Is it a foolish thing to look for a true love in America?

[Anonymous]

It seems that everything is about sex and money.

[aaron13547]

Lol it's foolish to look for true love in people. I see it like to love someone is to give someone else power over your happiness. Thats a foolish thing when you they don't give it back... we love flowers because they give they don't take. When you have allergies from smelling it and you sneeze and feel bad. The flower is taking your energy now. And that makes you not like the flowers... People give and take a lot, change a lot, so to expect to love someone all the time is foolish. Love is not foolish the idea Americans have of what love is, is foolish. Looking for True love is not. It's just hidden in plain site you don't find it, it finds you. It's in America just maybe not in "americaized" people. Like you point out with desire for sex and money.

[msc545]

Everything IS about sex and money in the US - these are the effects of Capitalism.

[msc545]

Looking for love here is futile in addition to being foolish and a waste of time

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you think you will only ever be happy in romantic love, do not search for it because you will always be miserable

[loveyouoak]

It's not just in america. It's the same everywhere.

[Anonymous]

I've pretty much given up on the idea of finding a young woman to love after becoming bitter to the fact that most women want to "have their fun" having hookups and friends with benefits with hot guys while they're young and desirable, then they start looking for good suckers like me in their 30s. I absolutely refuse to be involved with any non-virgin women for relationship, so basically occasional sex is my only goal. I've given up looking for the relationship.

[slatyb]

Not at all. There are plenty of men here, and if you are a reasonable person, there are partners for you.

[DonaldDarko]

That kind of "true love" is about reproduction not love. It evolved that way. If there is love it's a coincidence.

[DryGermanGuy]

And power! You mustn’t forget power! 🧐

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah. Our dating culture is retarded

[MasterKS]

yes big foolish, true love not exist.