What can you do when someone has already made up their mind not to understand you?

[sage2021]

So no matter if you are defending yourself by trying to explain things - they had already made up their mind that no matter what you say, they will stand their ground even in the face of being wrong.
I have decided to go silent 😶 on them and save myself and my dignity.
Some people just cannot admit when THEY are wrong and make YOU the problem. It's called projection. They are projecting what is wrong with them and making a switch to make YOU sound like the problem when in reality they are screwed up.

[Genie23]

Happened to me. Broke my heart. I felt not only frustrated but also helpless as he was my best friend. I eventually just decided it's not worth putting efforts and trying to explain to someone who isn't willing to listen and made up their mind. So, I walked away.

I think maybe you should give them some time and see if they contact you.. if/when they do, try to clear things but if they don't, it's best to just walk away.

[Genie23]

Thank you for MHO!

[OlderAndWiser]

I would suggest that they let me know if and when they are willing to talk like a reasonable adult, and then I would disappear from their life.

[Surely]

Is this the new definition of a Democrat?

[sage2021]

@Surely

Yes, I guess it is a good definition for the Democrats but actually this just happened to me with someone who we've been messaging every single day for 10 months and that Saturday he messaged me that I am his guardian angel and by Tuesday I was the 😈 and suddenly had issues with my thinking 🤔 hummmm... He turned on me like a pitbull and I don't even know why but I'm done with him because there's nothing wrong with MY mind but there's something definitely wrong with HIS mind.
He only had to say that to me ONE time and I blocked him! I'm not going to believe that B. S.! The silent treatment he gets for infinity now.

[Surely]

Maybe he is using his new attitude to get rid of you account of making room for someone else.

[sage2021]

@Surely
Just listen to the first few minutes of this video and this is exactly what happened to me. 🙄

https://youtu.be/tpJ3V8p1joo?si=kQ3PoNEZHNNJaH6y

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO!

[astralpro300]

thats very frustrating situation so i definetly feel you , my advice would be try to talk to them why their ignoring me if they get defensive/agresive now then i move on and ignore

[sage2021]

@astralpto300

I did just what you said but not for long and then I was done!!

[ilistengood]

You mean like in the great taste of pussy debate ( tastes great, less filling..)

[NathanDavis]

I keep walking...

[Anonymous]

You can either ignore them, or be patient, and try to explain.

[wkhan_87]

Ignore them , and leave on their way

[FenixG45]

Report, Block and Delete are your friends!

[Anonymous]

In that case you should mind your own business