Why do some people think women can't be happy and confident single?

[Anonymous]

I'm truly happy and confident single. Most importantly at peace. Best I've ever looked my entire life and focused and healed. Yet some people think a woman can't be happy if she's not married or in a relationship. Are we still living in 1823?

[ohsheeT]

2026. And you are 100%, right? And that's the whole key to life when you can find that peace and become that peace that you're seeking. In become it then you are going to have it. All you are going to feel good. You're going to look good. Everything about you is going to be good because you know exactly who you are because you know how long it took you to get there to find that place

That's one thing you should already know by now. It doesn't matter what other people think are say

And the reason why is because when they say something they create drama , and they try to bring you right into their world , their level , their everything , and when you have that piece , you don't allow that

You\nDon't need to be married. You don't have to do anything that anybody says you do what you want to say you are the boss of you if you want to be single and you want to go out and get laid one night, guess what? You can do because you are the boss of you. It's nobody else's business , what you do

And instead of talking you are trying to tell you you're not happy , which how do they know they don't live inside you , but when they try to tell you that it's because they're not happy and instead of looking at you in a negative way , they should be hugging , you saying , thank you for teaching me something


But our world isn't like that. They go the complete opposite. I say congratulations, I think it's great, I think you've done a wonderful job and I think you are powerful. You are exciting because you found your way there and you're living? I think that's beautiful

[DextroShade]

She isn't going to reward you with sex because you are here simping for her.

[ohsheeT]

Yeah. To be honest that's what I was doing was being honest. I really don't need to simpme me. That's the best part about me. I don't need to manipulate to get what I want. So don't be jealous

[DonaldDarko]

They say that shit about men too. I'm single on purpose as well and practice celibacy for philosophical reasons of my own. People want to look at you odd and call you incel or femcel if you're a girl I guess. I like being this way and see being with women as predictable instinct driven behavior of the masses. I want to find something beyond that in life. I could find a woman, even easier a long string of them to just have sex like some reptile. I didn't arrive here via trauma or bad relationships. I arrived here by long drawn out thinking and reading over decades. It bought me to a Schopenhauer mindset in a lot of ways. I'm glad I'm like I am now.

[midnightmoon05]

As long as you are that’s all it matters… no?

i m happily married… with a beautiful family. Kids growing to becoming wonderful adults.

I have seen enough cat men/wimrn… talk to their pets… act like their pets lol

i have also met plenty 50-70 years old lonely and sad … no one checking on them. Some broke…

it’s yiur life… your choice.
I picked happily married ❤️

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you've reached Singlehood Mastery where your internal validation is so high that the external noise just sounds like background static.

Often, people who can't fathom being happy alone are the ones who fear their own company. Seeing you confident and at peace challenges their belief that a relationship is a safety net for happiness.

Good luck.

[Asker]

You're absolutely correct and get it. Thank you! 🫶🏽

[Jersey2]

From Artificial Intelligence:

Group "Very happy" % (approx., various years) Notes|
|------------------------------|------------------------------------------|-------|
Married with children 35–41% Often highest|
Married, no children 25–30% Solid, but lower than parents in some data|
Unmarried, childless 20–25% Lower on average than married, but many are content|
Unmarried with children 15–20% Often lowest|

Most people (married or not) fall into "pretty happy" rather than "very happy" or unhappy. The differences exist but aren't massive for everyone—individual factors like health, income, relationships quality, personality, and social support matter far more than marital status alone.

[DextroShade]

Sounds like cope to me. The truth is:

• Women like yourself aren't actually independent, you still depend on men to do the vast majority of things that you can't do yourself.
• The Jew daycare that you call your "career" isn't actually necessary for society to function and you are only getting paid to be there because they don't want to have a family like you are supposed to.
• Spinsters like yourself are always a net drain on society, and we are running out of money and won't be to indulge the insanity of worthless parasites like yourself for much longer.
• Notice how men almost never brag about being "independent" or not needing a woman because they would be ridiculed as fucking losers, which is what spinsters are.

[Miristheiss]

It goes 100% against how God designed you. It is total rebellion against the way you were designed.

Let me guess... your are still having lots of marriage-less, childless, hedonistic sex with lots of men you are not married to? You are not alone. Just a degenerate.

[Berethor]

You been in a relationship in the past? anyway if you prefer cats over men it your choice.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Crazy_Cat_Lady

[Asker]

I actually would prefer cats over men. Good day!

[David318578]

Its not that you can't be happy, lots of things can make you happy, but there is a difference between being happy and truly fulfilled.

Studies have shown that a carrier fulfillment is a shadow of a life fulfilment. Most women are much much happier being a mother and being in a loving relationship.

Does that mean that you personally would be much happier with a family? Only you could answer that and you will never know unless you go that route.

[RavVid]

The same reason people think men can't be happy single even though they get it is more peaceful and calm.

A lot of women end up wanting babies though. Part of that might be that there comes a point when it is now or never.

[capriVib]

She may fall for the illusion of short term happiness, but as she gets older, particularly after 45, the need for a man's presence becomes unavoidable.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think it's because when people speak in general terms it's hard to account for all the special cases. Maybe you're one of them.

[Fruitpunch1789]

Because typically women who are single for long periods of time are usually ones that are unstable. If you're happy being alone, that's fine, but that's on you.

[Dargil]

There is no reason that they cannot be content. If were single, I know that I could be content.

[MrChinaski]

Haters gonna hate. Don't break your stride for them.

[Anonymous]

I guess you could technically be happy but will that happiness be long term? Usually people want relationships and ultimately kids as long term goals and working towards them gives them a sense of purpose.

[Anonymous]

Because most can't. The posts of women all over the internet kind of bear that out. That doesn't mean that every woman. As long as you're honest with yourself that's all that matters.

[msc545]

Because when they're single, they never have enough money to suit them.

[noohair]

You have become a whole happy person. You will make the best partner. All the best and good luck...

[blackeagle007]

If that’s what they want, who cares then

[Pohjolan]

They are projecting.

[Anonymous]

Because women are never happy

[beefcakebradybatson]

Sexism !!!