hit and run as I did report it. Thankfully there was no damage to the other car as it was a lifted pick up truck and I hit the rubber part of the tire. Since it was my fault I had to take the bus for 2 weeks and pay for a new bumper. I totally regret it but I took it as a learning experience. I never had another incident like that again.
I bullied and hit a disabled girl because my cousin was doing it and told me to do so. I feel so guilty and even cry about it. I was hardly 8 years old and my cousin was already a teenager. She is evil.
I think the person I've wronged the most is myself:
Pursuing friendships with people who were toxic... to help them
Taking on tasks and helping in order to "earn" love
Not speaking up when people are jerks
Blaming myself when I make mistakes of any kind
Calling myself an idiot
Having extremely high expectations of myself that I don't have for others
I regret it. And I'm working through it. It's difficult to break the pattern, though.
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My ex and I were together for years. I was too much of a doormat and let him do whatever he wanted without repercussions. Then we broke up. Suddenly, he wanted to take the kids and move across the country when he had never shown an interest in them before. Lied about me up and down in court.
Instead of just taking it like I had done for the decade prior, I fought back. Kept my kids. Ruined his life apparently. He is homeless now.
I sometimes feel badly about what happened to him. If I had just rolled over, he would have some support (and my kids). Then I remember that he brought it all on himself by assuming that, after the break-up, I wouldn't stand up for myself
I did a terrible thing recently but from cold and rational perspective it was only option. I wish no one to make such decision but someone had to do it and I was psychologically and emotionally best suited person among people who were involved in that.
Had sex with a friends’ wife and lost his friendship from it , and split up their marriage , I kind of regretted what I did , but I was kind of happy for what I did , the sex was amazing , not going to lie but I eventually realized the girl was mentally unstable , so I kind of felt like I did him a favor lol
No, I wouldn’t go that far that’s my blood , this friend wasn’t a close friend , he was just more of an acquaintance over anything, I knew it was wrong but she kept insisting and wanted to be with me , so I was very attracted to her and let her have her way with me. You would probably do the same thing if it happened to you , if your somewhat friends’ girlfriend or wife showed up at your door step wearing sexy lingerie wanting you to fuck her , don’t tell me you would t fuck her , that’s pretty much what happened to me , now if he was a close friend , someone I considered like a brother to me , then I would of told her No and stopped her ,
I was just joking about your brothers wife… hell yea I would fuck the majority of my friends wife in the ass if given the chance. Not a drop of regret either… I mean, your only young for a while
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Got a couple of people committing suicide, even killed a couple of people. One was self defence, the other a car accident. Fired a few people, as well down the years.
Not sure "regret" is the word to use as it wasn't wrong, but circumstance.
Probably the worst thing I've ever done to someone else was accidentally get them in the wrong crowd.
I had a friend I knew from playing pick up football who was maybe 28 (I was 16), and he showed up to the fields one day and I invited him to join my game. Most of the guys there were drug dealers, but they respected me and had stopped offering me drugs so I thought they would respect him to. It turns out that my friend had struggled with drugs in the past, and he figured out pretty quickly that they were dealers. He ended up leaving with them even though I followed him for a bit telling him not to leave with them. I never saw him again, and ended up tracking down one of those dealers and asking if he knew what had happened. Turns out that my friend OD'd that night.
It wasn't "my fault," but I did play a part in it. Definitely one of my bigger regrets in life.
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There was a guy that screwed me over. He owned a Corvette and had it registered out of state because the insurance was a lot cheaper and he did not have to pay sales tax. I called the Registry of Motor vehicles and reported him. A few weeks later I drove by his house and the Corvette was gone. I do not know how it all ended up.
I rejected one of the nicest girls I've ever met, for another girl who wasn't nice but was beautiful.
It was more than a decade ago and I still regret it to this day, not only because I missed that opportunity, but also because I know I've hurt her.
Good thing is that today she's with someone nice and is living a good life.
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When I was in high school there was this kid who'd bully me every day. One day his dad committed suicide. And I thought, "well he won't" bully me today. And I went to school and just like any other day he started bullying me. So I asked him, "hey how's your dad doing". That totally wiped the smile off his face. He just walked away.
The only thing I can think of is when I unwittingly played a part in a woman getting fired from our work place. I can't say I regret it since she deserved it and I didn't make the decision.
I've made serious mistakes in the past not concerning fidelity but who I threw out of my life, who I let back in, and who I should have dropped like a bad habit.
@abc3643 what I did. Like I said, there was no coercion or forcing, but it was obvious she gave up and went along because it would have been less an hassle.
I threw pots at my exes head and face during post partum after he was abusive first and I kicked him out to sleep in his car after he drugged me to try to force me to have sex.
Lost the love and ended my best Relationship after one year. I have regrets about that. In the other hand, she apparently slept with 3 pervy random friends of her brother to get back at me, if that's true I'm happy to be rid of her.
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