Dirty, nasty, trashy, disgusting roommates?

[pepper16]

I'm currently in college and I have 3 other roommates. Everyone is cool, but only I clean. Now roommate #1 will help me clean if she sees me cleaning (cool), roommate #2 cleans everything herself so I never have to do her dishes or clean up after she cooks, BUT ROOMMATE #3(trashy) she never cleans, sweeps, mops, do the dishes, take out the trash, etc. What's even worse is that I have to share a bathroom with her. example on nasty things that she does: 1. fried chicken. left the flour, grease, and uncooked chicken and seasonings all over the counter (it was like she literally went through the process and walked off with no hesitation to clean) 2. cooked something again. poured the grease in the sink and stopped it up. (common sense don't put grease in the sink). 3. the most recent one like day before yesterday. This little nasty stopped up the toilet Wednesday. I came back from class and noticed the water was low and the toilet paper so I knew it was stopped up, I went to the other bathroom because I didn't stop it up I will not unclog it. OK so Thursday and Friday pass, still stopped up. Saturday morning I go to shower. tell me why there is sh*t and p*ss on top of the already stopped up toilet. it smells and it's nasty. I REFUSE TO CLEAN THAT MESS. she is not my child and I am not her mother nor the maid. it is taking everything in me to not cuss her out. I keep missing her because she works like me and gets in late, but come Monday when classes start if that sh*t is still there I'ma lose it. ADVICE PLEASE! I do not want to hurt that girl

Updates

+1 y

Ok I approached her and told her that she needs to unclog the toilet and she said..."oh I didn't do it but i"ll unclog it"...

So I asked well who did? I looked at her little boy toy who be coming in wee hours in the night and he said he never uses the bathroom. We had a mystery on our hands.

But be honest if you didn't do it then y would you say yes to cleaning it so easily. somethings up!

[saphirasilverwings]

My suggestion is to organize a meeting. Be tactful, but be honest. They are being slobs and you have every right to be bothered by it. If it was me, I'd probably say something like, "Hi everyone, so I'd like to talk about cleaning today. The kitchen has been really messy, and I feel like I'm the only one who's been cleaning up after myself. I think we should all clean up after ourselves better. It's kind of gross to have the kitchen so dirty all the time. Why don't we come up with an agreement about this?"

I know how you feel because in my apartment, we've had some serious trash/ recycling problems. I finally had to call everyone into the living room and design a chart so we can figure out who's turn it is to take them out. But now everyone keeps putting trash (even food) in the recycling bag, and I've been having to physically remove it. And this is after about 20 notes and signs and instruction sheets all over the place about what goes in the recycling and what doesn't. Ugh...

[saphirasilverwings]

If it's just one roommate who is a problem, discussing it privately with the others and then confronting her together might make a bigger impact (but be nice about it, because it can be upsetting to be singled out).

[pepper01]

its college and you have to get used to living with people who are different than you. I had a digusting roommate last semester in my dorm. her boyfriend and her would have sex while I was in the room, never cleaned and the room smelled HORRIBLE! trash was everywhere and she rarely took a shower. sit her down and let her know how you feel and if that doesn't work than switch rooms or apartments next semester or when your lease is up

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

The 3 of you corner her and threaten to kick her out

[Anonymous]

talk to your RA (resident assistant). I am a RA at my school and we tend to have resources that you may not know about.

[kenyatta]

be like "bitch you need to get it together boo boo" lol jk

but seriously, why don't you guys just have a cleaning day. or split the chores in sections. I had one roommate one time and she left her used tampons on the bathroom sink. and on the floor. and she left waxing strips with her pubs in the shower.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Ewww...That's nasty af!

[kenyatta]

i know right. there is nothing like living by yourself.

[Honeybaby]

Advice:

1) Leave a note addressing the issue (a polite note)

2) Arrange a meeting with all your room mates to address the issue

3) Notify the landlord as to what is happening

4) Worse case - Move out

Under no circumstances would I advise a confrontation with this person

Your safety is paramount.

[Anonymous]

Id freak on her. That's unacceptable. I would go to the deen and have her removed if it continues. Tell her or leave a note saying she needs to fix it or she's out. Because that's disgusting.

[Camilus]

Take a sh*t on her bed.

[pykito-veronique]

Yes.

[Camilus]

Oui.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Wow that's pretty foul, an I'm a guy lol.

[Camilus]

Yeah, it's so foul he is even pinching his nose in his profile pic.