
Sexual abuse crimes often go unpunished because the victims are afraid or unwilling to report the abuse. The following is a list of five obstacles that the victims of sexual abuse have to overcome in order to come forward.
1. Trauma: Coming forward about sexual abuse often evokes painful memories that the victim does not want to relive.
2. Guilt: Sadly, it’s common for the victims of sexual abuse to blame themselves for the abuse. They might believe that their situation could have been avoided for various reasons; if they had not flirted, if they had not been under the influence of drugs or alcohol, if they had not been in a place they weren’t supposed to be, etc.
3. Fear of Punishment or Reprisal: Victims might worry that by coming forward about being sexually abused there will be punishment for things they did at the time of the abuse (e. g., breaking curfew, consuming drugs or alcohol, pursuing premarital/extramarital sex, etc.). When sexual abuse happens in the workplace, there is often concern that coming forward can impact their job or career.
4. Fear of Stigma: Sadly, many victims of sexual abuse remain silent because they worry how others will treat them once they know. They worry they will be permanently labeled as “damaged goods,” weak, promiscuous, dishonest, or as a trouble-maker. Cultural and religious reasons can also cause fear of being ostracized from their community.
5. Fear that They Won’t Be Believed: Victims often stay silent because they do not have full faith that anyone will believe them. They might worry they will even be blamed for the abuse, because of what they wore, what they did or said, their state of intoxication, or other reasons, despite the fact they did not or could not give consent. In other situations, the victim might believe that the authority figures (e. g., police, workplace administration, parents, etc.) to whom they would report the abuse are not reliable.
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