Do you ever find yourself wondering how is it this year, and why am I not anywhere near where I wanted my life to be at this point?

[Anonymous]

The only thing going reasonably well for me is I have a pretty decent amount of money. I'm not rich, but it's not something I need to super stress over.

Other than that.. I'm 35 and not married... and I would've never dreamed I'd be alone at this point. I need to do something different.. maybe be more assertive with where I look for women and be more outgoing and all that than I have been. I am also still at home because I don't know where I want to live. :( And I need to figure that out. I don't think the state I am in really has what I need in the longrun, but I don't want to leave some elements of my family (although I don't really have much of it), so I am conflicted there.

I also thought I'd be the Republican nominee for President this year, and be a Senator or Governor at this point. I feel like Trump has stolen my year and my moment, and it makes me super sad that we are five days away from a moment I imagined in my head from... middle school probably. :/

[strateguy632]

35 is too young to nominate president but try for state legislature.

I don't feel that way because i am independent of parents.

My own place and a nice hi tec job. Mission accomplished. I never aimed higher just realistic.

[Asker]

JD was nominated for VP at 39 and barely in the US Senate

[lightbulb27]

sure, but life goes up and down, changes here and there. appreciate what you have, seek opportunity. I guarantee change. go seek opportunities.

let go of the confusion and embrace opportunity.

[exitseven]

If you are 35 and still living with mom and pop it wasn;t president Trump that has ruined your life. You need to figure out exactly what you want in life, make a plan and take that first step.