Why do relationship forums judge age-gap couples so inconsistently?

[Mamasssaaan]

Relationship and women's forums are the most hateful when it gets to big age gaps where the older one is a man and younger is under 25 but when it's an older woman, the same women love to support it.

These women's forums have their simps too to support them, they are so cringy.

[Screenwriter]

Maybe these forums are spaces where such people feel safe to discuss their kinks. No one sees their faces, no one in their circle of regular friends can disapprove...

Age gap relationships either way are always beset with problems when you're talking about 15, 20+ years difference unless the two are very similar in every other way than age.

[BlackFalcon03]

Because no matter what women can only be victims even if they are a perpatrator

[Paige2006]

Public reactions depend heavily on the life stage of the partners, power and financial dynamics, gender roles, and online echo chambers rather than a flat rule about numbers.

[Mamasssaaan]

It heavily depends on the gender of the haters too and gender of the older person in the relationship

[Mamasssaaan]

When it gets to these forums

[Shiprex]

They hate to see men get what they want and enjoy their lives.

[audean57]

I personally don't mind and age gap as long as both old enough

[Mamasssaaan]

That's not my question