Why don’t your 30s feel magical like your 20s are supposed to?

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K_I_ngD_I_ck Follow
Xper 1 Age: 34

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Priorities change. Goals change. In your 20s you care about fun only. In your 30s you find out you want a family, carrier etc. Changing your goals and habits is hard.
Friends get married and get washed away in the life routine.
Energy levels are not the same. You need to work out and eat right to maintain energy.

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- Asker
  
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  But women in their 30s without kids are in the same boat as those in 20s. So why does it feel different?
  
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- K_I_ngD_I_ck
  
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  You might not like the answer but a woman in her 30s will feel like in a race. She has to meet Mr. nice guy and get married, have kids while she is still fertile. All of this within the first 5 years of hitting 30 makes it hard and puts pressure on the woman. Not to mention giving up the "fun" and irresponsible part of her life.
  
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- Asker
  
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  I’m not in a race I just don’t understand why I don’t enjoy things and feel bored all the time
  
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- nastyb
  
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  @K_I_ngD_I_ck
  
  I have seen men desperate and under pressure to marry in their mid to late 30s as well. Society just assumes this is something that only affects women. But my advice to men is... just because you have life long fertility, it does not mean women will always be attracted to you enough to want to have kids with you. Your dating game goes downhill in your 40s too. It only gets worse in 50s. So don't waste your time as well.
  
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Lliam Follow
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My 30s were actually amazing. I was at my peak.
Hell, I got married when I was 42 and still at my peak.

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Guru Age: 35 , mho 50%

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My 30s are magical…. I’m learning a lot about myself and life in general.
My 20s sucked and was nothing close to “magical”

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Anonymous
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30s will only be comfortable if you spent your 20s building yourself.

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  I didn’t say comfortable I said magical
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  @Asker
  
  comfortable and magical are linked. you can't be comfortable unless you are comfortable.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  comfortable and magical are linked. you can't be magical unless you are comfortable.
  
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metabolism stops doing the magical thing it does... lol

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Iron_Man Follow
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They did for me I was still in my prime probably even better

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  Tell me more
  
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  I just felt stronger and more experienced in sports because I was mentally sharper in my 30s then in My 20s
  
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doren680 Follow
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I don't know body pains so much like it's been made to work so much throughout the day and night and weeks

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exitseven Follow
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If you think that is bad wait for your 50s

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- Asker
  
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  What happened then?
  
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- exitseven
  
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  all the magic is gone
  
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- Asker
  
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  Why so?
  
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fishbone77 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 49

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if your life sucks it's your fault

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- Asker
  
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  Can you read? Read my q
  
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- fishbone77
  
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  I just did. again. If it's not "magical" it's your fault.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Too dumb. I am saying that no matter what I do it doesn’t feel magical I travel etc it feels…not magical so I’m assuming it’s an age thing
  
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Anonymous
(18-24)

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That isn’t true for everyone

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jahaims Follow
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Real life isn't a movie

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crazyengineer Follow
Xper 4 Age: 33

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Because of responsibility and maturity

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  The responsibility was there in 20s too I don’t think that’s the main one. Maybe maturity
  
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