Were 30s really supposed to be this way?

[Anonymous]

Am 33 now and it feels like everything is over, and does not excite me.

When i was 15 yo, i had lots of dreams. When i was in my 20s, i loved to dance, alcohol, clubbing...

But now in my 30s, it feels like everything is pointless. And i feel like i am 70 yo. is this really about just being matured now?

I have no goals. And everything i did in my 20s sound so childish and stupid. All i need is health and peace. And waiting for death.

[Miristheiss]

"When i was in my 20s, i loved to dance, alcohol, clubbing..."

Well, at 20 you were a fool. I was foolish a lot too.

You should exercise and be strong. Be fit. Be disciplined. Learn, learn, learn. Learn all you can. Learn USEFUL skills and trades. Work hard, build yourself up. Become useful to society and save and invest.

Learn wisdom, savy, how to carry yourself, how to interact with people. Help others. Surround yourself with wise, successful people. Do not hang out with goof offs, lazy, low character, going no where people. You will end up just like them.

Learn discipline and do not seek short sighted pleasure.

You sound like someone who doesn't have a purpose. Get one.

[Asker]

How do you know I didn't do anything productive goddammit? I got 200 beats and software projects.

[jahaims]

You wasted your time and acted immature in your 20s instead of building. Of course you won't have a sense of accomplishment if you didn't accomplish much.

[Asker]

How do you know bitch? I always improved myself. And created lots of things.

[Simslover92]

I'm just now starting to live in my 30s. I have more freedom and security than I did in my 20s.

[exitseven]

When I was 30 I was married, had 3 kids , was having a new house built and worked all the time. I was too busy to feel sorry for myself.

[DrPepper12]

Aging is a trip ain't it?

[Sal_Monella]

It is up to you to find your purpose in life. Nobody will give it to you.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Over? I'm nearly forty years your senior and don't think everything's over for me !!!

[Anonymous]

Yeah then you have a mid-life crisis and blow out in your 40's

[KostasKouvalis]

You bloomed too early and too quickly

[In_Trance]

Imagine how you'll feel when you're 60